Don't light a match.

@AmbiePam (85492)
United States
April 7, 2018 5:30pm CST
My dad's wife cannot smell anything (although she says she can smell smoke). And that has become dangerous. After a doctor appointment last Thursday, I dropped by his house as he was coming out. He asked if I had some time to help him, and I did. So we got into his car, and headed out. About an hour later we come back, and as we are on the porch, about to enter, my dad says, "Oh my word!" I didn't know what he was talking about until the front door opened . Whoosh! The distinct odor of natural gas overwhelmed me. His wife is sitting on the couch, watching TV, and has no idea gas is steadily being emitted from the stove. I have electric at my house, but for most of my life our houses had natural gas. Most of you probably know natural gas has no odor. Because it is deadly if it is leaking, they put in an additive to alert people with the smell. If you have a leak, and you light a candle, you have a great possibility of being blown up. Or, if you breathe it in enough, you die. People die in their sleep because of it. She married my dad a little over two years ago (she's 63), and this is the third time she's done it. The stove makes a clicking sound when it is turned all the way off, and it pops in your hand, so you know when it's fully turned off. It gave my dad an upset stomach, and me a migraine (we immediately opened the doors and windows to air it out). He asked her to please be more careful. I really hope she is. She has no idea why she can't smell anything. But she is starting to have me concerned.
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@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
7 Apr 18
That is really scary. I think you need to have some sort of alarm rigged up in the house if the odor of gas is present. There has to be something.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
7 Apr 18
I am going to bring that up to my dad. This time seemed like he was even more concerned than usual.
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@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
9 Apr 18
@AmbiePam as well he should be!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
7 Apr 18
Oh my, that is very dangerous. Has she never had a sense of smell?
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
7 Apr 18
She said she's not sure when she lost it. I wondered if maybe it was a medication, but she doesn't think so.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
8 Apr 18
Install a gas detector, they do not cost a lot, you can buy one for $ 30.00. I have natural gas and I have a gas detector, even if I can smell the gas, I think it's safer to have one.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
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• Midland, Michigan
10 Apr 18
I thought about telling her to look for one but wasn't sure whether it is a thing or the same as a carbon monoxide detector.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
10 Apr 18
@MarshaMusselman I don't think it is as I know they have a carbon monoxide monitor. Or perhaps it malfunctioned.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48956)
• United States
7 Apr 18
Thank goodness you got home when you did.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
8 Apr 18
Oh my! Good you got there when you did! But how can she not smell anything? Sounds like she shouldn't be left alone..
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
I am puzzled by the smell thing too.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
8 Apr 18
@AmbiePam really weird..
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
7 Apr 18
That is scary. How could she breathe it in and not feel sick? Surely she must have had some clue that something was amiss.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
7 Apr 18
I just don't know. It amazes me.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Apr 18
This would be a thing of concern for sure. Especially since she is getting older. Isn't there a way you could get a stove fixed to where she could not turn it on and off?
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
9 Apr 18
How would she cook? Her mind is fine, she just does dopey things. Unfortunately, this is a big one. I'd rather her just not cook, but she does it all the time. It sounds so easy, doesn't it? I mean the woman can tell you anything about birds and gardening, but can't pay attention to fully turn off the stove.
@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
15 Apr 18
Bob's mom used to boil tea kettles til they melted. Forgetful. Maybe preoccupied. Sometimes a virus hurts your sense of smell. My first husband always said he could not smell, but he began to be able to after some dental work.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
15 Apr 18
That's interesting. You never think things could be related, but they are.
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
8 Apr 18
Considering she's done this before, you'd think she'd be more careful already, or maybe just not use the stove by herself. Baffling!
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
It is. She's done a few baffling things that I would tell you, but I feel like I would be making fun of her.
• Pamplona, Spain
14 Apr 18
I was wondering if she would have some kind of allergy that might cause the sinus to block then and you cannot smell things sometimes.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
14 Apr 18
That is a good theory. A really good one.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
15 Apr 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 My dad is like that. When his allergies are bad he can't hear out of one ear.
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• Pamplona, Spain
15 Apr 18
@AmbiePam I only hope that its just sinus that could be really blocked as my youngest had sinus so badly blocked through allergies you could see the pressure on the bridge of his nose as it was a bit discoloured and even temporary deafness till the allergies fade out.
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@Juliaacv (48437)
• Canada
7 Apr 18
I remember when my grandmother got like that, she couldn't be left alone as she'd forget the gas on and it was just too dangerous.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
She does things one might call ditzy. But to be fair, so do I. Although I haven't ever done anything dangerous.
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@Juliaacv (48437)
• Canada
8 Apr 18
@AmbiePam I just cannot imagine how you'd feel if a fire were to break out and if your Dad was at home when it happened. That would be terrible.
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• Midland, Michigan
10 Apr 18
She should look and see each time she uses the stove or oven to make sure everything got turned off correctly. There are carbon dioxide alarms do they have one there? Your other option, whether or not she remembers to take more precautions is to pray daily that God puts a hedge of protection around their house. She doesn't smoke, though, or does she? And maybe it would be good to eliminate any candle type things front the premises. My sister lost her sense of smell some years ago too. We've never worried about that before, although, she lives down state and we mostly see her when she comes here to visit.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
10 Apr 18
No, she doesn't smoke. I actually got a little more information about the incident, and I think I have an idea to help her. I just have to post about it later.
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• Midland, Michigan
10 Apr 18
@AmbiePam good she doesn't. Smoke and I will look again later for your update.
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@MsBooklover (3974)
• United States
8 Apr 18
What caused this? Is it because she had it turn on all the way or what?
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
While she turned the knob to shut it off, and the blue flame went out, she didn't turn it all the way off, so the gas kept seeping into the air.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
8 Apr 18
@MsBooklover Oh yes. I like gas better because it's cheaper. But I'm fine with an electric stove too.
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• United States
8 Apr 18
@AmbiePam That is so scary. I have never liked gas. I am so glad I have electricity. Have you talked to her about this?
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
14 Apr 18
She's Lucky you got there when you did! Has she seen a Dr? If its the third time perhaps its time she stopped using the stove??
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
14 Apr 18
I think I have found a solution. But it appears she hasn't been able to smell since she was a child.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Apr 18
Wow, that can be very dangerous. Maybe she should not touch the stove when she is the only one in the house.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
14 Apr 18
That could have resulted in a very tragic situation had the gas continued to go unnoticed. Good thing you and your dad came home and noticed something so soon, or else it could have been a different ending.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
10 Apr 18
Maybe they should think about closing off the gas and getting an electric stove, that would make it easier and less nerve racking on you all. So scary
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Apr 18
I wonder if there is an alarm for gas leaks, like smoke alarms. And certainly this could be a very dangerous situation.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
7 Apr 18
I'm going to ask my dad about that.
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18 Apr 18
You just came in the nick of time.If you've gotten home a bit late your house could have been swalliwed by fire. That's pretty scary.
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@YrNemo (20261)
10 Apr 18
Oh dear, this sounds bad. Let hope your father finds a way to help his wife detect the gas faster.
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