Don’t Give Your Partner the Silent Treatment —

@amadeo (111948)
United States
June 14, 2018 10:24am CST
Today is June 14th.This is flag day/ when in a disagreement with your husband,partner,etc. Do you argue or give the silent treatment. Which is worse. I have done both of this. photo online _____________________________________________ Below is some facts about Flag Day
The holiday dates back to the 1800s.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
14 Jun 18
We always prefer to discuss the problem here.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
14 Jun 18
@amadeo , Thanks.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@marlina have a good evening
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@marlina good for you there.
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• India
14 Jun 18
I prefer silence treatment. Though I feel bad but I do sometimes :p
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@anamika yes silent is golden
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
14 Jun 18
I have done that to my husband twice in our marriage. But it only lasted a day or so before we made up.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
14 Jun 18
Both, but the silent treatment is better!!! That's what I'm getting lately!!!!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@db20747 why is that your getting the silent treatment.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
15 Jun 18
@ilovemyhubby My blood pressure can't take it anymore!!!!!/
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• China
15 Jun 18
Yes ,that's right!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Hello Alfredo. Silent treatment does more problem than solution.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@migen1037 Good afternoon Louise maybe to some?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
15 Jun 18
@amadeo Good afternoon too, my Alfredo. Yes, to some like my husband and me.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Jun 18
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@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
14 Jun 18
I find the silent treatment a lot more infuriating.I prefer an argument as that is the quickest way to get over the issue and get back to normal.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@sh2ker you have to watch out for your blood pressure
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@sh2ker that is for sure there.
@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
14 Jun 18
@amadeo I find keeping your feelings bottled up is worse for my blood pressure than an argument.
@snowy22315 (169854)
• United States
14 Jun 18
The silent Tteatment, although sometimes effective..is actually a form of emotional abuse. It is much better to talk things out. My ex mother in law told me that one time her husband had not spoken to her for 3 weeks, because she cut some sort of flowers or grapevines or something he was growing! Now that is excessive!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@snowy22315 three weeks.That is a very long time there
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@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jun 18
My husband and I have never had a fight and we talk about everything We like the same things and just seem to get along with each other.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@jstory07 never ever.that is great.Not too many can say this.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
14 Jun 18
I do both. But the silent treatment definitely doesn't last long. Maybe 3 hours tops. lol.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Courtlynn three hours wow.That is a long time there
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@amadeo not really. lol.
@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jun 18
Yes, I have done this and it does help if you're angry and don't want to talk. But often I will argue first-hahaha! The best of both worlds.
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@NJChicaa (115960)
• United States
14 Jun 18
No I don’t. I think it is juvenile.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@NJChicaa thank you.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
14 Jun 18
Talk and solve..if you remain silent problem remains same..
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Icydoll good choice there.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Jun 18
@Icydoll welcome
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Jun 18
@amadeo thank you
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
14 Jun 18
If I were to give my partner the silent treatment I would do it where he couldn't see me. Like on a very long walk or at a friends house. Give him some space and take some space for me also.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Starmaiden.Good idea there.We do this.Go out for a walk.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Silent treatment isn't good, it's better to talk to each other and solve the problem between couples
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Jessabuma well it depend.If one cannot talk then what you do is silent
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jun 18
@amadeo yes you are right on that
• Preston, England
14 Jun 18
discussing the issues is better
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
18 Jun 18
I do agree that do not give silence treatment. It will worsen the conflicts
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
18 Jun 18
@id_peace I am it does very much and also make you feel guilty like I am the villain ?
@DianneN (246540)
• United States
15 Jun 18
That's not something we've ever done. IF we have a disagreement, we talk it out. I can't think of when the last problem was. lol Happy Flag Day! Our flag makes me so proud to be an American.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 18
Me too , only sometimes
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@Ants79 (20)
• Bellville, South Africa
19 Jun 18
Silent treatment is needed sometimes, but its not healthy if it is done regularly or for too long, I think more than 24 hours silent treatment is too long.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
19 Jun 18
@Ants79 yes your right there.24 hours a tad too long
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@NikMik (3)
15 Jun 18
No matter how angry you are , don't give the other person the silent treatment. You chose him/her for a reason and he/she deserves to know what's troubling you. Plus, your problems will be resolved faster if you talk about it.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Jun 18
@NikMik that is for sure.Thank you
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