Simplicity

@mlgen1037 (29886)
Manila, Philippines
March 22, 2018 1:42am CST
Hello! I was just thinking lately about my life. I am living on my own, I have a family who loves the worst and best in me, I am living the kind of life I want, and I am able to do the things that make me happy. All in all, the simplicity of life that I have been longing for is what I have right now. Others will not be so happy with the kind of life I have. Since I was young, I was taught to see the simplicity in everything. Please do not get me wrong. Just like everybody else, I dreamed of having a big house, tons of cars and even lots of money to buy whatever I want but then I have no desire to have many of those and they are meaningless to me. Simplicity is being contented yet not stopping oneself to do the things that make you happy. Simplicity is not wanting for more but allowing oneself to grow better as a person. Simplicity is the reason I do not let my life be out in the open. I am just that regular, ordinary person who lives her day with animosity and happiness. So I guess that's it. I am happy to see some members here talk about simplicity. So I am just adding mine. How about you guys? What is your take on simplicity? Your thoughts are highly appreciated. Thank you!
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@ammyluv (611)
• Abuja, Nigeria
22 Mar 18
You've said it all. I have been saying this to anyone that cares to listen "I don't want to be Bill Gates" and his likes. I don't want any attractions. I just want to live a very quiet life. A very simple life with cash to take care of my daily needs and I'll be fine.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Thank you, Amaka. That's it! I think many people will never understand the reasons why we chose this kind of life. Being simple does not mean we stopped living and doing things.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
I get what you are saying here and agree but going to suggest using another rich person, yeah i know he is on top of the list but he and his wife have spent some of their money actually helping people which might be rewarding. Pick a miserable greedy one for more effect?
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@ammyluv (611)
• Abuja, Nigeria
22 Mar 18
@Bluedoll Lol! I get your point, but I was looking at it from the angle of being the most richest man on earth. Yes, he's a great man and does help a lot of people especially Africans, but it shouldn't take his name off the list
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
I enjoy the simple life also. Some people would consider me a monk or hermit because I keep to myself. I don't have the need to acquire status or prominence in my life. To just be me is my everyday goal. :-)
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I feel you, Lucinda. Maybe most people will never understand the choices we makes. Or maybe others are just mystified at how we live our lives.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@Starmaiden I am sure they will. Better if they stuck their noses in their own lives than being mystified of other people's lives.
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• Canada
22 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I'd rather they admire us and follow our example. :-)
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@DianneN (246336)
• United States
23 Mar 18
I can't say that I live a simplistic life, but I am extremely content and happy. I'm very materialistic and the first to admit it. Luxury is something we can afford and enjoy in our retirement.
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@DianneN (246336)
• United States
23 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 Thanks so much, Louise. I was just being honest. I love fine things, even though they are just things. As long as we are healthy and happy, too, we are good.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@DianneN You're most welcome, Dianne. I agree with you. No worries.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
I appreciate your thoughts and honesty, Dianne. Do not worry, I will not take it against you. What's important is you are happy and contented.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
22 Mar 18
I would love the simplicity of a peaceful quiet life. I think you have the right idea about the important thing in life. I believe it is the little things that matter most. The love of a family, a roof over your head, and your bills paid.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Thank you, Susan. I couldnt ask for more.
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@thelme55 (76432)
• Germany
22 Mar 18
I live a simple life, too. No need to have fancy things which will cost much.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Yes. Nothing beats simplicity. Thank you, Thelma!
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
22 Mar 18
Simplicity is always best and good way to lead our life..Yeah I'm a simple person too.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I agree with 100%. Live simply, love simply and be happy. Thank you, Icydoll.
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@allknowing (130070)
• India
22 Mar 18
It is only after knowing that it is not worth running after materialistic things that one realises nothing like enjoying simplicity I have been there.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
I feel you, Always Smiling. Once you experience it, you will want to go back to basics.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
I think there are a lots of advantages to simplicity. My life has had that too and I've profited from it? THis is a really well written and informative post. On a side note, do you think you are like going to the mall?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
It does, Bluedoll. Thank you for the compliment and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it. Yes, I do go the mall to meet friends and family or to unwind myself.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
@Bluedoll possible they can really be enticing as well. I think now that I am older, buying stuff often do not warrant long time happiness. Bonding time with loved ones is. Youre most welcome, my friend.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 100% agree to this simplicity life style.
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@jstory07 (134188)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Mar 18
I enjoy the simple life. I do not want anything fancy in my life at all.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I feel you, Judy. I just like everything to be simple.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
I am contented with my life, I was never one to crave for tons of stuff
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
22 Mar 18
Same here. I grew up with little because there wasn't much to accumulate in post-war Germany. It didn't hurt me. I'm still a modest person when it comes to acquired property.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@MALUSE thats fantastic! Maybe simplicity stems from our upbringing but there are people who grew up with not much and they tend to want more since they experienced less. Thank you for sharing.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Yes! Exactly how I feel. Being contented and being happy. Thank you for sharing, Marlina.
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@just4him (305223)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Mar 18
My life is simpler now than it ever was before I retired.
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@just4him (305223)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 Yes, we do get wiser.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
@just4him I hope when I am older, I will be one. Thank you, Valerie.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
Yes, and we get wiser. Thank you for sharing, Valerie.
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@Kandae11 (53678)
22 Mar 18
I am satisfied with the basic amenities of life - I am not interested in having too much - unless for the reason of giving it away to persons who are in need. When we die, we cannot take anything with us - all will be left behind.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
That is 100% correct. Most people seem not to realize that. They want extravagance not realizing it will be all in vain. Thank you, Kandase for your thoughts.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
22 Mar 18
To me I love my life but what I dream of is to have my own house. I don't like living with my in laws. It's not pleasant. Sometimes I cried to god and pray that he realize this dream. I don't want big but a small house I could call mine and most live important to be able to live in peace.
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@BabeSays (8576)
• Mauritius
24 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 That's really kind of you. We never whose prayer God can accept. It means a lot to me. I really appreciate it. Thank dear.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
That is okay to dream and be able to achieve something that we want. Besides, a house is a necessity. I agree with you. It is hard to live with relatives because not all of them can be that hospitable and it is hard to move or do the things you want to do. I am pray that your dream will come true. Just trust the one above. Thank you, Babes. I appreciate it.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@BabeSays youre most welcome, Babes. I am happy to know you amd God bless!
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
22 Mar 18
Kind of reminds me of Zen way of living. I've read some posts, of being thankful too. Sometimes you need that to remind yourself, sure I don't have a million in my savings, but I got a lot to be thankful for while still striving for that million dollars. I like uncomplicated life. When you go shopping you find everything you want and get it all on sale. Simplicity is great...it's what makes you and your family happy & healthy that's good.
@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
22 Mar 18
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Thank you, Krisstina. I like your perspective as well. I still dream of having millions but thats just it, a dream. But still bottomline, as long as whatever makes us happy, go for it!
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
22 Mar 18
That is nice. I think looking at the big picture and knowing you have all the major things you need in life is good. Food, shelter, family.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Thank you, Maezee. That is all I need.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
22 Mar 18
I would say living on our own is something we should teach to the newer generations.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I totall agree with you. It will teach them to be more independent and wiser, I guess. Living on your own is going out of what you are used to.
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@aninditasen (15720)
• Raurkela, India
22 Mar 18
Simplicity in life is the stepping stone to a life of content.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Mar 18
Yes! I do agree with you, Anindita.
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@augusta123 (6649)
22 Mar 18
Simplicity is just being happy
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Yes! I agree 100%.
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@deba12 (2951)
• India
22 Mar 18
Yup, I know simplicity is good. But achieving something with simplicity is tough. Society pays respect to people who show off themselves.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
I do get your point. We always equate achievements with grandiosity or too much showing off because I believe that is what society had instilled in us. I agree with you that society respect people who show-off themselves. But that is the secret, I guess, of simplicity. That you do not need to show-off and be happy even if the world do not care. That is why I mentioned animosity. Because I do not want the world to know. Isnt it ironic that those who show-off are so mystified of those simple people?
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@august18 (3907)
• Tunisia
22 Mar 18
There's a French saying that goes "C'est la simplicité qui fait la beauté du coeur." So I think your post said it all.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Thank you, August. I will remember what you said. It is a beautiful quote.
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