When your Mother is jealous.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 16, 2018 2:54am CST
It's Saturday here and same thing, nothing special about it.
I wake up at 12:30 pm and Brother already prepared my lunch.
I had chicken curry for lunch and I also have a half cup of coffee.
After having my lunch I went inside my room right away.
Mother is on the sofa. When I got home after my confinement in the hospital, she let me sit in the sofa while she stays outside. It was 3 consecutive days.
After that, I notice she stays on the sofa which is unusual for her because every day she stays outside. That means she won't let me stay in the living room anymore.
I know she gets jealous whenever my Brothers will do something for me and take cares of me. One time she said she is not feeling well. Then my Brother knew she is just acting because afterward, she went outside laughing with our relatives and neighbors.
My Mother always wants our attention.
When I am the one who needs more care because I'm not recovered yet.
How I wish I can hasten the time and live elsewhere.
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12 responses
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Jun 18
and i thought your mother is already acting like your mother. i am so sorry hija you are still in that predicament.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
@JustBhem really, hija, she should not have been a mother. why, even dogs care for their litter, but not your mother.
i think if you will be reborn, you won't choose her as your mother, am i right?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Jun 18
@ridingbet
Yes, I want a Mother who never ceases to love and care her children until they have their own Family too.
Unlike her, she said one time, she doesn't have any responsibility for us because we are all grown-ups.
I don't remember she take care of us.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jun 18
Ohh sorry to hear that Bhem. She should be the first person who understands your situation.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jun 18
@JustBhem oh that's sad to hear
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
16 Jun 18
Hi Bhem. Your mother is unbelievable. She should be the first person who should be giving you the attention and not all to herself.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Jun 18
@mlgen1037
She likes to have all the attention just for her.
My Brothers use to take care of me, feed me sometimes.
And she likes to be like that too.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
16 Jun 18
@JustBhem Mubalik ug pagkabata imong mama? (Your mother goes back to her second childhood?) 
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
16 Jun 18
I don't know what to say to this. Maybe you just misunderstood her action. I know when you become a parent you will understand her situation.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Jun 18
@simplfred
There is no way for me to go on that way anymore. I'm sick. Very sick.
Maybe I don't understand being a parent but regarding my Mother's situation, I do understand her.
She is not a good Mother ever since for us. Sorry, it's too long to explain it.
Let just say, there are some bad people.
@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
@JustBhem like I've told you, you will realize everything when you already entered parenthood.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
I can feel your uneasiness about living in that house. Why would a mother get jealous of her daughter when being taken care of by her brother? She should be happy she will not have to take care of her but her brother already.
Maybe you should talk with her heart to heart?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Jun 18
@SIMPLYD
If she did that a long a time ago with us, it would not be a problem for my Brothers are the sweetest.
They take care of me, while Mother will always ask for them. I don't need to ask my Brothers to take care of me because they always doing that to me ever since. That because they know I respect them and I do take care of them too.
Mother is always irresponsible ever since. She only takes care of herself. Only think about herself and not the welfare of my Brothers. Look where my brothers now? They have Family to early, some of them did not graduate High school because she doesn't want to support them in school.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
16 Jun 18
I always think that all mothers love their children very much and have no conditions.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
16 Jun 18
it must be hard for your brother, too, being in the middle.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 18
Why is your mom mean to you ? Afterall you are her flesh and blood.
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