Oh Give Me A Break

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Preston, England
May 27, 2018 4:32am CST
A show I was going to take part in on Friday involving short true story talks on the theme of ‘broken’ sadly got cancelled due to low attendance. These are the experiences I would have talked about there. In about 1970, aged eight, I was playing lunchtime ball games in the playground with friends when I slipped and fell. My ankle hurt like crazy and so I hopped, assisted by friends, to see the dinner ladies who doubled up as first aiders. They decided that my foot was a ‘bit sprained’ and sent me to afternoon lessons. My pain was increasing and friends tried telling the teacher that I looked really unwell, but I was told to stop being so soft. At home-time, my mum fortunately came to pick me up in her car, and she was concerned when I came out of the school being carried with my arms supported on the shoulders of two of my friends. She could see that my ankle was extremely woollen too. She was a nurse and she rushed me right round to the hospital, where as she suspected my ankle wasn’t a bit sprained but actually broken. I’d been left to put up with the pain for over three hours. I got nearly a month off school, but my mum went to the school the next day to talk to the headmaster, and apparently frightened him so much in her anger that he tried to run away. She eventually found him hiding behind a desk in one of the classrooms. A year later when I openly and loudly rejected Christianity despite being in a Catholic school, the headmaster considered expelling me but when I pointed out that that would mean he would have to talk to my mother again; he decided to just ignore the situation. Arthur Chappell
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
27 May 18
I love your story Arthur and I see that all teachers in the Catholic schools are like those I had. They did not listen and they do not care if children are in pain.
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@LadyDuck they think suffering is good for the soul so they like the idea of such agony at times
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• Preston, England
28 May 18
@LadyDuck yes suffering is something to fight against, not embrace or say we deserve it in some way
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@LadyDuck (457918)
• Switzerland
28 May 18
@arthurchappell This is what is wrong in their bigot brains, they want to see people suffer because we are all sinners. It seems that Mother Theresa of Calcutta was very bad about this, she wanted to see the poor and sick suffer. She told all the time "how pleased she was to see them accept their suffering". I cannot agree, she should have helped to stop them suffer.
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• Bournemouth, England
5 Jun 18
My late mum was a bit like that - formidable!
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• Preston, England
5 Jun 18
@asfarasiknow it must have been like being chased by the Terminator for him - wish i'd seen it for myself
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
27 May 18
That headmaster sounds a real coward, but your mum was a force to be reckoned with. Sorry your show got cancelled.
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• Preston, England
28 May 18
@jaboUK it happens from time to time - hoping next month's show picks up ok or it could be the last one of its kind
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
27 May 18
Love those "mama bears" I am one too and there is nothing more scary than facing one when you try to mess with her cubs. Good for her and how irresponsible that teacher was.
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@Freelanzer good for you, great to know kids are safe when we have such powerful mums
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@Kandae11 (53679)
27 May 18
He should have taken refuge in a cupboard instead of behind a desk.
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@Kandae11 I don't think even that would have saved him - she was magnificent
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
27 May 18
Some teachers or people in general are inhuman. You were feeling the pain not the teacher which means she should have listened to you
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@Kandae11 yes they just took it as read that anyone there was trying to get to go home early so when anyone reallt was ill or hurt they didn't know what to do
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
27 May 18
It seems that your headmaster is afraid of your mother.
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@caopaopao yes he was - she can be quite formidable
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
27 May 18
I always like to stare at teachers when they talk. Many will shiver as I do that.
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• Preston, England
27 May 18
@id_peace always handy to be able to do that
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
27 May 18
that is sort of weird there.I do not have any answer to that.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
27 May 18
Your mother must have been a formidable woman back then! Is she still the same?
@JudyEv (325648)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 May 18
Fancy hiding behind a desk. What a coward but it stood you in good stead later.
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• Preston, England
28 May 18
yes, he was an appalling man in general. He used to give detention if we failed to give the name of the school when randomly asked which is the best school in the world. It was like being in the army.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 May 18
Good that your mother put the fear in him. Lol You don't mess with mama bear.
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