How do you argue as a married couple. Do you keep it to yourself?

@chavezrmc (5737)
Philippines
April 2, 2018 8:18am CST
I know when we are mad with our partner/spouses, girlfriend/boyfriend we are out of control. Would you fight publicly or just argue quietly. What can you advice to pacify each one's feeling.
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@mlgen1037 (29647)
• Manila, Philippines
2 Apr
We dont fight publicly. If we had an argument, we would be quiet and walk out hehehe. But for most part, we just keep our fights privately. Besides, I cannot stay angry of him for so long.
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
2 Apr
@mlgen1037 That's so sweet of you. Yes if you are too angry better be quiet first and walk out, lol.
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@mlgen1037 (29647)
• Manila, Philippines
2 Apr
@chavezrmc Thank you, Emerald. I just do not want to draw attention plus it is our fight and people are just going to spectate.
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@mlgen1037 Yeah, you are right people can be so mean sometimes and start to do nasty things just like talking about you. It is better to avoid these things and act accordingly.
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@ria1606roy (2690)
• Kolkata, India
3 Apr
Fighting between couples is inevitable I always keep it private, but if our arguement ever accidentally reached others' ears, then we also know how to manage that situation
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@ria1606roy I am sure we take care of things like this. It will be good to be in control no.matter what
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• Kolkata, India
3 Apr
@chavezrmc very true.
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@cedie0808 (100)
• Quezon City, Philippines
2 Apr
The good thing about me and my girlfriend is that we're always open with each other. We don't of course fight in public. Most of the time if one of us is upset, we're just going to be quiet then we discuss everything at home. We always try to meet halfway on everything.
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@cedie0808 That is good. Your relationship is already in the training ground... lol. It is a good start. I believe you will go a long long way together.
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• Quezon City, Philippines
3 Apr
@chavezrmc Thank you! That's also our goal. To stay together for many years.
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@kepweng (16794)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
8 Apr
i Stay Calm
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
8 Apr
@kepweng i am sure it's one of the best thing to do when we are mad.
@Berrygal (5170)
2 Apr
We talk about it
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@Berrygal. That way you can understand more of each other's character
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
2 Apr
My husband and I that are times we fight in the public when we just boyfriend/girlfriend but when we got married we don't fight much and of course not in public anymore. Arguing yes sometimes but fighting not anymore maybe because we are well adjusted to each other.
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@Bhebelen We all grow up and we can learn from our own mistakes. Arguing is good as long as we don't throw hurting words. And of course settle all differences at the end of the day.
• Philippines
2 Apr
When my husband i were still together, we don't argue publicly. And I don't argue with him since there were kids watching us. But if i really want to raise an argument with him because of his being irresponsible, i talk with a low voice and then give him a silent treatment. I just hate arguments. I don't want other people to hear our drama
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@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
3 Apr
@MrsPumpkins Yes, i also don't my kids to hear our problems especially when it is matter that should be between spouses thing.