If you disappear

@GardenGerty (95626)
Marion, Kansas
April 8, 2018 8:55pm CST
Is there some way people can look for you, if you disappear? I have some contact information of a friend or two, from when the site was sold and many left. Some of you have some of my info. I mostly just lurk on Facebook, so you would hardly see me. I believe I am going to send more precise information to a couple of friends. @Hatley and I exchanged info about a year ago. I have e mails for several of you. Lately we have worried about a number of people. It is good to stay in touch.
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@spiderdust (5384)
• San Jose, California
9 Apr
I am on Facebook, and @thislittlepennyearns has my mailing address... both @thehousewife and @sprite1950 also know how to reach me offsite. I don't mind sharing my email address, although I'm not very good about keeping my email inbox clear.
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@GardenGerty (95626)
• Marion, Kansas
10 Apr
I bet if you disappeared they would be checking.
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• San Jose, California
10 Apr
@GardenGerty I know @thislittlepennyearns was concerned and looking for me when I disappeared from the site for about a month, but this was before she had my contact info.
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@Morleyhunt (19078)
• Canada
9 Apr
You could contact my sister here on mylot.
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@BarBaraPrz (19028)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Apr
But who is your sister?
@Morleyhunt (19078)
• Canada
9 Apr
@BarBaraPrz Platespinner is my sister.
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@GardenGerty (95626)
• Marion, Kansas
10 Apr
@Morleyhunt and of course your brother, as well. I would have to think on that as he is kind of scarce.
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@LadyDuck (141563)
• Switzerland
9 Apr
I have asked my husband to post on my FB page and I have wrote a post for this site he should post, in the case I would "disappear". I think he would be too devastated to remember to post.
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@andriaperry (43542)
• United States
9 Apr
I am at facebook too, and a few more. Some have my email too.
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• United States
9 Apr
I am pretty private! I do have 2 members on IG.
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@vandana7 (61145)
• India
9 Apr
But would you notice long absence?
• United States
9 Apr
@vandana7 If I disappear I'll write a post. :) But I don't have any plans to disappear.
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@vandana7 (61145)
• India
9 Apr
@infatuatedbby You'd better not..lol
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@TRBRocks420 (70964)
• Banks, Oregon
9 Apr
I am on Facebook, might have to change my settings to public though. I think I might have put it on private.
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@vandana7 (61145)
• India
9 Apr
Where are we most likely to be - here or on facebook.
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@TRBRocks420 (70964)
• Banks, Oregon
9 Apr
@vandana7 I prefer here by far.
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@vandana7 (61145)
• India
9 Apr
@TRBRocks420 Me too. :)
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@BelleStarr (36112)
• Portland, Connecticut
11 Apr
I am on Facebook and connected to several members here including Hatley.
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@GardenGerty (95626)
• Marion, Kansas
11 Apr
I have e mails for several here. I also have a hard time turning loose of the e mails of the ones who have passed away.
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• United States
10 Apr
people seem to find me no matter what i do..must be that wonderful attitude of mine they can't stay away from (sarcasm)
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@GardenGerty (95626)
• Marion, Kansas
11 Apr
Oh, I bet.
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@JolietJake (48437)
• Olney, Illinois
9 Apr
A handful of people here have my email, and I have a facebook link on my profile page here (which my facebook is set to public so anyone can see it if they have a facebook account) so if I 'fall off the map' like when I went to the hospital last time or something else were to happen it wouldn't be hard for most people to find out
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@vandana7 (61145)
• India
9 Apr
One reason I come here, check on few friends that I can.
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• India
9 Apr
I think it would be better if we can get connected with each other on Facebook
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@Courtlynn (65021)
• United States
9 Apr
There are I think 3 people, who have my email. About 10 who have my address, or least did for Christmas cards. 3 that have my phone number. And about 7 who have me on social media. Plus 2 of them have my mom on facebook!
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@sallypup (25809)
• Moses Lake, Washington
9 Apr
I'm a blabbermouth. If anybody wants me, there are several online places to find me. My writing site, Creative Fancy, for one.
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@Kandae11 (33542)
9 Apr
A few members here have my email address - and my sister is here anyway.
@BarBaraPrz (19028)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Apr
Who is your sister?
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@Kandae11 (33542)
9 Apr
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@allknowing (60285)
• India
9 Apr
I think getting connected on twitter, linked in or FB would be a good idea.
• Midland, Michigan
9 Apr
Staying in touch is definitely a good idea since we tend to worry about our friends when we/they aren't hear much. I've pulled away somewhat these past few months for several reasons. I'm trying to get more organized in my house and with our paperwork, but I will say that often I spend too much time watching old shows I'd not seen in years on Netflix now that that's an option. We hadn't had a TV to watch in several years. I'm almost caught up on Grey's Anatomy, I began watching Criminal Minds with my daughter last fall and watched all those episodes and also happened upon Continuum from some years ago that I didn't know existed. I don't plan on watching any more at present. I may end up here more or not, but I don't plan on staying away for long spurts any longer. I'm hoping to be here weekly and maybe more eventually. I have a facebook account, but am rarely there. I do play facebook games and if a notification comes in from there when I'm online or on my phone I might check it out. I'll look at my profile here and see if I can add any info for the future if I'm ever lost for longer.
@just4him (106671)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Apr
Yes, it is good to stay in touch. I'm friends with a few people here on FB, so should I disappear, someone will know what happened.
@Hannihar (26716)
9 Apr
@GardenGerty Heather, I believe it is good to let people you want to keep in touch contact information on how to reach them if they disappear or have to go away from here awhile.
@nela13 (3815)
• Portugal
9 Apr
I think no one has my email or facebook here but i don't know if i am known enough to be noticed if i am not here for long periods.
• Portugal
9 Apr
I shared my email address with some Mylotters, and I also have a blog address on my profile page where people can use the Contact form. My husband also knows I am on Mylot, and he knows my passwords (in case something happens to me).