Are you gay/lesbian/straight ? What makes you one?

July 1, 2018 5:51am CST
I am bi and in my community, have met many women who didn't know they were gay or bi (or at least weren't sure) for many years. Some having married men and raised children before finally coming to terms with who they were. I have always known I like women, for the most part, but there was a period during childhood and my early teens where I just wasn't entirely sure. I suspected I was bisexual, but had very little experience to confirm it. I knew I was attracted to women as well as men but as I knew very little about homosexuality and bisexuality, had no idea what to make of those attractions. As I got into my later teens, it became more apparent. I think this is partly out of the natural maturing of body and mind.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
1 Jul 18
not what makes you.We are born gay.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
1 Jul 18
@VivaLaDani13 Good for you.How silly of them.lol
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• Perth, Australia
1 Jul 18
@amadeo Exactly what I was going to say!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
1 Jul 18
Hi Diane Diane. Welcome to mylot. Enjoy. Well, I am straight. I thought I am a lesbian back in high school as I came from an all-girl schools. But it was just a phase. I have a brother who is gay.
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1 Jul 18
That is interesting, how did you realize you werent lesbian eventually?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
2 Jul 18
@babycats That there is something that they have that women dont have.
@pitstop (13051)
• India
1 Jul 18
Interesting. I'm a guy and am straight. I've never been attracted to guys even though I had mostly boys as friends. I've been married for more than 10 years and am still sure I'm straight.
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1 Jul 18
Good for you. lol.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
1 Jul 18
I'm straight, I was born straight, I knew my preference from a very young age. Welcome to Mylot
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1 Jul 18
Thank you for the warm welcome & sharing!
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@KristenH (33351)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
1 Jul 18
I'm straight. Welcome.
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@Shivram59 (31764)
• India
2 Jul 18
@babycats I'm a streight guy,but sometimes get attracted to guys.You may call me bi.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
1 Jul 18
I'm fairly certain I'm straight. However I've been attracted to trans women before so maybe I'm also a lesbian.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
1 Jul 18
I am a straight. What make me one? I will like to think that it is nature.
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
1 Jul 18
@babycats I am straight and always have been. I do not have a desire for other women.
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
2 Jul 18
Well I am straight...not confused at all just straight...and contented on how I am created...
@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
2 Jul 18
I am straight and I do find women attractive but I'm pretty sure I love men.
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