What A Thing To Say.

Begonia in my garden.
By Jabo
@jaboUK (64362)
United Kingdom
July 6, 2018 1:51pm CST
At a cremation some friends who were mourning were discussing a few things concerning the man who was dead, then one of them said "I should think that his ears must be burning". This is intended as a joke folks. If your 'ears are burning' it means that someone is talking about you. Have you ever said or heard anything inappropriate or funny at a funeral or cremation?
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
6 Jul 18
That's pretty funny.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 18
I'm glad someone read this in the spirit in which I intended it. It's a joke
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 18
@boiboing You're right
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
6 Jul 18
@jaboUK Some things get lost in (cultural) translation.
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@rebelann (111081)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Jul 18
I've only been to 4 of them, when I could understand what was being said it was usually 2 people talking about their kids or grand kids.
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@rebelann (111081)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Jul 18
Oh lordy lordy my mind musta been wanderin too far ahead again @jaboUK Yep, it is funny
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@rebelann (111081)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Jul 18
Maybe it's because it's not your usual limerick form @jaboUK as for me I think the heat here has fried my brain somewhat and now I am tryin to recover
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 18
@rebelann Glad you see the joke now - some others don't seem to.
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@RasmaSandra (73241)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 Jul 18
I have never said anything but I do know people who have broken up in laughter just to ease the tension and pain and then quickly have to get themselves together. I always get too sentimental and have to chock back tears.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
Your observations are spot on - people do sometimes use a bit of levity to lighten the situation.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
7 Jul 18
I haven't been to many cremations. So I can't join in. :-( But this reminds me that I've wanted to write about the preparation of a cremation which was funny. The post will have more impact in winter, though. Cold winter weather is essential for the story. Just you wait! :-)
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
That sounds exciting - can't wait to see what you come up with
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
7 Jul 18
Not that I can think of. Word play gives out different meanings,that's why English is so difficult.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
I think perhaps 'ears burning' is not such a well known saying as I thought it was - it seems to have not rung a bell with some of my commenters
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@Daljinder (23228)
• Bangalore, India
8 Jul 18
@jaboUK I wouldn't have know the saying either if Jeff and Dani hadn't used that one here in the past. We use the phrase "having the hiccups" or when you sneeze, it means someone is remembering you. Now that would be a sight if the deceased suddenly have the hiccups or sneeze because people were talking about them and remembering them.
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• India
8 Jul 18
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@Kandae11 (53679)
6 Jul 18
Not only kids, but grownups too say 'the darnedest things'
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 18
That is so true
@GardenGerty (157485)
• United States
7 Jul 18
I cannot think of anything right at the moment, but this was a good one.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
Thanks, I'm pleased that you thought it was good
@crossbones27 (48395)
• Mojave, California
6 Jul 18
I do not go to them, but say inappropriate things all the time.
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• Mojave, California
7 Jul 18
@jaboUK Its getting harder that is for sure. I used to tell people you want to get your brains back. You need at least an hour of alone time doing nothing. Not watching TV Not on the internet just straight summarizing the day. To be honest Its damn near impossible to pull off that feat for even someone like me who prioritizes their life around alone time.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
You never go to them? Not even family members?
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
@crossbones27 That seems fair enough. I like some 'alone time' too, but don't get enough of it.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
At a cremation, are people not allowed to laugh?
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
There's no ban on laughing, though sometimes it's inappropriate
@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
6 Jul 18
No I sure haven/t. Sometimes the person is trying to no get emotional.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
6 Jul 18
I wrote this as a joke Susan, but yes, people can say things they don't mean when they are trying to hold back their feelings.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
i hope, if this situation is real, the relatives of the departed are not hurt with that remark. otherwise that is a funny joke.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
No, it's not real Ingrid, just my attempt at humour
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@jaboUK is that so? well, i think it can happen.
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@Shiva49 (26192)
• Singapore
7 Jul 18
I was working for a very wealthy person for twenty-five years and even later to see that all went as he wanted. I could feel his uneasiness in the last few years as the wealth was becoming a liability. I was shocked at how people close to him reacted the moment he passed away. They were impatient to get all for themselves and I had a very tough time as I had to get things done quickly but fairly. Now it is seven years and not a day passes not thinking about him and how things turned out in the end. In a way like "ears must be burning"; money overrides everything for few especially for the very wealthy - siva
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
That's a sad state of affairs siva, people act like vultures at times.
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@YrNemo (20261)
7 Jul 18
His ears were burning OK .
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
They were indeed
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7 Jul 18
I have heard something funy it wasn't a joke though bt it was funybt ths your joke is too much
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
Not sure if that means you liked the joke, or not
@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
8 Jul 18
@Sweetsherz Thank you
7 Jul 18
@jaboUK I liked it
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@snowy22315 (169641)
• United States
7 Jul 18
I have not..but there is always a first!
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
Yes, sometimes things are said that are unintentionally funny
• Philippines
9 Jul 18
His soul is probably there and ears burning as he hears things he never should have heard lol
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 18
Thats true
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
9 Jul 18
That is funny. No, I haven’t heard anything inappropriate or funny at either.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 18
Nor have I Dianne
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
9 Jul 18
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@JudyEv (325345)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Aug 18
It spoils things a tiny bit when you need to point out a joke but it's one of the features of myLot I guess. My brother-in-law misheard the prayer at the graveside and for many years thought they were saying 'In the name of the Father, the Son and into the hole he goes'.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
1 Aug 18
I originally put this up without explanation, but so many people didn't get it (or took it seriously), that I had to add one. That's hilarious about the hole
• India
7 Jul 18
It's so insensitive of him to behave like this in sad times..
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
It's only a joke, just my British sense of humour. It didn't really happen, I just made it up.
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• India
8 Jul 18
@jaboUK Oh! You have got good sense of humor.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
7 Jul 18
It is funny if taken in the same spirit as I am taking it. But it might also sound insensitive to many.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
7 Jul 18
It didn't really happen, so no-one was offended
@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
8 Jul 18
@jaboUK That's good
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