When your Mother uses your name to gain money.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 21, 2018 9:18pm CST
I heard my Mother talking to my nephew asking his Mother for money using my name. I heard it loud and clear. Maybe she thought I was still sleeping. When I confront her about that, she easily denies the fact.
I told her why she needs to do that? She said she did not. She even asks my nephew and my nephew never lies, he said yes when I asked him she uses my name. I argue with her because who knows she does it every time without my knowing. She still denies the truth.
I also asked her why she needs to ask money when my cousin and Aunt already gave her money yesterday when she did not buy food last night. The boyfriend brought food for his Birthday last night too. And now she denies she doesn't have money anymore. She doesn't help pay bills and still, she will tell us she doesn't have money.
If you have a liar Mother.
I am venting here because I have no one else to talk to.
Sorry for this. I just need to let this out.
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15 responses
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Well, I already posted a lot of discussion pertaining to her.
She was never a Mother to me ever since I was young. She hates me.
She has an attitude towards me and to my other siblings.
She is selfish of a Mother who thinks nothing about herself.
She is a liar. She is very irresponsible and not a Mother like.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I don't know with her, she always uses other names to get something from them.
This is not the first time she does this. I think a lot of time already.
And the next thing I know, someone will ask me for the payment because I owe them money even if I did not.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
I hope she has done that because of your situation.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@jobelbojel
Yes, the next I know. Someone will appear to me and ask money to pay them because I owe them.
The last time I confront my Mother it was last year.
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@Letranknight2015 (51498)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
I don't know what to say anymore, I mean I can just get angry and say bad things. But it's the Holy Week and I'm trying to renew my faith here. I just had my confession last Tuesday my friend 
Just keep on praying really hard, I don't know if spouting anger against a person who just do this and that would help at all. I'm seeing a little bit of my Grandma attitude there but the difference is that she has helped this time around and financed our business.
I'm truly sorry you had to experience this person, I hope GOD has a good reason why he gave you such a mother.
Just keep on praying really hard, I don't know if spouting anger against a person who just do this and that would help at all. I'm seeing a little bit of my Grandma attitude there but the difference is that she has helped this time around and financed our business.
I'm truly sorry you had to experience this person, I hope GOD has a good reason why he gave you such a mother.2 people like this
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
It is very sad to hear the situation you are going through. I cannot imagine why doea ahe hate you and some of your siblings. She always have a choice not to have kids if she thinks she will not be a good mother to you all.
But you are one strong woman for bearing all this and making your life bearable even she is there.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Even myself I don't want to get angry or say things that will hurt people but who am I to judge myself too? I'm only human with a soul and hurting. Every Sunday we have our communion I stay on my ground always. But until now she is not changing at all. She lies and lies.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@rakski
I've been asking this many times, why she makes us and not love us? Why is she like that?
Ever since I longed for a Motherly love because my own Mother is not capable of giving that to us.
I don't know what her problem because no matter how hard we try to understand her, but still, we can't.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
22 Mar 18
Don't be sorry for venting.
And I'm sorry you have to deal with all this.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
22 Mar 18
@JustBhem some never tell the truth or learn from their behavior, sadly.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@Courtlynn
It would be no problem for me but she is far different from all Mother.
She is a liar.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
22 Mar 18
It is sad that you do not have a nice relationship with your mother. Our mother was dear to all of us. We loved her very much.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
22 Mar 18
You poor thing. Our mothers should protect us and take care of us not take advantage of us. How old are you? Is there any way you could leave home, maybe live with a relative who would take care of you?
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
22 Mar 18
@JustBhem that's so kind of you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@sprite1950
I just love my siblings. I don't care with my Mother anymore.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
She is the immature premature human being
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
@JustBhem "grabe siya,o" (she is so toxic)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@ridingbet
Yes, very toxic. Just like now, I ask her about my Aunt who was here. I was in front of her, but she didn't listen. She just stares at me and smirks. She really has an attitude issue or much better to say, mind issue.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
It's so sad. All I know is mothers knows best. Maybe she just really need money so just understand her.
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