You understand how does it feel to be sick?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 27, 2018 6:10am CST
Whenever I am pissed off, and if someone will ask me something during that moment, instead of accommodating them I don't answer them. It's been like this ever since I got sick. The boyfriend will tell me that my attitude is becoming not normal anymore. I get easily piss and sometimes I get irate. My Doctor once said to us that this kind of behavior is somewhat normal for people who suffered from Kidney disease and for those people who undergoing Hemodialysis. But I am not liking this kind of behavior. Who want's it? Undergoing Dialysis is not very easy. You will end up very ugly as the time goes by. It will dry your skin, it is not just dry, super dry, then it will make your skin dark, and it's not just dark super dark. You will have a lot of falling hair, you can sleep at night, your Hemoglobin will go down, some of the patients lose eyesight because of cataract. You will eventually lose weight, can't urine anymore, some muscles will get painful, you can walk straight because of swollen feet, you get weak, you will have an issue with your breathing. Sometimes you don't have an appetite, you get sick, and your immune system is weak. See? So don't judge people who are sick.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
27 Jun 18
It is not right to judge anyone sick or not. But it is still much better if all will have a positive disposition in life. Like being thankful for life itself and be happy that we wakes up everyday (sick or not). Stay positive @JustBhem!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
I am always thankful for every morning I get to wake up. That is already an achievement for me. But always I wake up so late. Lol One jealous girl judges us of how we look because she is healthy doesn't mean she has the right to judge us. We are still people and we are trying to live the normal life.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
27 Jun 18
@JustBhem yes, that is right. No one has to judge another sick or not, plain and simple. It is the evil mind who judge, just stay positive no matter what.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
@rakski As much as possible I am trying to ignore them. I feel them when they judge us.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
27 Jun 18
I understand you Bhem. It's too hard when you are sick so no one has the right to judge them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
It is hard indeed.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
27 Jun 18
@JustBhem that's true.
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@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
27 Jun 18
Is he your boyfriend instead of taking care,he judged you...huh!
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• Guwahati, India
27 Jun 18
@JustBhem Oh then it's good
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
Nope. He doesn't judge me. He is the one who takes care of me.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
27 Jun 18
I also think it is normal that illness will lead to upset mood. We should be considerate of the sick.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
28 Jun 18
@JustBhem You're right, my dear friend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
They should be the one to understand us because it is hard to have sickness but other people will try to break your mood.
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• Philippines
27 Jun 18
Hello @JustBhem Thanks to this post you recently made it was a good thing I wasn't being confrontational with my Father. I think people just don't care specially if they are more into problems on their own and just wants it to dump it on you for their own selfish reasons. Nothing helps being negative though, don't quit and try your best to remain positive, I'm sure God knows what you're going through.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
Thanks. You should understand your Father now because it is not easy being sick. And you are welcome. I know you have a good heart.
@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 18
I am so sorry that someone doesn't understands your feelings, being sick is no fun
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Jun 18
No fun at all, every move I take corresponds a number.