My grandpa's grave still has no headstone

Staten Island, New York
June 25, 2018 7:04pm CST
It's been about two and a half years since my grandpa passed away and my dad still didn't order a headstone for the grave. At first he didn't do it because he couldn't find a suitable picture of grandpa. Eventually he found one but he still didn't order a headstone. I wonder why he is not doing it. That is just wrong on so many levels. And it's not like he can't afford one. So what gives? Every time I think about grandpa's grave without a headstone I want to cry. It's so sad that so much time has passed and he still doesn't have one.
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@simplfred (2666)
• Philippines
26 Jun
Have a courage to ask him, I think.
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• Staten Island, New York
26 Jun
I want to but no words come out.
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@JESSY3236 (6463)
• United States
26 Jun
Maybe he has forgotten to do it. You should remind him.
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@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Jun
Hi Lena. I would feel the same way too. But like @simplfred, why not ask him why it is taking him so long to put a headstone.
• Staten Island, New York
26 Jun
I want to ask him but I can't bring myself to do it.
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@mlgen1037 (29626)
• Manila, Philippines
27 Jun
@lovebuglena I understand. Maybe he has his reasons. I guess there is a perfect time to ask your father.
• Staten Island, New York
27 Jun
@mlgen1037 Maybe he forgot about it. I hope I will be able to speak soon because this is crazy that grandpa is still without a headstone after all this time.
@just4him (116693)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Jun
You might ask him why he hasn't and when he's going to.
• Staten Island, New York
26 Jun
It's weird. That didn't happen when grandma passed away.
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@just4him (116693)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jun
@lovebuglena It is weird.
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