Is there any fixed formula your discussion gets successful?

By suny
@suni51 (3429)
India
May 26, 2018 10:56pm CST
I see discussions from particular members reach to myLot's hot list instantly. I wonder what is the secret behind their success! But I am sure they know the trick of how to do it otherwise it was not possible. Do you have any tips for me or are you the one who is always in the Hot/Top rated lists? As usual, I will say a big Thank You once you suggest me something useful.
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@vandana7 (98731)
• India
27 May 18
I for one would be terrified if my post was as successful as that. Usually, people say the same thing, because the post itself may not offer much scope to have different responses. Imagine rephrasing same reply to comments 30 odd times...I am not that good in English. Then again, it feels terrible to be doing that to friends. It is not merely about getting responses, and earning monies. It is also about being thoughtful and having fun. At least, it is like that with me. So thanks but no thanks, I wouldn't want too many responses. Therefore, I have not bothered to study the system that fetches as many responses. :)
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@marguicha (215187)
• Chile
27 May 18
I feel the same way. Besides, I don´t have time to respond that way. It would bore me, even if I could do it.
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@vandana7 (98731)
• India
27 May 18
@suni51 No bro...if I come up with a post saying Indian government failed in coming up with required laws against rapes, and explained the matter, what can I expect friends to say? Yes, yes, yes, yes, few might come up with yes, they should have done like this. Now what can I reply to those many yes replies? They are friends, and their opinion matters. The fact that they agree with me, implies that they have thought about it, and have agreed to it intelligently. Now, I go there, and write mechanically, I agree, thank you for your response. I agree, you are right, exactly, it could have been better...and so on. I am not adding any valuable input to the effort they put in to think about something that they need not. Then it does not feel good, it feels as if I am cheating them. They have not done it to earn pennies and cents, but me replying like that, would be exactly that.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
Half of your statement is true but you have answered diplomatically or being too modest. But that doesn't mean I did not get what you wanted to tell me.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
27 May 18
Hi Suny. I really do not have the formula for that. When I make a discussion, I do not think that it will go to Hot or Top Rated discussions. I just write because I want to and it is something that is written based on what I feel.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
I was expecting a similar comment from you! I have too few discussions to show but now I am planning to write few more and see how the things turn out for me!
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
@mlgen1037 Thanks mate!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
27 May 18
@suni51 hehehe. Yes. Do not worry, I will comment on them.
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@marguicha (215187)
• Chile
27 May 18
I have no idea and I´ve been here for many years.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
I think you are the one always in all the lists, so I was expecting a suggestion from you!
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@marguicha (215187)
• Chile
27 May 18
@suni51 For sure it does not depend on the number of answers. Maybe someone tags my posts.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
@marguicha It was the case with me in the past but most of my friends have left the site lately!
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
27 May 18
Try responding to atleast 100 discussions in a day and see the results. All of them will get to your discussions as well.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
27 May 18
@suni51 Good Luck with your efforts.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
27 May 18
@allknowing You will enjoy doing it. Also gone are those miserable gangs that created hell for some here. Many have left myLot.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
Great Idea! I would do the same from now on ... Thanks for this suggestion!
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@jstory07 (134294)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 May 18
Just respond to your discussions. Go into the discussion of everyone that responds to yours,
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
I never miss a single member's discussion that responds to mine or ever had a discussion with me. Thanks.
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• United States
27 May 18
One thing I do notice, certain members will always get a response. First step is people answering. Some will scan the discussions, answer certain posts. So much for the interaction, then you get some who will kindly respond to everyone. Not every discussion will interest everyone, but that is what makes us all different. I hardly ever have anything in the hot section.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
As much as I understand those members are very popular because they are always present on the site and reply to most discussions as soon as they come up on the list. Second, they have something to help others in one way or the other. By the way, I notice your discussions in different lists.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
28 May 18
@CookieMonster46 great! I am not always here but come after every hour or so and try to answer everyone!
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• United States
27 May 18
@suni51 I will guess they are always here, I am not but try. I don’t limit myself . I try to answer a lot of people. Kind of like foods I like variety.,but that’s just me.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
27 May 18
Yes I have. Respond more on others posts and stay active for longer time. Hopefully yours posts will reach to the top.
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
27 May 18
@suni51 I was active before this month and will show you how to do it.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
@sjvg1976 I will be waiting for your roadshow!
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
I know you have great ideas for me but you show up only on weekends so I am not hopeful!
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
27 May 18
Reply to other’s posts as much as you can. Don’t post a bunch of discussions each day, stick to a few good quality ones. When people reply to your posts, be sure to like their replies and answer them. People who have been here for years are also more likely to get a lot of responses. Just keep being a good MyLot “neighbor” and as people get to know you, you’ll see more responses.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
28 May 18
Thank you very much for your suggestions, as you can see I am leaving no stone unturned and trying my best!
@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
27 May 18
@suni51 I do not know if any of mine have ever gotten to the hot discussion list so cannot tell you what makes those special while others do not make it. I would say they must have discussions that interest people all the time is why they make that list.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
Let me share a secret with you, all your discussions reach to the all lists possible but you never tried to check those lists. If you don't see them on top of the list scroll down a little and you will see all of them are very much there. In some cases you will have to scroll down a little deeper though.
@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
27 May 18
I believe it's hit or miss when you post your topics. I do notice that many make many posts.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
In my case it was better in the past but now things seem to have changes a bit. I though some of my friends would enlighten me on this, thanks.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
27 May 18
@oahuwriter Keep an eye, I hope someone will give us a Mantra of success!
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
27 May 18
@suni51 I'm glad you asked for I thought to learn too.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
28 May 18
I don't have any idea hehe!!! I am still new here.. and I rarely post my own discussion
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
28 May 18
New but full of ideas so I am expecting something from you!
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
28 May 18
@suni51 thanks, I will try my best.. Have a good time!
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