Holding On To, A Bad Marriage
By Joyce
@TLilly15 (2316)
Newport News, Virginia
April 13, 2018 12:06am CST
I was listening to this woman, talk about how her husband, is going to file for a Divoice and before she would say, he is not a bad husband, well if he is not a bad husband, why do he want to leave her, in the first place, and then she kept asking him would he come back to her each time he would tell her no, this woman isn't excepting what is happening to her, her marriage had fallen apart, and she don't know how to deal with rejection,I know when my marriage fell apart, I tried to save my marriage, it dis not work my husband just did not, want me any more and I had to deal with this, and move on with my life, and I have done that. I raised my son by by self, he is grown now and, had kids of his own who he loves dearly.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
13 Apr 18
it requires lot of sacrifices in one's life to make a marriage successful ! This is applicable to both the partners, there should be no room for selfishness, ego and mistrust to take this relationship till the end! Thanks dear @TLilly15! God bless!
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
13 Apr 18
Sadly marriage is not always a bed of roses. It requires a lot of everything, love, respect, trust, patience and so on... I don't have a perfect marriage nor anyone in this world. and i'm sure everyone has the ups and downs too. But when things go wrong between spouses, it is best that both of you are willing to compromise. It takes two to tango. I will just be talking about my point of view. I would love to do everything and my best to save my marriage. But after everything i have done and nothing is change then i have to accept that i have to let go. I can't blame my self for failed marriage if i have given my all to save it. Maybe it's time to free myself and my partner for us to be both happy. It will never be easy but acceptance will make it easier.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
13 Apr 18
@db20747 yes hang on till we can, give chance to ourselves. After all sometime in our lives we have loved each other so dearly. Couples can have different views as they go along what is important is that they are looking and heading to the same direction. At the end of the day love will surpass everything. So don't let love die without fighting for it.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Apr 18
Sometimes we should contests the divorce!!! When a woman leaves a man he will beg til she comes back and she will take him back!!! But when he's ready to leave the lady is just supposed to say OK and get over it!!!! No, No, No!!!! Contest the divorce, he can't leave just ' cause he don't want u more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Apr 18
For sure there is something a legit reason for that. Husband don't just leave their wife for a simple reason. It should be a hard reason why. My Father leave my Mother because of her unreasonable attitude. She is not even a good wife to my Father, and as a daughter, I gladly like to have my Father be happy.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
13 Apr 18
Most people don't like the thought of having to start over, so they try to hold on to what they have whether its good for them or not. 
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