Celebrating Three Quarters of a Century of Life Today
@bagarad (14283)
Paso Robles, California
April 27, 2018 2:47am CST
Today I'm crossing another milestone. I have been on this earth for three quarters of a century, but I still feel young inside - most of the time. Although I am stuck in this world now, doing my chores, loving people, and marveling at all the beauty I see here, I also know I'm getting closer to my eternal home. I know that what time I have left will probably pass quickly, unless I develop a painful condition. When one is in pain, time passes more slowly. I'm thankful I'm not there yet.
During my life I've seen many changes. I saw the first televisions enter my neighborhood and then my home. I've seen the kinds of TV programing change to what would never have been allowed in 1950. I've seen the types of TV commercials change, too. What used to be allowed, like cigarette commercials, aren't allowed anymore, but things that used to be unmentionable or even not invented yet back then are now all over the screen.
I've watched culture change. The population of America is more diverse. What used to be considered by most people to be immoral is now not only tolerated but embraced by some. Most people today do not consider themselves religious, but when I was a child, most people had a religion.
Education and politics have, in my opinion, disintegrated. People are indoctrinated in schools and colleges. Freedom of speech is disappearing and being replaced with political correctness. Those growing up in America today have not known the liberty I enjoyed most of my life, so they don't realize it is disappearing as the government takes more and more freedom away each year.
Crime has increased. When I was a child there weren't any school shootings, even though there were more guns around. There is more violence in the streets today. It was almost non-existent when I was young. Teaching was a safe occupation and students didn't demonstrate. They showed more respect to adults. They usually finished school and got a job without much trouble. The drug culture wasn't visible to the average person if it existed. The drugs of choice were tobacco and alcohol.
It is ironic that I was able to live in peace in the United States for most of my 75 years. I did not see citizens fighting each other in the streets or fear that terrorists might attack. Our greatest fear was that Russia might drop a bomb on us or that we might get polio. Now we only have to fear the former. Thank you, Mr. Salk. I'm thankful that I've never lived in a war zone. My husband did.
I have seen the world of medicine transformed. Diseases that used to cripple or kill can now be prevented or cured. People can get new body parts and get dental implants instead of false teeth. Surgeries that used to keep one in the hospital for days or weeks have been transformed to less invasive procedures that can be done on an outpatient basis. Doctors have new diagnostic methods like ultrasound. Anesthetics have become safer and more effective.
I have watched the invention of private telephone land lines, portable radios, cassette players, eight-tracks, CDs, DVDs, personal computers, iPhones, android devices, electronic tablets, jet planes, self-driving cars, and so much more. I watched them build Disneyland in Anaheim and bring the Queen Mary to Long Beach. I watched berry fields and Orange Groves in California turn into housing tracts, malls, and theme parks. I watched as freeways were built and my dad was among the first to use the Hollywood Freeway.
I have lived during the terms of 13 presidents. I don't count FDR because I was never aware of him. I do remember when Harry Truman was President.
I have led a sheltered life. I am thankful. I have had a mostly healthy life and can still be active. I am thankful. My husband of almost 54 years is still with me. I am thankful. I can look forward to eternal life when my time here is finally up. I am thankful.
What changes have you seen during your lifetime?
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@moffittjc (118368)
• Gainesville, Florida
27 Apr 18
Happy Birthday to you Barbara, and congratulations on reaching such an awesome milestone! It is such a blessing for you to still be going strong and have such great health at this age I hope you have 25 more great years in you! Times sure have changed a great deal for you over the years, and hopefully the good has outweighed the bad.
I look at all the challenges our world is facing today and think that there is no way we can continue to survive as a species on this planet, but then every day I see how creative and imaginative minds come up with innovative solutions to the world's problems. I just read yesterday that crop yields continue to expand at a rate faster than the rate of growth of the world's population, and for right now that means we have an adequate food supply to feed the ever-increasing population.
I think there are so many wonderful inventions and ideas out there that haven't been thought of or invented yet, and I am very optimistic at what the future holds. How great that future is depends on what we as a people will allow ourselves to accomplish.
It's both a frightening time and an exciting time in our history, but I for one am excited about what the future holds.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
30 Apr 18
@moffittjc They will make a difference no matter what they do. The question I have is about the kind of difference they will make
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@moffittjc (118368)
• Gainesville, Florida
29 Apr 18
@bagarad Well, hopefully our younger generation has an optimistic attitude that they can improve the future, as they're the ones who will truly make a difference in this world if they put their heart and minds to it!
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Apr 18
I hope you have a fantastic birthday. You deserve to have a wonderful day. You have lived during a very interesting time in history when change was taking place faster than any time in history. I'm not quite at the same place you are, but I've seen men land on the moon, used a basic manual typewriter, advanced to an electric, and then the computer. I prefer the computer. I used to do my research in the library using a card catalog. Now I use the Internet. Yes, we lived in a very interesting time in history. If I never meet you in this life, I look forward to meeting you in the next. Happy Happy Birthday!
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
I'm sure we will meet in the next. You mentioned some of the changes I'd forgotten to mention. How I could have used a laptop in college when I had to type all those term papers! Today's students don't know how good they have it -- at least when it comes to that!
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
27 Apr 18
Done. Thank you very much for catching this. I told you I still felt young inside. I guess my fingers were expressing that.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Apr 18
There were no lights in my home when I was born, the toilets were outside, we had to draw water from the well, no phone, and over the years here I am - lights, land line,mobile toilets posh ones at that 4 in number, tap water - I have a well too - washing machine, tv, dvd, computer - have I left out anything? may be (lol)
So how did you celebrate your milestone - happy birthday.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
28 Apr 18
@bagarad I forgot my camera. Those days the photographer would be summoned with his equipment and it took him hours and then he would work in his development lab. My camera as you know takes videos and stuff.
We never got to see movies in those days and here I have them lined up and I do not want to watch.
There is food in plenty ......................everything in plenty,.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
@allknowing Yes. Cameras have come a long way from those huge boxes photographers used what seems ages ago now. My first camera was a small Brownie that I got when I was a girl. I graduated to a 110 mm, and then to a 35 mm. The photos were good, but we had to be so frugal about how many we took because it was so expensive.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
I agree those were mostly good times. I also enjoyed the eighties when we had our children still with us. I still mostly enjoy life, but I can see that things will be getting more difficult if my state keeps heading in its current direction.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
27 Apr 18
That is very beautiful, Barbara. I have never thought you are 75 years old as you look so young. For me, I have seen the transition when children used to play outside the house towards to staying inside the house and play with gadgets instead.
Happy birthday to you, my good friend. God bless.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
Thank you for your birthday wishes. I think that transition was just beginning when we had our children. Kids didn't have cell phones yet or the kind of PCs we have today. We did family things inside when the kids came in from playing outside. They both loved to be outside, especially my son. Our neighborhood was safe enough to let him ride his bike around or visit friends who lived nearby. They built forts, treehouses, and other things.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
@mlgen1037 I wish more of today's children could have that experience. Many I meet find it hard to carry on a real conversation.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
28 Apr 18
@bagarad You are always welcome, Barbara. That is the very reason I am thankful because I was able to experience that. People had real interaction.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
28 Apr 18
Happy birthday.Yes,you have lived through so many changes.But feeling young at heart and happy is a blessing.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
30 Apr 18
@bagarad Very true.The thing is we should know how to appreciate them-like you do.
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@jstory07 (134331)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Apr 18
You have seen a lot in your life time. They had reel to reel tapes, cassette tapes and vinyl records during my life time. The Tv use to be in black and white and now it is in color. Tv used to be only free and now there is paid TV. Everything is new and improved now as they raise the prices and you get less.
Schools were safe and students were not rude to their teachers they respected them.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
3 May 18
Yes. I remember all that, too. And nickel candy bars bigger than the ones you pay much more for today. And eggs and a pound of ground beef for only 39 cents each. And let's not forget gasoline at 26 cents a gallon during gas wars.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
27 Apr 18
Happy Birthday! I have seen a lot too and I fear the world will crash and burn soon.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Apr 18
What you have witnessed in life echoes my mother who soon turns 79.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
@JohnRoberts That we did. I wasn't much of a fan. I could never understand why people went crazy screaming and trying to grab him when they saw him live. I could never understand why people would go that crazy over anyone.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Apr 18
@bagarad No, too young. You both saw the arrival of Elvis.
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@kobesbuddy (74448)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Apr 18
3/4 of a century, I think that's pretty darn wonderful, Barbara!
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@kobesbuddy (74448)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Apr 18
@bagarad My life has been blessed, also:)
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
27 Apr 18
@bagarad
Happy Birthday Barbara. I hope you have many more years to celebrate your birthday. Wow, 54 years with your husband. I saw JFK die. I have seen men on the moon. I have been around when color TV came into existence. i have seen new technology come into existence.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
28 Apr 18
When a culture turns against God or ignores him, crime goes up. The Bible says if you love God, you must also love your brother. If you don't love your brother whom you have seen, you can't love God whom you have not seen. If you love God, you try to keep his commandments. If you keep his commandments you won't be killing, raping, or stealing. The media and educational system in America are doing all they can to make God irrelevant to people. The politicians want to keep God locked up in the churches and they pressure the clergy to call good evil, and evil good. Too many clergy are jumping on that bandwagon to "stay relevant." One of these days they will find that God doesn't stay locked in church buildings. He is everywhere in the universe and controls it all. His message hasn't changed since Old Testament days. He loves his people and wants their hearts. When he has their hearts, they don't commit crimes.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
30 Apr 18
@bagarad This is very true. What I have discovered with time is that you can NEVER go against God. There are always repercussions and they are not that interesting. I do my best to involve God in everything I do because he is relevant to me and everything to do with me
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 Apr 18
Too dang many changes and not many of them for the good either @bagarad .
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@morgoodie (2645)
• United States
27 Apr 18
Happy Birthday!! You have seen a lot of changes throughout your time. I hope that you have many more to add to your list.
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