My mother wants my wife to leave, what do i do?

You've got a lot of good advice here from other members. You're married to your wife, not to your mother.

Ohh, that's too hard situation but you are you are the one who will decide not your mother coz you are her husband and not your mother.

It depends on whether you love your wife or not. If you still love her, then try to figure out what's wrong with her and your mother and try to fix their relationship.

Why do you marry her if you want to divorce her?

There are only 2 people in your marriage, so I would think that its up to those 2 people alone.

@pmusee First of all you are the one married to the woman and not your mother. Is it something that can be fixed with counseling?

I think you should be a man and stand up for your wife if you really love her and she loves you. The only reason I would heed my mother's advice is if the reason is infidelity. There may be other reasons that your mother knows that you don't so it's wise to ask her and also ask the side of your wife.

Mothers do not always know best. If you are having problems with your wife then you need to talk to your wife about it. Your mom does not need to be involved in your decision at all. You should not base your decision on what your mom thinks of your wife. As another member has said, you are not married to your mom. I've been married before and his mother's involvement in our marriage was part of the reason for resentment.

My opinion is exactly the same as @MALUSE . Your mother should not interfere with your marriage.

Aw. Why does your mom say that she is a bad wife? Does she have a basis for this?

I see that you are 25 years old and I would think if you got married to begin with you should be able to work out your problems without your mother telling you what to do. On the other hand, if your wife has some serious problems you might try and talk to a marriage counselor or someone in the church before doing anything drastic. Good luck to you.

Your mother should not dictate her views on matters which concern you more. Marry easy, divorce easy, is not the way - siva

It is none of your mother's business.

It's a hard situation. What do you want is also important..

I read in your comments to other members that your mother introduced you to your wife. Did your mother introduce you to her because she (your mother) thought that it would be a good idea if you and your wife got married? And now she has changed her mind and now she doesn't think that your marriage was a good idea? Is that what happened?

if you married your wife and you love her and marriage was without any force and it was love marriage then you should know how to balance this situation. many times the leading lady in house that is in many cases our mothers don't like any other lady coming into their life and interfering in their business in such situations you need to explain to both of them what are the rules and regulations of house and duties of both mother and wife and how they should balance it speak with them ... and hopefully matter would get solved don't just divorce your wife because your mom doesn't like her

Your mother might just be overreacting, you know we women can so hold onto very little things,so best bet is to be a man and have a heart to heart talk with your wife.Don't look at your wife through your mom's eye but have your own pair of eyes on her and try to resolved the issues as many as possible. Don't be a mummy boy and end up regretting later. Mothers will always be mothers though they always want the best for us but sometimes it more of a sentimental thing, so we should always try to look at a situation critically before giving any approval. Good luck

That is definitely a hard case. I don't know if I can give you the right advice since I don't know if what's really the cause of everything. But if you really love someone and that someone loves you too, you must fight for this love.

It's your marriage not your mothers.

I say in times like this, you have to stand up and be a man. Even though you are torn, at the end of the day, you have a say in your own life too; especially with someone you share a life with and have come to love. Just ask yourself at the end of the day will you ever regret separating if you choose that road? If your mom means a whole lot more and you can live with it, you should leave your wife then. It's not what you feel, it's what you do which dictates what you want in an outlook.