I wish her good health and more life.

@JustBhem (42864)
Davao, Philippines
April 3, 2018 3:33am CST
Today is my Mother's Birthday. So I decided to cook for her to be shared later for dinner. I and the siblings gather some of our money to buy food to cook. My 3rd Brother will cook his wife's specialty Lumpia Shanghai while my 2nd Brother will cook Pancit (or Chinese noodles with meat), and my 4th Brother will have a pork grilled later for our Pork Kinilaw (or Filipino ceviche). They already started cooking now. At least she will be pleased we still remember her even if she does not care about us. I text Father earlier and he said, he can't come because he is working but he send money to my 2nd Brother. I am playing my 3rd Brother's baby boy at the moment. In spite of the bitterness I felt for my Mother, I still care for her.
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@LadyDuck (175852)
• Switzerland
3 Apr
You are a kind and sweet daughter, I hope your mother will appreciate. Happy Birthday to her.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Well, she did not.
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@LadyDuck (175852)
• Switzerland
5 Apr
@JustBhem I have read your discussion, she is really a brat.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Apr
@LadyDuck Should a Mother of 6 act like that?
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@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr
I remember what you told me about her but yes, you are right she is still your mother and you care for her and want her to be happy. Someday she will realize all the things you did for her. But for now, happy birthday to her and she may find peace and happiness.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
I've been waiting for that someday she will appreciate us and she will change. I think that someday will never happen because until now, she is still like that.
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@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
5 Apr
@JustBhem this may sound cliche, but I think prayers are what she needs (in Filipino: matinding dasal).
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Apr
@mlgen1037 Do you believe if I will tell you, I always pray for her? That she will change. Until now, she is not changing.
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@AKRao24 (21124)
• India
3 Apr
I am very happy to know that all you people are working hard together to your mother a birthday surprise! How angry may one can be with one's mother, after all we must remember one thing because of her only we are existing today in this World! Happy Birthday to her! Wish you all a fantastic and great evening to enjoy the birthday bash dear friend @JustBhem !
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
Yes, though sometimes she ticks me off and I still want her to feel that we still care for her after she abandoned us.
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@AKRao24 (21124)
• India
3 Apr
@JustBhem , Forget about those sad moments and celebrate her birthday with great enthusiasm and zeal! Please don't mind...let us not judge people...the Super Judge is sitting there and he will give the verdict at the proper time...try to be in his good books dear friend! Take care and have a great time!
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@kavinitu (5061)
• India
4 Apr
@AKRao24 I totally agree with you. You have said very well
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@Icydoll (24611)
• India
3 Apr
Happy birthday to your mom ...God bless her :)
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
Thanks.
@Icydoll (24611)
• India
3 Apr
@JustBhem welcome cha I hope you are doing well and better now
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@Jessabuma (33192)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr
Happy happy birthday to your mother. God bless you and your family always.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
Thanks, if she is kind enough for sure she will like your greetings.
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@Jessabuma (33192)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr
@JustBhem you're always welcome Bhem
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@shaggin (37723)
• United States
3 Apr
That is so kind of all of you to make her birthday so wonderful for her. I really hope she appreciates it and enjoys her day!
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
She did not appreciate it.
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@ridingbet (59402)
• Philippines
3 Apr
you are a good daughter. happy birthday to her.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
I tried to be a good daughter at least.
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@nela13 (8258)
• Portugal
3 Apr
Happy birthday to her, it is good that you and your brothers are making a surprise for her.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
At least she feels that we still care for her after the bad attitude she showed us for years.
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@kepweng (18574)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
3 Apr
happy b day and hope your mother Live a Long Life
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
Thanks, I hope too.
@deba12 (3099)
• India
3 Apr
Your mom will feel happy to know that you all care for her even now.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
I hope so. Thanks.
@august18 (4030)
• Tunisia
3 Apr
HapPy Birthday to your mom.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr
Thanks a lot.
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@NoorNoor (1183)
• India
3 Apr
I appreciate you....
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• United States
4 Apr
Happy Birthday to your mother. Does you father live nearby ?
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Thanks. Nope. She lived far away from where we live.
• United States
5 Apr
@JustBhem Oh I see. Hope he comes to visit sometime.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Apr
@infatuatedbby Yes, sometimes he visits us here.
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@JudyEv (134847)
• Bunbury, Australia
3 Apr
That's nice of you to make the effort to make her birthday special. I hope you all have a pleasant evening.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Well, it just a Family dinner and we cook her favorite food.
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@JudyEv (134847)
• Bunbury, Australia
5 Apr
@JustBhem I've seen since that it wasn't much of a success.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Apr
@JudyEv Yes, because she does not like it.
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@Thewings (636)
9 Apr
Belated happy birthday to your mom
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Apr
Thanks.
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@Thewings (636)
9 Apr
@JustBhem welcome
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@allen0187 (33914)
• Philippines
4 Apr
Hope your mother appreciates the party that you'll have for her.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Well, she did not.
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@allen0187 (33914)
• Philippines
7 Apr
@JustBhem sorry to hear that.
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@sabtraversa (13331)
• Italy
3 Apr
She's still your mother, after all. And she's very lucky to have children like you and your brothers. It can happen the other way around, having despicable children, but a mother will always love her babies, just like a baby will always love his/her mother. I'm pretty sure your mother will appreciate your thought, although she won't show it.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
She did not.
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@sabtraversa (13331)
• Italy
4 Apr
@JustBhem I noticed.
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• Philippines
4 Apr
At least She was happy, for once she appreciate what you have done.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Have you read my discussion today? Apparently, she did not appreciate the food we prepared for her.
@kavinitu (5061)
• India
4 Apr
Forget about what happened in the past and start it again new life. You are very lovely daughter. I hope your Mom will appreciate you all. God bless her. Wishing her a very Happy Birthday
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Well, the thing is. She did not appreciate it.
@Kandae11 (40370)
4 Apr
Enjoy the meal and the birthday celebration. Whatever her faults she is still your mom.
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@JustBhem (42864)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr
Yes, that is why on her Birthday we want her to feel that we care for her but apparently, she does not like the food we prepared for her because she wants money instead.