Dilemma mood

@purest (44)
Ibadan, Nigeria
June 9, 2018 11:19pm CST
"Please I want to ask. I got a new job that pays me twice my former job. My gf asked how much I earn and I don't know if I should tell her or just lie. Is it right to tell her?"
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8 responses
@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
10 Jun
Hi Segun. If I were you, I will not share my salary unless I live with the gf or we are married. Conngratulations on your new job.
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@purest (44)
• Ibadan, Nigeria
10 Jun
Good advice Louise....... Hoping to have a wordy advice from you again.
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@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
10 Jun
@purest You are most welcome, Segun.
@mandala100 (50475)
• Hong Kong
10 Jun
No reason to hold back telling her unless she wants to get all your money my friend!
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@purest (44)
• Ibadan, Nigeria
10 Jun
You know girls change the system at the end of the tunnel financially
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@mandala100 (50475)
• Hong Kong
10 Jun
@purest Alright my friend.
@Starmaiden (7643)
• Canada
10 Jun
A good relationship begins with trust. Just be honest with her.
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@hereandthere (32767)
• Philippines
10 Jun
do you live together? do you share expenses?
@purest (44)
• Ibadan, Nigeria
10 Jun
We don't leave together likewise we don't share expenses.
• Philippines
10 Jun
@purest are you saving up for something now that you have more money? are you helping your family (parents/siblings)?
@purest (44)
• Ibadan, Nigeria
10 Jun
@hereandthere, am the alfa and omega of my family which needs to take care of my brothers and sisters bills
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@jstory07 (69882)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Jun
Nothing wrong with telling her since she is your girlfriend.
@purest (44)
• Ibadan, Nigeria
10 Jun
Do you think her demand wil not multiply because she z yet to be wife and she might even be promiscuous.
@Keibah (204)
• Nigeria
10 Jun
@purest Sounds like you are unsure about your girlfriend and you need to know more about her. It is your choice to tell her or not.
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@arunima25 (8426)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jul
Congratulations on your new job! I would suggest you to keep it confidential from your girlfriend. It is okay to disclose it to your partner if you are committed for life and take financial decisions together or run a family together.
@Hannihar (42016)
28 Jun
@purest To me it depends on why she is asking? If she thinks you are going to buy her lots of things then I find a way not to tell her the amount but tell her it is not important.
@kanchan10 (3414)
• Kolkata, India
23 Jun
Don't tell her a lie just get the job