What you think of one thing that your spouse wants to change in you?? / myLot

Bangalore, India

May 13, 2018 7:59pm CST

Well, you don't like something about him/her and same goes with your spouse?? What is one thing that you think is disliked by your spouse in you?? Are you trying to change to please your spouse??

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bonnie

@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

14 May 18

i am a widow but i do know i changed a few things like my drinking habits and my easiness on loaning /giving to my kids of too much money. now that he has gone i am afraid i have slipped back into the money thing but at least i haven't started drinking too much again

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The Horse

@TheHorse (205716)

• Walnut Creek, California

14 May 18

I drink too much and am a big tipper. But other than that (and not sending a big brute out to collect the $1500 one guy owes me) I don't give away too much money.

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

14 May 18

Good choices!! Too much of drinking will ruin your health. You changed for good and maintain it.

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dpk262006

@dpk262006 (58675)

• Delhi, India

16 Jul 18

She wants me to be a better cook, I am poor in cooking.

Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

16 Jul 18

So are you trying to become one??

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dpk262006

@dpk262006 (58675)

• Delhi, India

17 Jul 18

@arunima25 I try sometimes. However, she feels that instead of me wasting time in trying, she would finish cooking dishes, as she could do it quickly and better than me.

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

17 Jul 18

@dpk262006 Effort and intention matters more than the output. You can always help her with other things where she needs your help

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ultraman cosmos

@id_peace (14005)

• Singapore

14 May 18

She want a lesser potty mouth and evil me

Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

14 May 18

Hmmm....So are you changing for her??

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ultraman cosmos

@id_peace (14005)

• Singapore

14 May 18

Nope I am Deadpool without the costume

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The Horse

@TheHorse (205716)

• Walnut Creek, California

14 May 18

My last human spouse told me I was not ambitious enough. My horse and I had a perfect relationship--no real arguments in 23 years together.

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The Horse

@TheHorse (205716)

• Walnut Creek, California

14 May 18

@arunima25 Well, she passed away a couple of years ago, so now I am widowed.

Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

14 May 18

Enjoy it!!

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

14 May 18

@TheHorse Oh! sorry to hear about your loss. May her soul Rest in Peace!!

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (306115)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

14 May 18

I think it's important that you are happy with yourself, then others will be too. I'm not married.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (306115)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

15 May 18

@arunima25 I do that all the time, but then, I'm not married, and I live alone.

Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

15 May 18

I agree with you. Being yourself and happy with that is the best mantra to live. But some suggestions and changes are in our favor and work for our self improvement

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (85274)

• Bangalore, India

16 May 18

@just4him That is also a different and fulfilling experience

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