What are the keys to a happy marriage?
April 19, 2018 7:31am CST
I'll be celebrating my first anniversary with my husband this coming May. For the first year of our marriage, there had been a lot of ups and downs. We argue because we have different perspectives and we criticize each others attitude at times. Is that healthy in a relationship? I guess, criticizing each others attitude is still healthy because it's a way of correcting your partners' unpleasant behavior. But I sometimes wonder if I'm doing things right or am I supporting my husband enough. Do I make him happy or not? Why does he lack the will to do his project? Am I not enough as an inspiration? Or is he just lazy? Or am I stressing him out? Those are questions in my mind that is left unanswered.
So i guess we're not doing good in our marriage. I also think that I'm having a hard time accepting my life now that I have in laws. I have to adjust knowing that I live in their house. NO matter how much my husband told me that it is our home now, I cant fully call it our home because technically it's not our home. I wanted to have a place I call my own.