How do you get someone's attention if they are not listening to what you have to say?

@josie_ josefina, that is really funny.

Absolutely very funny @josie_

Smart, that's the way I would handle it.

@epiffanie Very interesting Bess but that does not work for me.

@popciclecold That does not work for me because unfortunately the people I do not want to talk to I have to and they do not care and still do not listen to what I have to say. So, right now I am to find my own way of doing things so do not have to deal with them.

@Shavkat Shavkat believe me I wish I could do that but this person is the one who decides my fate and the others we are not on good terms so no one to talk to so have to figure out for myself what is best for me.

@Hannihar If I am in your shoe, I just let go both of them. They need to work it out with their problems to each other. I am sorry, I don't have any patience dealing with these people.

@Shavkat I don't either anymore so will try two more things and then ask a friend for help.

@Hannihar It is better to avoid them.

@shshiju Even if the person knows I am there they are still rude to me.

@shshiju There are those I can avoid and those I cannot.

@anikoonline I just give up because I feel like I am talking to a brick wall.

@FayeHazel There are some I have to deal with that have their own agenda and nothing I say will help me at all.

@Hannihar That's too bad. SOmetimes that happens though if they person you are talking to isn't the best listener

@mlgen1037 In a situation I am in it would not matter and I just say what is on my mind and they just do not want to hear it so we are at odds and I am no longer my own boss there and have to play by their rules and hate it but do not want to get kicked out.

@mlgen1037 I am self employed and have sold at a place but it is no longer good for me so trying to find ways to sell what I have left but not succeeding. I am not feeling well so want to finish and then rest.

@Hannihar So you are currently working right now, Hanni?

@valmnz I am not sure if it is worth the effort.

@Hannihar

@DianneN That does not work because they do not talk and they do not listen to me. I waste my time talking to them and they are the only one I can deal with. People in certain positions forget what it is like to be down below with us little people.

@Hannihar And that has been my issue with my family. So, I don't bother telling them anything unless it's very important.

@just4him Valerie, I understand that but sometimes there is only one person to deal with and that is not good because that person may not care what one has to say.

@just4him I understand what you are saying about family. My brother thinks he knows all but he knows nothing.

@JudyEv That is annoying.

@thelme55 That is a good one.

@kavinitu You have a good point there. This person does not like me so there is really no communication and he has disappointed me in many ways and is not honest so hard for me to deal with him. I am honest and straightforward and he does not like that.

@BH0elmereen Since people have responded I believe I have.

@moichan Even if you are the one doing the talking to him he still does not listen?

@Hannihar yes. Lol. Maybe he's tired from work.

@moichan I have someone in my building that thinks everyone is nice and tells me people that live across from me like me even though I asked him twice why he has to slam the door and he still does it and she talks about me behind my back. He just does not want to listen to me and I am afraid when they move these will take over and I will have to pay them and then I will get screwed. He says do not worry. He has nothing to worry about because he is leaving I am sure soon. They just had another baby and I believe he is not telling me the truth that they are leaving. I will call them to tell them to straighten the people out and not screw me since he will not listen to me. I just do not like to talk to him because he does not do anything. He was suppose to put up a sign because when someone moves in they bring things down to the bomb shelter because they cannot use the storage and I am the only one that just has 2 things in there. My scooter and my attachment. He would not tell me who is suppose to do a sign and if it is the one across from us they I am sure tell people to bring things in and will not do one. I am not moving because it is expensive elsewhere and I like what I have here in the apartment.