Abused

By Owie
March 17, 2018 12:29pm CST
I have been molested when I was young. Ever since, I've had anxieties and I felt like there's no one who I am able to trust to. Like there's no one there for me. I have been strong my whole life, overcoming everything. I don't want you guys to feel like you're alone. So if you are bothered, you can talk to me. okay?
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17 responses
• Jacksonville, Florida
17 Mar
Everyone here knows they are always welcome to talk to me too. But also, we can all talk to God about anything we go through. He loves us. God isn't the one that causes pain like some people believe. The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy. God loves.
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@mlgen1037 (29647)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Mar
Thank you for the reassurance. I know you had it tough but you are strong and brave. It is very comforting that someone is there to listen.
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18 Mar
Yes Louise! I will make time to listen, respond, and interact in ways I could. I have been vulnerable and I don't want others to feel that way.
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@mlgen1037 (29647)
• Manila, Philippines
18 Mar
@owieXOXO thank you. It is not always we meet people who are willing to listen and be there when we are at our lowest and vulnerable time.
18 Mar
@mlgen1037 I know. Even if you have so many friends, there are just times when you're afraid to be a bother them. Especially when they judge you and your past.
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@sprite1950 (14498)
• Corsham, England
17 Mar
That's terrible. I hope you find someone you can confide in. It never happened to me or my children and I'm very protective of my granddaughter. It's nice that you want to help others,
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18 Mar
My mom got it worse. She was raped by her own cousins 5 times and all her parents said was "That's because you're b*tch" and they never really believed her. Life is all about making the right choice. I chose to forgive and move on. I can't really help other people if I chose to be stagnant in depression. :)
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@sprite1950 (14498)
• Corsham, England
18 Mar
@owieXOXO You have a very positive attitude but what a horrible life you and your mum must have had. I hope you are away from all that now.
18 Mar
@sprite1950 At first. I really thought we were cursed or something. But the more matured I become, I have understood that the unfair life only exist to make us stronger each day. That is what I live for :)
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@moffittjc (43951)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Mar
Sorry to hear about your past. Thank you for offering to help others who may be in similar circumstances. You never know, you could be a lifesaver to someone. And welcome to myLot. I hope you enjoy your time here and interact with many wonderful people.
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18 Mar
Hi jeff! Yeah, It's really nice to help people who feel hopeless. Thank you so much for your support.
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@moffittjc (43951)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Mar
@owieXOXO I'm happy to offer my support. Nobody should ever have to deal with molestation, or the consequences afterward. People should know there are places and people to turn to for help. Nobody needs to go through this alone. As evil as this world seems, there are still good people left who care and want to help in any way possible.
@aninditasen (1736)
• Raurkela, India
17 Mar
Expressing here makes one feel lighter. It's good you poured out your heart.
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18 Mar
Yes anindita. I just don't want people to think that they have been abandoned by the world.
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• Raurkela, India
18 Mar
@owieXOXOKeep up your spirit.
@Icydoll (22590)
• India
17 Mar
Sorry about your past...it's really nice nature of you helping others with same problems. Welcome to Mylot...and I'm sure you will enjoy your stay here..
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18 Mar
Yeah! Thank you so much for the support! Nothing beats evil in this world but kindness.
• Bridgton, Maine
17 Mar
Owie, I think that with a good therapist, you can learn to trust others.
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18 Mar
I had been seeing a therapist before, and it really helped. I don't go out of the house, walking without a head anymore. Though there are times when my anxiety attacks, but I guess it's just me not wanting other people to undergo what I have.
@MALUSE (41409)
• Germany
17 Mar
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• New Delhi, India
18 Mar
You are a very strong lady. Welcome to mylot my dear friend. Thanks for your assurance. How are you doing these days? Is everything fine with you? I am worried for you.
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18 Mar
I believe that everyone in this world is strong. I am strong because I chose to be one. There are more people out there in this world who have undergone more than I have. I do not have the right to complain for the challenges I have gone through only exist to make me stronger. Currently, I am coping with what I have. I am able to smile and laugh now. Thank you for the care, I feel it all the way here. Everything is fine with me now :)
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• New Delhi, India
18 Mar
@owieXOXO I curse those people who molested you.
@Corbin5 (109908)
• United States
17 Mar
Very kind of you to reach out to others who may have suffered the same.
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@Corbin5 (109908)
• United States
18 Mar
@owieXOXO So glad you are offering to help!! So proud of you for doing that.
@1hopefulman (30271)
• Canada
18 Mar
There are many of us that have been molested.
18 Mar
have you tried felix?
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@1hopefulman (30271)
• Canada
19 Mar
@owieXOXO Have I tried what?
@toniganzon (51771)
• Philippines
18 Mar
it's good to belong in such a group where you can talk about anything without being judged and to tell your fears and anxieties. Everybody needs this kind of support.
18 Mar
I couldn't agree more toni. It's a relief and a way to bring back our faith in humanity
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@iridion9 (7979)
• Philippines
17 Mar
Really? How old are you when you were molested? Did he raped you? and how old are you now?
18 Mar
Yes, My mom was raped, by her own cousins. 5 times. I was molested when I was in 4th grade, I was 10 years old back then. Last year, I was raped by my ex-boyfriend. I am 19 years old now.
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@Iamkitty (294)
• Kozhikode, India
18 Mar
Welcome to mylot. I am also a newbie .Really the site was interesting .
@sjvg1976 (18360)
• Delhi, India
18 Mar
That's horrible. I can understand how much pain you might have gone through. Sorry to hear about your past. It would be good if someone who has gone through the same may share about her pain with you and feel light.
@mandala100 (46386)
• Hong Kong
18 Mar
@owieXOXO I'm sorry to hear that my friend.
@gaianoor (1144)
• Tirana, Albania
18 Mar
Sorry to hear that, what i could say to you is to be always the strongest person for yourself.