Im the bad guy!

@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
June 18, 2018 3:28pm CST
I had a friend since elementary school. So I consider us close or was close. She started dating a guy about 5 years ago. After about 2 years this man messaged me on Facebook asking to go on a date. I knew they were dating and living together. I said no as I don't do that to friends. He was very sly and cocky. So in that time he up and left in the Middle of the night. Not to be mean but I wouldn't take back someone who even sat down thought of this, packed their things and left I guess he told her I was the cause. Sorry but that an excuse to leave and get rid of her stage 10 clinger. Well in the end she lost me as a friend. She lost a lot of friends actually because of her accusing me of stealing her boyfriend I never did this. But again he got a girl we went to high school with pregnant, left her high and dry 8 months pregnant so I guess he wouldn't do that to Her!!!. So I haven't spoke to her ... nothing. Sorry but I don't lie so keep the nasty boyfriend. Over this time she got back with this guy and got married today. Her mother messaged me on Facebook not sure why since we arnt friends and haven't spoken in 3 years. Funny because this little boy was messaging me 6 months ago and a close friend to hang out/ go on a date. I didn't say anything because she can learn the trash she married. She will just blame me like most insecure needy woman because she can't see the truth. A close friend told her and even showed her the messages. She flipped on her and claims I sent her to lie. Whatever I would never expect my parents to sell their house and savings to give me a wedding and honeymoon . I hope to god she doesn't have kids with this man. But oh well too much stress and negativity for me. I deleted the message and didn't reply. Not worth the hassle because She's clearly trying to make herself out to be better.
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@GardenGerty (157463)
• United States
18 Jun 18
You meet some of the weirdest people. They seem to be desperate and have no self respect.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Jun 18
I met her when I was 5 I give credit for that. I have cut all them off but they just seem to come back.
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@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Jun 18
She can believe what she wants to believe. Clearly, she doesn't want to see the kind of guy he really is. That's her problem.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jun 18
I'm sure with time eventually he will come out.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
18 Jun 18
That is a tangled web for sure. I hate people who lie and do things behind ones back. That guy is a real piece of work. No woman should ever be treated horribly. Not by scum like that. And your friend should understand you more. Unless she is way hard up for a man. That in itself is sad.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
19 Jun 18
@ricki_911 Wow, that is horrible. I cannot see being hard up for anyone. Really. Some people take it to the extreme. But there are lots of women out there that look for a man for complete support. Especially financial. And the world has changed now. It is not like in my parents day when one salary would be enough. Women need to be independent. Well, look, it is her loss.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jun 18
She is very hard up. She need a a man and can't support herself. So I tend to think that's her life goal. But she is no longer a friend. She lost 3 friends for this guy.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
18 Jun 18
you don't know that its because shes insecure.they might really love each other.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jun 18
If he loved her he wouldn't be trying to bang every girl that walks by. He has messaged myself , a close friend who had called me lat week on it as well the kids mothers he hasn't dated in years. If someone showed me a message of my guy messaging girls to bang he'd be gone. It's not as if we said he said this with no proof. So yes she is insecure if she stays even after proof of the behaviour v
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
18 Jun 18
Hi Ricki. Then let her learn the hard way. It is her choice. And you live your life not worrying anything.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jun 18
That's how I will be!!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
19 Jun 18
@ricki_911 Go for it!