How many responses?

@sprite1950 (30453)
Corsham, England
March 29, 2018 3:00am CST
How many responses do you like to see on your discussions? When I came here years ago I would only get a few which was kind of off putting but this time round it seems to be better. My best discussion had over 50 replies and my worst probably under 10 but passable. How many replies do you like to see on your discussions and does it put you off coming here if they only get a few?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
regardless, I am still happy to post a discussion and share my crazy state of mind. I am grateful to any, more or less.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
Same for me. It's not possible to get many responses all the time.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@mlgen1037 I try to think of topics that everyone can respond to but there are so many different age groups here and we are all interested in different things.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@sprite1950 that is true. Even those that are really good discussions do not get as much responses.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
29 Mar 18
I do not write a lot, I do not really care how many replies I get, but I would be pretty upset to receive under 10 responses. I have checked my Profile, the lowest number is 13 (the month after I joined), the highest 140.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
140 is amazing. I would be really chuffed if I got that many responses.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@aureliah I'm a bit jealous
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
29 Mar 18
140 is extraordinary and you posts are quality thats one reason you get a lot of responses.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I write discussions so seldom that people are shocked when they finally realize I have posted one, Sprite... Honestly, I would rather people didn't notice my discussions. I have a lot more fun playing on their discussions than I do responding to people on mine. It feels like I HAVE to talk to people on my own discussions but I can talk and play if I FEEL like it on other people's discussions... I know that probably doesn't make sense to you, but I am not alone in feeling like that. ( @Daljinder comes quickly to mind. She also feels like I do in that regard.) My very first discussion here had around 75 responses before I deleted it...
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@DaddyEvil I may feel like that one day but at the moment I like putting up discussions. Aren't you surprised at how long I've been here this time? Over a month
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
30 Mar 18
@DaddyEvil Thanks I will check it out after I have caught up with my notifications today.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 (smiling at you) Yes, although I wasn't going to mention anything about how long you were here. I don't want to jinx it for you! BTW, I would like to point you in the direction of one of my earliest discussions that is still extant on myLot, if you'd be interested? (You might like it. I'm not sure.) There is a photo of Pretty when she was about 7 years old there. (I was actually showing off a bedspread I crocheted, but any photos I have are of Pretty, not the bedspread. It is included only by accident. ) Here is that link: I also checked to see what my most and fewest responses were on the discussions I still have on myLot. The highest number is 64... the lowest is 7.
I opened the door and stared in disbelief! All I could do was look at the obvious signs of violence done to the old and fragile body. What should have been...
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
20 Apr 18
@sprite1950 Snowdrop66, I am not fussy just so it is more than 5.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
20 Apr 18
Yes i would hate to get none at all!
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
20 Apr 18
@Hannihar I suppose there must be some posts that haven't had any. I should look in the Discussion w/no and see what there is.
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
20 Apr 18
@sprite1950 That I understand completely.
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@Meramar (2695)
29 Mar 18
It's not easy to find the right topic that wakes up the interest of many members.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
That's very true and sometimes it's the unlikely topics that do well.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@Meramar Maybe but I meant some of the topics I have put up I really didn't think would be popular due to their subject matter but for some reason they were and did well.
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@Meramar (2695)
29 Mar 18
@sprite1950 "Unlikely" on this site may be relativ. If we think about the number of members we can find here on mylot from all over the world and different ages, nationalities and cultures... I think it's difficult to define this word.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
29 Mar 18
I enjoy it when people reply, but I dont get upset if I only get a few. I reply as often as I can to others posts and that seems to draw traffic to mine. :-)
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
That's the way it is supposed to be although sometimes I hardly get time to do my own notifications which means I post less on the discussions of other people.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I am always surprised when i get more than 10 responses.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
I haven't done that well today on my discussions but tomorrow is another day so hopefully I will do better,
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
24 Apr 18
My is about under 10 maybe 3 to 7 which I am glad that there are some discussion.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
24 Apr 18
Sometimes I write one and think it probably won't do well and it surprises me by getting more replies than I think which is nice.
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
17 Apr 18
Sometimes I get a lot but other times very few. It just depends on the topic and it helps me to understand what to stay away from.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
17 Apr 18
Yes, it's definitely a learning curve. I'm still learning about what people like to talk about.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
19 Apr 18
@ramapo17 Yes I am usually here first thing in the morning as that's when I am brighter although I do pop in during the day if I am around.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
19 Apr 18
@sprite1950 Everyday will be something different. We never know as the great thing here is it is open 24/7 so we can log on here and always find someone to chat with.
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• Bournemouth, England
10 Apr 18
I have never had a huge number . It's disappointing to just get a handful, especially if they are saying very little, but the trial and error makes it interesting.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
10 Apr 18
I have had more success this time round. I try to think of topics that everyone can relate to but even then it doesn't always work.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
29 Mar 18
My highest was 42. I believe everyone wants to have as much as they can get
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
Yes it's a nice feeling to feel that someone is interested in what you have written.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
@sprite1950 That is very true.
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@lynnief (1203)
• Australia
29 Mar 18
I like to see as many as possible. It means that people are interested in what I have posted.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@lynnief I do. I usually find it is quieter in the early part of the day and then when the US wake up I get a lot more responses.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
If it is possible, I would love to have more than 50 responses. But it doesn't matter to me if there is only 10 or more responses in my discussion, I still want to stay here and have fun.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
Definitely but when I first came here years ago. I would only get 2 or 3 responses so I felt a bit overlooked . I probably should have given it more time.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
@sprite1950 my first post, I got more than 30 responses, that is enough for me.,as long as there is a response.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
29 Mar 18
@Jessabuma That's really good. I think mine were just too boring at the time!
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@Berrygal (5834)
2 Apr 18
At least 10 will do
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
2 Apr 18
Some of mine have less but a few have done well.
@porwest (78761)
• United States
24 Apr 18
I suppose right now I am happy if I see around 15 responses. But any response I suppose is fine with me. It is what it is at the end of the day.