Marriage vows / myLot

@Paradon (2063)

Pattaya, Thailand

April 25, 2018 4:38am CST

When or if you are planning to be married will you make your own vows or follow the words of the person who is marrying you? I don't plan on ever getting married again, but I think I'd make my own vows. What do you think?

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Masha Vickina

@MashaVickina (2184)

• Russian Federation

25 Apr 18

We did not make any vows. And we both were sure that a marriage is a waste of time and money, so we just signed all the documents and went on a date that day. The more men promise, the less they do. Better to find a person you are sure in, then you will not need any vows from him.

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Richard

@Paradon (2063)

• Pattaya, Thailand

25 Apr 18

I agree with you on the issue of marriage, but "The more men promise, the less they do." is not just about men. There are many woman who fall under the same issue.

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Masha Vickina

@MashaVickina (2184)

• Russian Federation

25 Apr 18

@Paradon Maybe, but since I am a woman, I tend to judge only men

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What'sUp_Cel

@rheicel (7068)

• Philippines

27 Apr 18

I haven't been married yet. Do you think making good vows is really important?

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What'sUp_Cel

@rheicel (7068)

• Philippines

27 Apr 18

@Paradon Haha, that's what I had in mind you make a promise but you will break it anyway.

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Richard

@Paradon (2063)

• Pattaya, Thailand

27 Apr 18

I really don't know for sure. Any vow or promise is easily broken.

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much2say

@much2say (53959)

• Los Angeles, California

27 Apr 18

We got married on Catalina by an officiant dude that lived there

. We just wanted to keep it short and sweet (as it was just family and a couple good friends) - we left it up to the officiant. Maybe one day we will renew our vows and write our own.