Another school shooting

@sissy15 (12269)
United States
May 19, 2018 10:27pm CST
Yet another mass shooting happened in the US on Friday. I am so tired of hearing about this. I am at this point where I don't know what the answer is. I just think something...ANYTHING needs to be done. I don't know if the answer is taking guns or giving higher ups guns. I don't know if making sure there is an on-duty guard who patrols the schools is an answer but a lot of schools can't afford that. I just know whatever the solution there needs to be something done. I am tired of hearing everyone arguing but no one actually solving the issue. The things done so far to schools has made them almost like prisons in some areas, which is sad but apparently necessary. How did we get here? How did we go from the rare school shooting to having several within a month? I don't get it. Bullying is insane, kids aren't getting the mental health care they need. Everyone is arguing about solutions. People can't handle opinions different than their own and get mean and sometimes violent. How did we get here? What happened to getting along with people who believe something different than yourself? It's no wonder our youth has the issues they do when the adults are all arguing with each other and aren't leading by example. Both sides of the political spectrum have been throwing accusations at each other and tearing each other apart and it helps no one. Instead of arguing how about listening to each other and finding a solution? BOTH sides need to listen to each other. I don't think this is a one answer fits all kind of solution. One side is screaming end gun violence and take away guns and the other side is getting out of control and getting violent because the other side won't end violence...how does that even make sense? Then they tear each other apart calling each other names like that helps anyone. How about acting like adults and actually fixing the issue? I get that there is probably no perfect fix but clearly more needs to be done in all of the schools in the US. It saddens me that my son has to learn how to protect himself and others in the event of a school shooting and he is only 7! I hate that this is where we are as a society. My innocent child has to fear for his life even at school and worry that his school may not be able to adequately protect him. It used to be that school was safe or at least mostly safe and now they have to worry about bullying and violence. They have to worry someone is going to come to school with a gun. I shouldn't have to worry about my child when he is at school and yet I do. I know everyone has a different opinion about how to deal with this situation but at this point, not a whole lot is being done. They have done some, way more than was done when I was a kid but it's not enough. This kind of thing shouldn't still be happening. I partially blame the media sensationalizing it and following it for hours on end giving these murderers the attention they clearly want and it gives ideas to others. We as citizens do have the right to know about what is going on but it shouldn't be splattered everywhere and constantly naming the murderer. We need to switch the attention to the victims. We need to stop talking about it for hours and speculating when we don't know anything. I don't know the solution I just know that instead of arguing with each other and calling each other names because we don't agree with each other we need to come together and do something. Maybe try different solutions. Just listen to each other and come up with something that will actually help. I am tired of hearing about these children being murdered. Those kids didn't deserve this. They deserve to be safe while at school. I am so tired of having my heart break on a regular basis and then having to send my own child off to school and pray that he stays safe. We NEED to stop the arguing and name calling and assuming WE are the ones who are right and maybe hear the other side out. You don't have to agree with everyone but you should try to see things from another side. We owe our children a better brighter future.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 May 18
By seeing adults arguing and bullying each other-what do we think children are going to do since they copy their parents?? Anyway, it's heart breaking. Every time I hear about another school shooting I pray for the families and thank GOD I Home School my children!
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
20 May 18
Exactly. I have thought about homeschooling but my son is an only child and needs the social interaction. He does after school activities but not all year round. He needs that daily interaction with other kids. I have thought about homeschooling more and more though. It breaks my heart that this is where we are right now.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
21 May 18
@sissy15 That is a very big misconception about Home Schooling. There are co-op groups where kids do get plenty of social interaction-they meet a couple of times per week to hang out with other Home Schooled kids. Plus, church activities they can be part of and any sports too. Besides, at school they get maybe 20-30 minutes to "interact" during recess/lunch...What is social about that? The rest of the day they sit at a desk and do their work--quietly.
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
22 May 18
@LovingMyBabies It honestly depends on the homeschooling. I had a friend I grew up with that was homeschooled his mom was friends with mine and while yes he went to functions with other homeschooled kids it wasn't on a regular basis. I also knew other kids that were homeschooled that didn't get the same social interaction as those of us that were in public schools our whole life. Now my stepson goes to a school where everything is done online and only goes to the actual school like twice a week but we don't have anything like that around here. My stepson goes to school in the city over. Sporting activities are only once or twice a week as is church. My son needs regular socialization because he is an only child he doesn't have kids to talk with. For us, he has school 5 days out of the week and then he does cub scouts and baseball and during the summer he does summer day camps. He craves interaction with other kids on a very regular basis because he is at home without other kids most of the time. It isn't entirely a misconception depending on the homeschool you use. Around here most of the homeschooled kids don't get the regular social interaction. All of the friends my son has made have been mostly through school. He met a kid at cub scouts that isn't in his class at school but is still in the same grade and they play together at recess and sometimes eat lunch together which is something he wouldn't get to do much if it weren't for also going to the same school. He even got a party invite to this kid's birthday and the mom had no clue they were in scouts together she found a way to get it to him through school. I mean homeschool works for a lot of kids and that's great and I wish I could afford to homeschool but unfortunately I can't. My kid craves social interaction on a regular basis and with being an only child it is difficult for him at times. I mean he can play alone and he is pretty good at it but he does get lonely and starts complaining he never has anyone to play with. I can't imagine if he didn't go to public school how he would be. I live in a small town where homeschooling while it is done it's not done much and we don't have many programs that cater to it.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
20 May 18
I'm shocked by your school shooting again and again. Is there something wrong with the government? They should have taken measures to prevent such a thing from happening.
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
20 May 18
@caopaopao It is annoying and I agree they are innocent and yet stuff like this keeps happening. I think the Sandyhook elementary shooting is the one that haunts me the most. Those beautiful innocent kids. Most of them were about the same age my son is now. Stuff like this shouldn't be happening. I am always so angry when they kill themselves because I really want them to suffer and I don't say that about many people but anyone that can hurt a child needs to feel what it is they did and suffer severe consequences for it.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
20 May 18
@sissy15 That sounds really annoying. The children are the most innocent.
• Philippines
20 May 18
Love and a strong bond of family is really what people needs. a friend of mine went to prison, and when they are interviewing the people there, they have only one common denominator... all of them are came from broken family... I am not saying that we should blame it all on their past, because they are grown ups now... But still, love that coming from a strong family bond to support those people who are committing crimes is a big factor.
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@sissy15 (12269)
• United States
20 May 18
It can be but sometimes it is more than that. I have seen some serious crimes come from people who had loving homes and environments it can be more than that. Take my brother for instance. My mom had seven kids and the rest of us have never done anything like the stuff my brother is doing. He had a loving home and a mother who would go above and beyond for him and he still turned out the way he did. The one shooter who killed a bunch of people in California I can't remember his name anymore but he had a mom and dad that loved him and he was crazy and felt entitled and went and killed a bunch of people. Parents aren't perfect and they mess up sometimes but some of these kids clearly had issues that went beyond just family lives. Take two kids who have had horrible home lives. They can even be from the same family and one can turn into someone successful and one can turn into a criminal. It sometimes has to do with mental illness and how a person looks at life. I believe bad family lives can sometimes and often do cause people to turn into criminals but at the same time, most of those people had other issues than just home lives. It can be their personal outlook or mental illness but there is a reason why some people turn into criminals and some don't beyond just a poor family life.
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