It Hurts to be Beautiful

@DianneN (246643)
United States
April 11, 2018 4:00pm CST
No photo of me! I just returned from a beauty treatment. Yes, I'm vain and I know it, but I like to look my best. After making an appointment for Fractora, a radio wave treatment in November which resurfaces the skin, I had my first treatment today. My doctor thought it would be a superior solution to decrease wrinkles, improve my complexion, reduce skin irregularities, and provide a healthier, younger looking me. After years in the sun, I was doomed. My husband thinks I'm crazy and ran away from me when he saw my red, swollen, greased up face. I should look better in two days. It didn't tickle, but would I do it again? Definitely! My next appointment is May 9th. Btw, I love love love my doctor!
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
11 Apr 18
I never go for such treatments my dear friend..be careful while taking such treatment for skin .hope the treatment give the successful results that you want..
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Thank you, but I'm certain you don't need the work. I've been having beauty treatments for 18 years and look younger and feel good about myself.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
11 Apr 18
@DianneN that's nice if it works well dear friend..hope your next appointment goes well too
@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Apr 18
@DianneN glad u found a treatment U like!!!! I'm a fan of various cosmetic procedures!!!
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@JudyEv (325648)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Apr 18
No gain without pain I guess.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
True! But it's worth it.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
14 Apr 18
Money wasted there!!! You do not need it!
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
19 Apr 18
@DianneN Oh dear I am sure your husband does not want you to go through it too!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Apr 18
@garymarsh6 No, he hates it, but afterwards he's pretty darn pleased. lol
@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Apr 18
Thank you, but that's exactly why I need it. lol
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
11 Apr 18
you shouldve chased your husband around the yelling at him to kiss you . but hey, if its something that you feel helps you, then why not.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
. I can still do it. He also despises grease! I have Aquafor all over my face. It's like Vaseline.. Thanks! It beats the knife!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
@Plethos Lol! First, I must grease up my lips!
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
11 Apr 18
@DianneN - tell him to give his lil love tomato a kiss.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
11 Apr 18
I am sure you are beautiful swollen red face and all.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Thanks! Love you, too!!!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Apr 18
Nice! I am happy for you, my dear friend. It is good to taka care of oneself always.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Thank you! Even though my husband tells me I don't need to do anything, he likes the results. Silly man!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
12 Apr 18
@DianneN you're most welcome, Dianne. I guess it is his way of saying you are always beautiful to me.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
12 Apr 18
Can't wait to see the results.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
12 Apr 18
@DianneN That's what I hope also but I'm sure you wouldn't do a procedure unless you were pretty sure of the good results.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@1hopefulman So true! I don't want to look like a freak.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
Just a new and improved version - I hope! lol
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Apr 18
I've only gotten facials (sometimes that does hurt!). But mainly I do face stuff at home. I love steaming my face. I like apple cider vinegar / water and cotton balling it all over my face and rinsing it off after about 10 minutes (I also do it with yogurt or dry milk with a little water). I love aloe and trying out different kinds of natural oils. I've gotten a lot of sun in my time too . . . I never had that white porcelain skin that many young Japanese gals have (only when I was less than 2 years old!). I'm sure your husband is running to you again !
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@much2say (53960)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Apr 18
@DianneN I remember that tool that supposedly takes out blackheads and such - that kinda hurt, but or maybe it was the technician's technique . I had my days of dark tanning in my teens . . . surely I could be paying for that now - but at least I tan easily (though not as well as in my youth) that it does protect me from sunburning (that being said, I do have a little bit of sunburn on my upper cheeks). You and your hubby are just too cute !
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
13 Apr 18
Facials should never hurt, but glad you are taking such good care of your skin. The sun is so awful, but I still love it with a heavy duty sunblock. Yep, he came running back!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Apr 18
@much2say Be careful of that sun, although I'm sure you know the damage it can do.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
12 Apr 18
Oh wow! I wish I can afford all those beauty treatments too ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
13 Apr 18
@DianneN oh thanks! but yes i do ..heheh .. I just can't afford to .. I think every woman dream of having beauty treatment ..
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
14 Apr 18
@epiffanie I'm sure you look as beautiful in person as you must in photos. Many women, surprisingly, can't be bothered with their looks. Poor them!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
You don't need them!
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@sallypup (57835)
• Centralia, Washington
11 Apr 18
This reminds me of the lady who exercised in the pool with me today. She'd do some aerobics then head to the pool side to grab her towel to wipe off mascara. The instructor said she needed to buy water proof make up. Guess she can't stand one measly hour without make up.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
I only wear lipstick to protect my lips when out in the sun along with sunblock. If I were her and wanted to wear mascara in the pool, for whatever reason, I'd certainly wear a waterproof one.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
Men just don't understand the pain we women go through to look beautiful for them. I'm glad you enjoyed it and love your doctor.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
Hubs doesn't feel it's necessary. I do it for me, but he enjoys the benefits. I'm looking and feeling great today, but greased up like a pig. lol
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 18
@DianneN I'm glad you're looking and feeling great. What do men know? At least he's enjoying the benefits.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@just4him He hates it when he thinks I'm suffering. But I'm truly not. Sometimes there is a little bit of discomfort, but very easy to handle.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Apr 18
I am afraid to do these types of treatments, I got a little skin cancer on my face years ago and so I don't go out in the sun much unless I wear tons of sunscreen. My skin is still pretty good for turning 60 in a couple of months so I don't really worry about it much. Good luck with your treatments, I hope it looks great when its all over.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
Glad to hear you wear sunscreen now. You are lucky that your skin still looks so good. My damage was done so long ago.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@cintol That's a good enough reason!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@DianneN I had a friend that used to sit out and tan all summer long, her skin started to look like leather, not a pretty site so that also helped me to take care of mine.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
12 Apr 18
Share a picture when your skin is recovered from the treatment
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
Never! Lol! If I happen to be in a photo, then I will, but not a close up!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@nela13 Aww, thank you for saying that! I'm my own worst enemy when it comes to beauty. I'm extremely critical of myself. Sigh....
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
12 Apr 18
@DianneN I mean after a few days, not immediately after the treatment. You are already a beautiful woman.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
11 Apr 18
I am sure it costs an arm and a leg.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
11 Apr 18
And a face!
• United States
11 Apr 18
Heheheh. Have a quick recovery! In 2 days, your husband will be glued to ya!
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• United States
12 Apr 18
@DianneN Heheheh, yes of course he is always glued to you! But maybe not for that one sec of seeing you red. Now he's used to it & doesn't mind it. Glad the stunning went away. :)
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@infatuatedbby True and thanks. I look better today, but have to stay greased up through tomorrow.
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• United States
13 Apr 18
@DianneN Heheh :) Hang in there!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Apr 18
How I wish I have lots of money too like you, so I could have facial treatments that can decrease my wrinkles around the eye area as well as remove my eyebag. It's not vanity but it's for us to feel good while growing old. You have the money, so why not?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Apr 18
@DianneN I am happy for you, that you have that. Be beautiful as long as you can. No more smoking please.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
13 Apr 18
@SIMPLYD Thank you! Never will smoke again!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
It does cost a fortune, but it's worth it to me. I have skin that oozes problems. Smoking and sinning didn't help.
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
12 Apr 18
I am sure that in a few weeks you will look beautiful. I have always hidden my face from the sun.
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
12 Apr 18
@DianneN I was not wise, but I have very fair skin, I cannot tan, I turn pink and then peel.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
@LadyDuck . You stinker!!!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
This takes time. Give me 3 to 4 months. Lol! You were very wise!!!!
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
12 Apr 18
Oh girl, I don't think I could handle that. Bartenders still ask me for my ID and it ticks me off cause I know they're lying @DianneN .
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
13 Apr 18
@DianneN I usually ask them, "Seriously? and how much have you had to drink. "
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
14 Apr 18
@nanette64 You kill me! I'm going to use that line now!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
I get asked that, too, but it's the law in some places. I'm stupid enough to be flattered.
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
12 Apr 18
You don't need a beauty treatment, young lady... :)
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
12 Apr 18
Lol! Thanks. No more until next month!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
13 Apr 18
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@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
13 Apr 18
@DianneN No, Dianne. No more, ever...
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
19 May 18
Now see, that's just wrong. You do that and don't share a pic? Shame on you.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 May 18
I had a second treatment and am going out tonight with 175 tiny scabs on my face. Wanna see??? Thank goodness for makeup!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
22 May 18
@porwest . They're all gone now. Just so you know, makeup covered them completely and not a soul noticed. Shhhhh!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
22 May 18
@DianneN Oh wait. Scabs? Umm. No. I mean, I don't mean to sound mean or ungrateful. They are probably nice scabs. Well, you know what I mean. Let me just get the heck outta here.
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