I think I have a stalker

@Happy2BeMe (99420)
Canada
May 18, 2018 6:39am CST
Good morning everybody. Hope you are all well today. Remember when I was telling you about the guy who freaked out because he thought I was following him? Well after that I started taking a different route on my walk to avoid running into him. I did see him a few times off in the distance but I just turned and went the other way. This morning on my walk I was walking through the pedway and I seen him up ahead and when he seen me he started doing this dance of some kind trying to get my attention I guess. I didn't look at him and starting to walk down the nearest stairwell to avoid passing him then he walked over and stood on the stairwell above me looking down at me. I just kept walking and came straight to work. It really freaked me out. I always walk uptown before I get to work but I am thinking I am going to have to start doing my walk around my neighbourhood before I come to work. I don't know what his intentions are but it just makes me really nervous. He could be harmless but I don't need to have to worry about where I am walking because of some creep. Have you ever had a stalker? How did you handle it?
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@LadyDuck (455009)
• Switzerland
18 May 18
I would suggest to walk around your neighborhood for some days, just to be sure he is not following you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
I think that is a good idea.
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@LadyDuck (455009)
• Switzerland
22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe I am scared by weird people, you never know what they have in their mind.
@LadyDuck (455009)
• Switzerland
22 May 18
@kepweng Yes, unfortunately I had that unpleasant experience.
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@WorDazza (15836)
• Manchester, England
18 May 18
Do you have a gentleman (or any kind of man really, doesn't have to be a gentleman ) who could maybe walk with you for a few days? It might put him off.
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@WorDazza (15836)
• Manchester, England
22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe Is there nobody you work with who could maybe meet you on the way to work so you could at least walk part of the way with them?
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@WorDazza There is only a few employees where I work but I can check with them and see
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
No I don't really have anybody to walk with. I changed up my walking route so hopefully that will help.
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@silvermist (19706)
• India
18 May 18
That sure is disturbing.For some days walk around your neighborhood.If this continues,you will have to complain to the police.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thanks I will
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• Eugene, Oregon
18 May 18
That is very strange and I would be cautious. @WorDazza has a good suggestion.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thank you. I changed my route this morning so I was nowhere where he would be.
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@andriaperry (116876)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 May 18
Yes and I did what you are doing now, tell people, tell a lot of people. I wrote a public blog, it was on myspace back then. I told every detail she was doing, someone told her about the blog and she tried to have me killed by her boyfriend. Did not work! I had them in court because I filed all the police reports. I won. Get a picture of him if you can, just make sure he does not see you. Can the police and tell them about him, have them come to your house and make a report, make sure they file an incident report, you have to have this on record that you reported him, so if he does make a move you call the police and they know about him already, make sure you keep ip with where he was and what he was doing toward you. This is serious, he could kidnap you and have ill intentions.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thanks that is great advice. I changed my route today but if I continue to have that problem I will do that.
@JohnRoberts (109865)
• Los Angeles, California
18 May 18
Oh that is creepy and unnerving. No one will ever stalk me so nothing to worry about.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@lnillerman The wont arrest somebody simply for following you. He would have to do something which is sad.
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@rebelann (110771)
• El Paso, Texas
18 May 18
An xboyfriend of mine stalked me for a few years but it wasn't as personal as what you are putting up with, the x would call me at odd hours of the morning like 2am or something and he also harassed my parents. Otherwise I have never had a stranger stalk me or if a stranger did I didn't notice.
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@rebelann (110771)
• El Paso, Texas
22 May 18
It was @Happy2BeMe I was never sure where he was calling from so I finally disconnected my phone and my dad scared him with stuff he knew the Army would help him with so he finally quit calling them.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@rebelann that was good then
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
That must have been scary too
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@caopaopao (12398)
• China
19 May 18
Be careful, my dear friend. Maybe you should take a picture of him and tell your family about it. If he goes too far, you can call the police.
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@caopaopao (12398)
• China
23 May 18
@Happy2BeMe It is wise of you to do so, my dear friend.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
I have told many people about it and if I see him when I am with somebody else I will point him out to them
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@Juliaacv (48242)
• Canada
18 May 18
That is scary. I hope that you carry a cell with you when you walk, I always do just in case I need to call 911. I've never had a stalker that I'm aware of.
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@Juliaacv (48242)
• Canada
22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe All you need is something that allows you to dial out on it if the need arises-and I hope that need never arises. Can you report this stalker to Crimestoppers?
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@Juliaacv I really don't think they would do anything unless he physically tried something
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
That is a good idea. I don't have a cell but I do have an older one that I could use to call 911 if I had to.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
18 May 18
He sounds like a creep to be avoided. I had a a few stalkers. One I wound up dating, and the other became friends with. For real!
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
23 May 18
@Happy2BeMe I shouldn't have bothered with either. Lol!
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
oh wow..how interesting
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@Hannihar (129132)
• Israel
18 May 18
@Happy2BeMe That is spooky. I have never had a stalker and hope I never do. Take care.
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@Hannihar (129132)
• Israel
20 May 18
@lnillerman I can imagine how scary it is to have someone stalking you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@Hannihar It makes me very nervous
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@Hannihar (129132)
• Israel
22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe I can see why it does.
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19 May 18
That's so frightening. I hope you carry some kind of protection for yourself. Can you report him or have him under police surveillance?
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22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe Oh, my goodness! That's not good enough reason not to report a stalker!!! Do you have strategic plan on how to tackle when attacked? Take care.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
I am not sure the police will do anything unless he physically tries something
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@everwonderwhy No I dont. I have never really thought of it before but it is on my mind now.
@oahuwriter (26786)
• United States
19 May 18
You'd think he got the message, by now. It's off that he'd continue. I wonder if the sheriff or police have a Facebook page, like Hawaii, police does, where you can ask about things. Strange people have different attitudes, and you don't want a vengeful reaction. Pray to Saint Christopher, for protection, especially from the stalker. Get a guardian angel and pray to activate, and protect you wherever you are. God, help you, girl. Be safe.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thank you
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
23 May 18
@oahuwriter thank you I will
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@oahuwriter (26786)
• United States
23 May 18
@Happy2BeMe You're welcome...take care and be safest.
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@mlgen1037 (29901)
• Manila, Philippines
18 May 18
Just always be careful, Laurel. If there is really anything suspicious, call a police.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thanks I will
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@mlgen1037 thanks you too
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@mlgen1037 (29901)
• Manila, Philippines
22 May 18
@Happy2BeMe No worries. Take care always.
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@id_peace (14010)
• Singapore
19 May 18
I never have a stalker or stalk anyone. I find it no point. If there is a stalker, I will just invite the stalker to participate in my activities since my activities are often group orientated.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
That is good
@1creekgirl (40189)
• United States
18 May 18
Oh, Laurel, please be careful. He might be harmless, but he has no right to make you feel unsafe.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thanks Vicki. I walked a different route today but I will be watching that he doesn't show up. I hate feeling this way. I have never had that worry before.
@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
@lnillerman I walk in the morning before I go into work. I drive to work and then go for a walk before my work day begins.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
18 May 18
I totally agree with the @Kandae11
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thank you
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
22 May 18
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@Kuttu_007 (1942)
• India
19 May 18
Being a guy I never stalked anyone.... and never been stalked by anyone...
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
That is good
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• Northampton, England
19 May 18
That is worrying
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Yes it is so I changed up my walking route this morning to avoid running into him.
• New Delhi, India
19 May 18
Stop going through that place. Just go around your neighbours place for a walk.
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@Happy2BeMe (99420)
• Canada
22 May 18
Thanks that is what I am going to do