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@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
June 24, 2018 9:14am CST
I am already in bed, tiring my eyes by playing candy crush when this phone that I am playing with gave the whistling sound of an incoming message on chat and phone number. It is a message from a high school classmate informing me of the date, time, and venue of the get - together with a classmate who will have her vacation here in our city. The text came from SM. I replied through chat message to EB that I might not go because it will be hot to leave the house at 10:30AM. EB refused that I won't go. She insisted that I should go because that will be the first time since high school graduation that we will see this particular classmate. Should I go? I still have several days to decide. Meantime I have to sleep now. See you tomorrow.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
24 Jun 18
Don't force yourself if you dont like to. But if it is me, I would go especially when I have good memories with them.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
i and the classmate were in one section in our 1st and 2nd years. i hope the rest of us will enjoy the time with her on the 30th
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
28 Jun 18
@chicnthin i am thinking otherwise again. if the 10:30AM temperature will be this hot on the 30th, i will not go.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
26 Jun 18
@ridingbet I assume you are going?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Jun 18
Good night po, Ingrid. I think you should go but trust your guts.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
yes hija. i still have 4 days to decide but i am thinking on the positive now
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
@mlgen1037 yes hija. it is a 60-40 percent now
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet hehehe. But is it more to going than not going?
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@sabtraversa (12855)
• Italy
24 Jun 18
Did you have a good relationship with that classmate? I wouldn't care seeing most of my classmates again. But I think you would have a good time together, especially if you get to a mall or a place with a/c. I mean, whether you like her or not, gossip and laughs will come naturally.
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@sabtraversa (12855)
• Italy
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet I know. Everyone is going to be sweaty anyway, you could get some tissues and freshen yourself in the restroom, once you get there.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
26 Jun 18
@sabtraversa i just thought i have somewhere to go on Saturday. i am now at 40-60 going and not going anymore.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
oh yes, the mall is cool with aircondition operating. what worries me is, it might be hot leaving our house going to the mall. i do not like to be sweaty when i arrive there.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
24 Jun 18
@LoriAMoore is right. Do you like that classmate and would you like to go or do you feel this as an obligation only?
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet If you do not feel comfortable to go, do not go. The heat is very bad for your health.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
@LadyDuck yes that is what i am thinking, but since it is not hot anymore, i could go, not unless it is raining. i won't go.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
my other classmates nag me to joining the get-together. many times they had mini-reunions but i decline joining them. i would not want to be in a drinking spree with them because practically, all of us are nearing the age of 60 already
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
24 Jun 18
I think you should go if you only feel you like too. Night!
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
3 Jul 18
@ridingbet did you go?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 Jul 18
@rakski no i did not.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
good high noon. i am thinking about going.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Jun 18
You should go. You might never see some of these school mates again.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
thank you. i am now considering on going to that get-together.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
26 Jun 18
@RubyHawk thanks.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
26 Jun 18
@ridingbet Have fun.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Jun 18
I think you must go and attend as such times will not be repeated in your life again and again! Thanks!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
yes, it will be an experience. i think on the 60-40 going.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet , Yes definitely! Thanks!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
Try to evaluate yourself if you are enthusiastic in joining them. But if you are forced because they will get hurt of you not attending, then better not attend.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
i want to see my classmates but if 10:30AM is hot or raining, i will not force myself into joining the get-together.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
If you feel like it, then go. But the choice is yours to make.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
i am considering going, but i have my final decision to make on the night of Friday.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
24 Jun 18
If you do not feel like going, don’t go. Don’t let others force you to do things that you do not want to do
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
yes, i believe each of us have the freedom to choose. i am at 60-40 decision to go.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Jun 18
If I were you, I will go. Not all the time you will experience such gathering. But it's your decision that matters anyway.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
yes hija, i am now 60-40 going, but i will text my final answer on Friday to RB.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet Good.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
24 Jun 18
I think you should go my dear friend.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
thanks
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet welcome dear friend
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@dya80dya (33382)
25 Jun 18
I think you should go.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
thanks for your response. i will decide this Friday.
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@dya80dya (33382)
25 Jun 18
@ridingbet You are welcome.
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@Peach10 (1920)
24 Jun 18
Go and have fun.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
thanks.