Marriage vows

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@Paradon (2080)
Pattaya, Thailand
April 25, 2018 4:38am CST
When or if you are planning to be married will you make your own vows or follow the words of the person who is marrying you? I don't plan on ever getting married again, but I think I'd make my own vows. What do you think?
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• Russian Federation
25 Apr
We did not make any vows. And we both were sure that a marriage is a waste of time and money, so we just signed all the documents and went on a date that day. The more men promise, the less they do. Better to find a person you are sure in, then you will not need any vows from him.
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@Paradon (2080)
• Pattaya, Thailand
25 Apr
I agree with you on the issue of marriage, but "The more men promise, the less they do." is not just about men. There are many woman who fall under the same issue.
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• Russian Federation
25 Apr
@Paradon Maybe, but since I am a woman, I tend to judge only men
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@rheicel (7328)
• Philippines
27 Apr
I haven't been married yet. Do you think making good vows is really important?
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@Paradon (2080)
• Pattaya, Thailand
27 Apr
I really don't know for sure. Any vow or promise is easily broken.
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@rheicel (7328)
• Philippines
27 Apr
@Paradon Haha, that's what I had in mind you make a promise but you will break it anyway.
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@kepweng (17660)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
25 Apr
is usa have Divorced?
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@Paradon (2080)
• Pattaya, Thailand
25 Apr
Yes. Many people get divorced.
@much2say (40041)
• United States
27 Apr
We got married on Catalina by an officiant dude that lived there . We just wanted to keep it short and sweet (as it was just family and a couple good friends) - we left it up to the officiant. Maybe one day we will renew our vows and write our own.
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@LadyDuck (170643)
• Switzerland
25 Apr
I know that we were asked to repeat the words of the Priest who was marring us. I do not plan to divorce and marry again.
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@id_peace (7584)
• Singapore
25 Apr
I actually use the prescribed ones.
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@Jessabuma (33168)
• Baguio, Philippines
25 Apr
I don't have any plans to marry yet but maybe I will follow the words of the person who will marry me..
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@JohnRoberts (60972)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Apr
No plans of ever getting marriage here. I doubt I would write any vows.
@hereandthere (32489)
• Philippines
25 Apr
i wonder if all religions allow that, writing your own vows?