"How to move on?"

June 23, 2018 11:26am CST
Many people experience to be in love but half of it didn't end up to unending story... And I know all of us here come across that stage we're we experience both.. to be loved and to be hurt/or to be broken... I just want to ask, base on your personal experience... How did you overcome the word "Move On"? What are the things that you did in order to set yourself free from a lot of pains? :)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Jun 18
I make myself busy and go out and relax with my friends.. I exercise also.
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@arunima25 (85238)
• Bangalore, India
23 Jun 18
Distraction is the best way to move on. Acknowledge your feeling, accept it and then focus on things that will keep you busy and help you to forget fast and move on.
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23 Jun 18
Right... very helpful
@arunima25 (85238)
• Bangalore, India
23 Jun 18
@heart24 Little tough to follow but works
23 Jun 18
interesting
@cintol (11261)
• United States
23 Jun 18
Finding the strength in yourself to know you are better than that and deserve better than what you are getting. Being able to push it aside to move onto better things and flush out the people who aren't worthy of your love. Find something else to put your thoughts on until you find exactly what you are looking for and never settle for less.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
14 Jan 20
Very true, #wellsaid
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 Jun 18
What I did is to be with friends. True friends will never leave you. No matter you are with a relationship or not, friendship still there to entertain you. I moved on by being with friends.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
14 Jan 20
That’s good
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
23 Jun 18
Hi and welcome to this site As for your question most of the times it's easy to say but it's hard to apply. I think we should let time do its own thing as for our ability to "move on". Have a great time here.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
14 Jan 20
It is hard yes, but from experience, time will only heal if u choose to let go and move on. If u are still holding on to that person, time will not heal.
• Philippines
24 Jun 18
As everyone knows, moving on is not an easy thing to do. I myself have been in love but like how a story ended with a period, I was just left alone. For me, it is not true that time heals ALL wounds - it could heal SOME but not all. What if the wound is too deep? Just the how the brain that does not regenerate its cells, maybe the pain will remain there - the shattered pieces of your heart are just there - waiting for that very person to paste them back.
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@Jerene (112)
• Tanzania
14 Jan 20
Do not mistake that time heals if u did not choose to let go. First step to move on is letting go. U probably blamed yourself more for causing the break up when he/she caused it too. U were supposed to be angry at them for allowing it to happen before u forgive them, let go and accept that it wasn’t meant to be. That’s how it works.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 18
I think distraction is the best way to get over a romantic breakup. I dated a wonderful man in 2005 however he came from Preston and I came from Canterbury. Even when I moved to near Bristol we lived a long way from each other. I had to move on when he and I split up. We tried being in the friend's zone for a while. I miss that time he and I spent together.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
23 Jun 18
We need to just concentrate on other things.. just keeping yourself busy with various activities.. you don't have time to think about past..
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23 Jun 18
right...
@banksim (5198)
26 Jun 18
Engage yourself in other task