My roommate is not talking with me

@tom_view (3922)
Kolkata, India
June 12, 2018 2:22pm CST
My roomie is not talking to me.I am not aware of the reason though.I cannot remember we had any quarrel in recent past.Still i do not know the reason he stopped talking with me.
19 people like this
24 responses
@AKRao24 (20672)
• India
12 Jun
This is a common problem with the people at this age....I can assure you to be please be keep calm and have patience to get the the things clear all by themselves! Though I am not a Bong...my wife is a Bong and my DIL is a bong so who can understand better than me a Bong?
5 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
haha. that is great, nice to hear from you.
2 people like this
@AKRao24 (20672)
• India
12 Jun
@tom_view , Most welcome dear friend!
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
@AKRao24 thank you
2 people like this
@simplfred (4514)
• Philippines
12 Jun
Well, why don't you ask him why? Or do the first move to fix everyyhing.
3 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
he is not answering
3 people like this
@simplfred (4514)
• Philippines
12 Jun
@tom_view Anyway, maybe just give him time. Definitely, you'll fix this soon.
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
@simplfred hope so.
2 people like this
@nomus24g (24409)
• India
12 Jun
Will a bottle of Jack Daniel do the magic
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
you have a great idea.but he is too boring to get drunk.
@nomus24g (24409)
• India
12 Jun
@tom_view then some Sambalpuri weeds may be :) ...is he Odiya?
1 person likes this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
13 Jun
@nomus24g a fellow Bengali
1 person likes this
@Ladanger (2776)
• United States
12 Jun
Have you tried asking him Why?
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
he is not responding
1 person likes this
@Ladanger (2776)
• United States
12 Jun
@tom_view wow that's so immature of him
1 person likes this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
@Ladanger i think so.
1 person likes this
@saritflor (4085)
• Israel
12 Jun
I'm sure this is not an easy situation, but it's important to talk and trying to solve it.
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
tough situation to handle.
@saritflor (4085)
• Israel
12 Jun
@tom_view maybe try to leave a letter? with some lines explaining that you want to talk about your situation?
1 person likes this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
13 Jun
@saritflor a nice idea,
@mandala100 (48334)
• Hong Kong
12 Jun
Better ask your room mate my friend just to clear the air.
2 people like this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
i have to ask so.
1 person likes this
@mandala100 (48334)
• Hong Kong
13 Jun
@tom_view Yes my friend and any new development?
@dodo19 (33316)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Jun
Hopefully, time will help make things better. If it doesn't, you can always try asking him and see what he says.
1 person likes this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
13 Jun
i have no idea.
1 person likes this
• Russian Federation
12 Jun
Why should I know about it?
1 person likes this
@tom_view (3922)
• Kolkata, India
12 Jun
that is a point
@chicnthin (2834)
• Philippines
13 Jun
Maybe he is having problems, give him time.
1 person likes this
@id_peace (7591)
• Singapore
13 Jun
The roomie may just be tired or have their own preferred friends.
1 person likes this
@aninditasen (1790)
• Raurkela, India
13 Jun
He may be upset due to some reason Keep silent and he will open his mouth some day.
1 person likes this
• India
13 Jun
Give time. Time is the best healer and things will be fine soon.
1 person likes this
• United States
13 Jun
Try not to dwell on it, it will pass.
1 person likes this
@mlgen1037 (29634)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Jun
Hi Tanmoy. Your roomie is immature. Tsk.
1 person likes this
@caopaopao (12377)
• China
13 Jun
I think the best way is for you to ask him directly.
1 person likes this
@just4him (124124)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jun
I hope it all works out between you.
1 person likes this
@snowy22315 (51095)
• United States
12 Jun
I guess they will talk when they are ready. My roomie does not talk to me very much either 8 times out of 10, I have to iniate the conversation. I think he thinks we don't really have anything in common, plus I think he is a little afraid or perhaps annoyed with me. When he talks to me it is usually for a specific purpose not just to yak.
1 person likes this
• Pamplona, Spain
12 Jun
Give him time and let it rest for a few days and then ask him again and I would think that after a few days he should at least tell you something.
1 person likes this
@Corbin5 (113092)
• United States
12 Jun
It is best not to dwell on the fact he is not talking to you. Just let time pass until he is ready.
1 person likes this
@GardenGerty (101693)
• United States
13 Jun
If you wait long enough, the roommate will start talking again and acting as if nothing has ever happened.