Japanese People - Act of kindness incident

Tokyo, Japan
June 28, 2018 11:53pm CST
Hello This is Anuj from Tokyo, Japan. Been living here in Japan for almost 5 years and habe been experiencing the lifestyle of Japan. I do love Japanese food like sushi, "takoyaki" and tempuras. Morever I like the taste chilled draft beer. Recently I realized that are the Japanese people most polite people in the world? Whole world knows their service and hospitality is 1005 and 5 star no doubt on that. But its their industry and they have the appeal to make it good and best. But local people around, they are too polite and respectful. They will just bow down to you even though the mistake is yours. Mistake can be from tiny to not a trouble making one. I am excluding other problems like stealing, beating and all. For instance last month, My bicycle glass was broken in front of my apartment. I still dont know who did it and how. But I am assuming it was an accident, and person who broke the bicycle`s glass had no such intention. As I was examining the glass, I found a paper attached to 2000 Yen equivalent to 20 usd dollar. On the paper it was written " Sorry I broke your glass by mistake, please accept this as my sincere apology.." It was written in Japanese. I was surprised . Surprised to see the humbless, honesty of Japanese people. I dont think I would have done such kind of act of humbleness. I would simply walk faster knowing that I broke someone else glass. They are polite inside train,on the street, everywhere. I know Tokyo is the safest city in whole world, and reason is simple, THE PEOPLE.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
29 Jun 18
It is part of the Japanese culture. As a homogeneous society, the emphasis is on the collective group rather than the person as a singular identity. The interests and well-being of a group will always take precedent to that of the individual's. So a member of a family will defer to the family, a family will give way to the wishes of the community, and a community to the national interest of their country. What we think is politeness is their way of maintaining order and harmony among members of the social group.
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• Philippines
29 Jun 18
we used to be that way, @josie_ but we seem to care less now
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
Yes. small they learn from their big ones, and tradition goes on. Well said.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
1 Jul 18
@hereandthere _Filipinos are among the friendliest people in the world. Just ask any foreign tourist.
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Jun 18
Hi Anuj. Welcome to mylot. Enjoy. I have heard great things about Japan and I hope that one day I get to go there.
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
Hope you come to Japan soon. Must visit place for sightseeing, experiencing both traditional and ultra modern age. and of course, you will love everything about it.
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• Tokyo, Japan
4 Jul 18
@mlgen1037 Yes I will be here . Because I just got employed :)
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
29 Jun 18
@joshianuj For sure I will. If I come there, will you still be there in Japan?
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@jstory07 (134378)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Jun 18
I lived in Japan for five years and the people there are very polite and friendly.
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
Totally agree. Esp they are more polite with foreigner, They dont mind our silly mistakes, like breaking small rules and habit and all. They just smile and corrects it.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
29 Jun 18
Such a nice experience you had. I mean not your broken bicycle mirror but what happened after.
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
Yes. Glass was not a big deal. But that paper and words written there.
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@off124 (127)
29 Jun 18
It looks amazing
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
It was indeed .
@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
29 Jun 18
This is a beautiful tribute to your place and for the people as well. Thank you for sharing.
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• Tokyo, Japan
29 Jun 18
Yes . It amazing to see such kind of act in this recent days.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
29 Jun 18
i have a schoolmate who now lives and works there and she says the same thing. are you originally from nepal? (because that's the country i see next to your name) are you a student or are you working there?
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• Philippines
2 Jul 18
@joshianuj so you moved to japan to study and now you're employed there. so your parents and siblings are still in nepal?
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• Tokyo, Japan
2 Jul 18
@hereandthere Yes. Thats right. Its hard to live without the loved ones, but I have no other options :)
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• Tokyo, Japan
2 Jul 18
Yes. I am from Nepal. I just finished my education here, and jut got hired in one of the IT company. M rocking, hehe
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@just4him (305792)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Jul 18
They sound like a wonderful people and place to live. That was a great act of kindness.
• Tokyo, Japan
3 Jul 18
Exactly. Their manngers and culture surprises me everytime.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
29 Jun 18
Thank you for sharing this my dear friend and welcome to mylot.
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• Tokyo, Japan
2 Jul 18
Thank you :)
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5 Jul 18
I like them, is not it great?