Do you believe in saying: "Blood is thicker than water." ?
By jovy
@Jfronda82 (270)
June 7, 2018 7:37am CST
I have a traitor in my family. I trusted her. Respected her. Maybe this is the time "believing no one". She did choose someone who is not part of our family than me. And this person did something unforgivable to me. Then I told this to her about what this person did to me. She and her husband are the only person I told about it. And they advice me not to tell anyone because it will cause chaos in our family. So i trusted them. But then you found out that they still interacting with this person without my knowledge. I really disgust them!
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Jun 18
No, I do not. Just because they are a relative doesn't mean they are a good person that you should always support.
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@Jfronda82 (270)
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7 Jun 18
Yes, Thank you for your reply..I also don't believed it..
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@BH0elmereen (826)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Jun 18
Sometimes misunderstanding happens. Maybe it will get better with calm and open communication. Soon, maybe not now, but we pray for reconciliation of your family.
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@Jfronda82 (270)
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30 Jun 18
Thanks but I think it will take a very long time for that. :)
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@BH0elmereen (826)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Jun 18
@Jfronda82 Thats great of you to say yes. Some will say firmly that no. But then there are possibilities. God has plans. Why it happened.
@BH0elmereen (826)
• Baguio, Philippines
1 Jul 18
@kepweng yes my parents do too. About pensions is their thing. Its crazy. But then after few months they talk. And we go outing and theyll be fine again
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
3 Jul 18
That depends on how the person treats you. What's the point of having a family if they treat you like garbage.
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@FourWalls (62131)
• United States
7 Jun 18
No, I do not believe the statement to be true. Some of the deepest scars I've received came from family.
We have a saying in America that "you can't pick your family, but you can pick your friends." I don't find that totally true, either: you cannot pick who you're related to; however, you can pick who feels like family to you.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
7 Jun 18
Hi Jovy. I do not really believe that except to a certain concept. Not always that are family will be there for you, only when they need something from you.
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Jun 18
@Jfronda82 Perhaps. Seen that with my own relatives.
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@Jfronda82 (270)
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7 Jun 18
yes..definitely agree..maybe because i cant give that something..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 Jun 18
I feel your pain. It is hard to reconcile how family can cause such pain, but yes I still believe that blood is thicker than water. Family should be those who we can count on, but sadly ,it doesn't always happen..
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
7 Jun 18
Maybe the couple was just being fair with you both. I mean between you and the one whom you considered as a traitor.
@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
8 Jun 18
@Jfronda82 this must be a really serious problem. Care to share it with us? so we will be able to know what's really happening around?
@Jfronda82 (270)
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8 Jun 18
@sw8sincere it is really kindda serious and very private..how i wish i can tell..it is really unforgivable..
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
9 Jun 18
@Jfronda82 i think i finally got what you mean and I respect it. I hope you can forgive yourself and forget about it. Cuz it will not make you go on with your life being happy if you still keep the hatred from the past.
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