Fashion I don't "get" : Duggar Family Fashion edition

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Incase you don't know - the Duggar family were the stars of the TLC TV show called "19 Kids and Counting" and the show followed this large family as their kids were born, grew up, and lived every day life. They are part of a Religious movement which promotes having extremely large families and values conservative leanings. So I was on the odd side of Youtube and came across this video which addresses their fashion rules. I'm going to prefix this by saying - <B> I have nothing against people being modest, or people having morals and values, these are only my thoughts on the subject of the Duggar family fashion rules. So, being conservative - obviously - low cut necklines, bare shoulders, short shorts and mini skirts are out. That isn't too surprising. So are pants of any type. Now skirts can be quite comfortable, this is true. But for other things they are uncomfortable - such as physical activity. One of the many daughters is into weight lifting. And she must do so in a skirt. I can't imagine that being comfortable, or as she squats and lifts - it could cause some immodesty that they are trying so hard to avoid. As a woman I would feel insulted being told that I need to work out in a skirt. But that's me. If it works for them, more power to them. While it makes sense that itty bitty bikinis are out - so are regular, modest, swimming suits. They can only wear "wholesome suits" which are a special made swim suit that consist of a pair of shorts that go to the knee, a longer skirt over the top of that, and a top that looks sort of like a turtleneck. And those are not allowed in public. Only privately at a friend's swimming pool. Now, I have nothing against the modest swim suit - if it's made out of swim material and hygienic for a pool. I might even be tempted to try one, other than it looks really inconvenient to attempt swimming with all that fabric, and I like to get an even suntan. However if you are buying one of these to avoid attracting attention to yourself - it's pretty rare to see someone so covered up at the beach. It might actually end up drawing more attention to you. Interesting enough - apparently the men do not need to follow any fashion rules themselves and can wear whatever they wish. But they do need to look at the ground whenever a woman is around in public who is not following the Duggar family fashion rules. There is even a codeword. I guess if the women spot an immodestly dressed woman out in public(you know, someone in a regular swim suit, bare shoulders, tank top, shorts, etc....) the women call out "Nike" - the word chosen to be a code word for an immodestly dressed woman. The men are to immediately avert their eyes, looking at the ground until she passes. (Who knows what the shoe company thinks.) I think that's really sad. If I were a man I would be insulted at the insinuation that I couldn't contain myself at the sight of a bare shoulder. *gasp*. I live in the midwest. We midwesterners aren't known to be really flashy or provocative. But even here tank tops and shorts are the uniform of summer, basically. I mean, do these people function in society? I can imagine the Duggar woman walking down the street of my small town chanting "Nike!" "Nike!" "Nike!" and then men walking into trees, lampposts and buildings because they need to look down all the time. What if the men need - for some reason, to interact with one of those "immodest" women? Anyway - in effort to take the focus off of the body, I feel like they turn it into a big deal. I hesitated making this next point, however, one of the Duggar boys molested his own sisters, and those sisters were following the fashion rules - so it isn't all about seeing flesh that feeds bad instincts, after all. Personally - it doesn't bother me if they want to be modest as long as everyone is allowed a choice to do so, And these are only my thoughts on the topic.