"How to move on?"
June 23, 2018 11:26am CST
Many people experience to be in love but half of it didn't end up to unending story... And I know all of us here come across that stage we're we experience both.. to be loved and to be hurt/or to be broken... I just want to ask, base on your personal experience... How did you overcome the word "Move On"? What are the things that you did in order to set yourself free from a lot of pains? :)
8 people like this
• United Kingdom
I think distraction is the best way to get over a romantic breakup. I dated a wonderful man in 2005 however he came from Preston and I came from Canterbury. Even when I moved to near Bristol we lived a long way from each other. I had to move on when he and I split up. We tried being in the friend's zone for a while. I miss that time he and I spent together.
As everyone knows, moving on is not an easy thing to do. I myself have been in love but like how a story ended with a period, I was just left alone. For me, it is not true that time heals ALL wounds - it could heal SOME but not all. What if the wound is too deep? Just the how the brain that does not regenerate its cells, maybe the pain will remain there - the shattered pieces of your heart are just there - waiting for that very person to paste them back.
• United States
Finding the strength in yourself to know you are better than that and deserve better than what you are getting. Being able to push it aside to move onto better things and flush out the people who aren't worthy of your love. Find something else to put your thoughts on until you find exactly what you are looking for and never settle for less.
• St. George, Bermuda
How i moved on was i basically wrote a letter to the person who broke up with me i did not mail it too him i just wrote it to get my thoughts on paper and clear my head i cried some then i ripped the letter and threw it in the garbage and never thought about the person again and said God has someone better for me.