Which hurt one the most in life

June 21, 2018 1:56pm CST
I was just wondering which could hurt the most saying hurtful words and later regret or keeping mute but feel bad later for not speaking up earlier. I think bottling up earlier will hurts me more,I like letting my emotions out, how about you?
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Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
21 Jun 18
Both but more painful when you didnt say what you meant to say.
lovely
@augusta123 (6649)
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22 Jun 18
yea that painful
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Louise Crisologo
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Jun 18
@augusta123 yep. The part where you wish that you could have said something.
caopaopao
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
22 Jun 18
I like to say what I want to say. Of course, if it is particularly hurtful, I will choose a suitable way to say it.
lovely
@augusta123 (6649)
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22 Jun 18
That's it
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ksmita
@ksmita (513)
• India
21 Jun 18
Both is hurtful..saying hurtful words and regretting later and bottling up emotions. It is better to be assertive and express yourself in a proper way, not easy though, but trying myself..
enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
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22 Jun 18
The two will hurt me
Karen Bogayan
@IncredKaren (275)
• Philippines
2 Jul 18
Hello Lovely. As an adult, I strongly suggest pause when you are in extreme emotions. Hurtful words will come out if you are angry, so it's better to go to a place where you can breathe and think then go back and talk to the person when you already calmed down. There a fine line between bottling up and cooling down. ^_^