Am I a GOOD ACTOR?!?

@Shavkat (137214)
Philippines
June 16, 2018 9:23pm CST
I cannot deny that most of you know what is the nature of my job as a Home-Based English Teacher. At first, I was so hesitant to share my secrets about it. The ups and downs of being a virtual teacher are not that easy if you don’t have the secret of catering different set of students. Now, I am comfortable to reveal the deepest secret teaching online. It has been almost 5 years that I am dealing with online students from kids to professionals. “Can you imagine how I change into a different person just for them?” They have different personalities and preferences in learning the English language. Since I started, the most challenging part is to deal with my patience. It needs much patience when dealing with the kids. I can be a clown, teacher, parent and name all different characters. Through the years, I had developed the skills of being a good actor virtually. With this, I was able to carry out my job with a good performance during my online classes. The good thing is, I didn’t develop having a split personality. “Are you a good actor in a particular situation?” “Do you have the patience to teach kids?” Image Credit: img00.deviantart.net
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Jun 18
Hi Shav. I deal with children every schoolyear and even if they are the hardest to please, they are the most adorable. I am gentle with them until they test my patience.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
It is rewarding that these students are improving. They can be naughty with the sense of humor sometimes.
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• Philippines
17 Jun 18
what ages do you teach, louise?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Jun 18
@Shavkat It is true, Shav. They are a handful but I love them to bits.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
I can feel you there. One moment, your student is a sweet little 5 year old then next you have to deal with a doctor/nurse/lawyer/businessman. Teachers are really great actors, we cannot let them know we are undergoing something. All smiles.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@rakski Most of the time, students who are computer addicts are too entertaining. They can't control oneself playing while having the lesson. Kids are kids.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
The youngest of all that I had taught is 2 years old. I had to dive into the deepest sea with this student.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
@Shavkat I feel yoy. I had one who slept while we are having lessons becausr it is too kate for the kid to be still awake.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
i am, kabsat, even here at home. i have to put a strong facade when i feel pain because i do not want my son and sister to worry. this is if the pain is manageable. unless it is not tolerable anymore, i shed down my 'acting skills' and tell them how i feel.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
Wow! I think Kabsat you are talented in acting. I think I also have the innate skills of being an actor. In real life, I don't show that I am having a problem and that is, not to let them feel worried, too.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@ridingbet One of my younger brothers is like it. A small pain is a big deal.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@Shavkat that is true. i would not even like my sister to sympathize with me when i complain of pain and ache. why? it is because she says she is more sickly than me. for instance, when i tell her i have headache, she will reply,"me too, i have headache and i take medicines but was not relieved. i did not sleep well last night even if i took Citirizine". see? one sentence from me is one paragraph to her. hahaha
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Jun 18
Yes I am. Dealing with tenants. Each tenant is different so I "act" differently with each.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
I can agree with you. We do have business before. I deal with them diffently at that time.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
17 Jun 18
When working with the public U have 2 B versatile!!! U definitely have 2 have acting skills!!!! People look up 2 U I'm sure!!! U have a good personality I'm sure!!! I can tell!!! Teaching takes special people!!!!
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
You said it right. It needs to be flexible with these students. It was like shifting from one character to another. Some people described me as a serious type of person. But then, I transformed into a different persona when working.
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@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
17 Jun 18
@Shavkat same here, when I'm in sales or on stage I come alive!!! I'm nice funny and like making people laugh!! I have 2 tell people this is not everyday!!!!
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
@db20747 It is a good thing that I challenge myself not to dwell of being an introvert. I am so timid during my primary and secondary level at school. But then, I need to break free from being an introvert during my university days.
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@Hannihar (129418)
• Israel
18 Jun 18
@Shavkat Shavkat, I see what you are saying. I probably act differently when I have been selling things to people. I really get into what I am doing and enjoyed it.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
When we still have our business, I don't show the real me when selling goods. I do think it applies to this principle.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@Hannihar I usually do this with my little niece. I can be childish sometimes.
@Hannihar (129418)
• Israel
19 Jun 18
@Shavkat I felt like I was in a childhood and enjoyed buying things and seeing how they worked and really got into demonstrating and having people watch and think it was cool.
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@popciclecold (35085)
• United States
19 Jun 18
Once I was able to deal with kids. She has brought about a change.
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• United States
20 Jun 18
@Shavkat EXACTLY.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
That's a good reward, my friend. It is where we felt that we did the right thing for a kid.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
Yes, patience is a must when one is teaching even in real life and also online. But maybe online, can make you camouflage you irritation because they cannot see some of your body language, only your face. I am planning to teach online when I finally retire, two years from now. However, I feel like I don't like to retire yet. Maybe you can pm me some tips on how I can be a good online teacher like you.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@Shavkat And it's hard to do that actually. I am a transparent person. When I am angry, it shows in my eyes, even if I am smiling.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@SIMPLYD That's why I am trying to develop my acting skill.lol It is quite difficult at first.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
No worries. You can just PM, my friend. Sometimes my face is so expressive and students can see the real emotions. However, the tone of my voice needs to be gentle. In fact, I am concealing my irritability when having this particular class.
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• Philippines
19 Jun 18
I don't think I have it in me. You should try acting classes if you have the time. maybe you got a shot at a theater if you are good as you say you are. That's dangerous if you develop a split personality, we might end up having conversation with a stranger here
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
It is strictly job-related only. I know that I am good at in this field. I was asked to be in a showbiz. But, I refused the offer.lol
@DianneN (246668)
• United States
17 Jun 18
I've taught school and college classes as my career. Teachers need to use every trick of the trade to motivate students to learn. Been there. Done that. Teaching is not easy, but it is so rewarding!!! Good job!
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I agree. We need to find some motivators for them to cooperate. I did a lot of experiments to make me effective. So far, I am using them with full confidence.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
19 Jun 18
@DianneN Thank you, my friend. I am just trying to be one.
@DianneN (246668)
• United States
18 Jun 18
@Shavkat You are doing a terrific job!
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@JudyEv (325654)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Jun 18
I taught children piano and mostly was very patient even with those who didn't practise as much as they should have.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
I think that is tougher if a kid will not practice.
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@JudyEv (325654)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Jun 18
@Shavkat They don't progress at all if they don't practice.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
21 Jun 18
@JudyEv I agree with that. I usually say this to my online students.
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• India
20 Jun 18
I love being with kids.. They are so adorable that obviously I can't lose my patience on them...
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
I had loaded myself with patience before having online classes. I should take a nap in the afternoon and ready to face the challenges with kids at night.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Jun 18
@anamika161088 I must admit when it was my first time to have classes with children. Now, it is a piece of cake.
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• India
20 Jun 18
@Shavkat You struggled a lot to get that patience
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@reskyyandi (3616)
• Indonesia
18 Jun 18
I understand about your feeling. It's hard to teach kids.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I do agree with you. It sounds difficult but if they learn something, then that would be rewarding.
@YrNemo (20261)
18 Jun 18
Don't know, but on good days, kids could follow me around.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I think you are considered one of their best teachers.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
23 Jun 18
@YrNemo I think that's the best quality that teachers need to adapt. I can dive to the deepest level for a person to feel being accepted.
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@YrNemo (20261)
23 Jun 18
@Shavkat hmm, I have to think about that.... (carefully I mean .) No, on second thoughts, no, I am not a good teacher. Kids follow me because I am ready to play with them and make them laugh. I lower myself to their level, and they feel safe and cared fore, that's all.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
18 Jun 18
Diplomacy is the name of the game to be able to live among human beings.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I do agree with you. It could be done offline and online.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
17 Jun 18
I love kids but teaching is not my strong point I have to admit.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
17 Jun 18
I must admit the early part of my teaching is like a hell. I don't know how to deal spoiled brats.lol But then, when I started to know them for a couple of times. I tried to find ways to capture their attention.
@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
17 Jun 18
My first real job was teaching and yes it takes patience and I have plenty of it. I also taught adults and university students and they require more patience than the young ones. I think that you have to put on a different face for every job you do, in other words, you have to be professional - or act professional.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I agree. Some professionals are quite rude with their own beliefs. I had encountered them for a couple of times. Although I make sure that I am his or her teacher.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
17 Jun 18
I have learned to improvise in many different areas. I am also a trained actor.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
18 Jun 18
I agree. We can be so creative when teaching or having some series of training. I had trained medical professionals before, too.
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