Wedding Stress
By Firefly
@cttolledo (5460)
Legaspi, Philippines
July 8, 2018 12:20am CST
It’s my sister’s wedding this coming 28th day of July and I can barely see how stress she is now. But ,why? Ofcourse i couldn’t understand it because I never experience that.
But my point is, why she bothers to take charge of the hotel accommodations of my aunts and uncles though I understand her because its hard to say no to them.
I just hope that people should be sensitive enough not to bother the bride so much because that thing “accommodations” is something that can be done by themselves.
What level of stress you’ve been through during wedding planning?
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13 responses
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
8 Jul 18
Arranging any occasion is a big stress especially if you have to monitor control over the expenses.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
That's 1 thing. She's very careful in making decisions because of her budget
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@amitkokiladitya in the case of my sister I dont think its fund problem still. I think its too much if even their hotel accommodation should be charge to the bride and groom.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
8 Jul 18
@cttolledo yeah..problem arises only because of limited funds
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
8 Jul 18
@cttolledo
Planning a wedding is a very hard thing. The bride wants it to be perfect because it is a very important day in her life so we wants everything to go as planned.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
I can see that with my sister. Anyway that's one in a lifetime event.
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
8 Jul 18
@cttolledo
When a person gets married they hope they have one wedding in their lifetime, but, does not always work out that way.
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
8 Jul 18
Not much, life was simple when I got married
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
thats what i want when I get married, simple and not much complications as much as possible
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Yes plus attending issues and demands of our invited relatives..
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
13 Jul 18
@cttolledo The problem is that people borrow money to finance a wedding
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
13 Jul 18
@aureliah That's not good for me.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
8 Jul 18
Not me. That's one stressful situation I was able to avoid. 
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Good for you. goodluck to my sister hope she can handle it well
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
8 Jul 18
I have never been to a wedding all my life. Advance happy wedding to your sister. Congratulations!
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
13 Jul 18
Really? You will surely cry. I don't know why girls cries at the weddings of others. Haha weird 
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
14 Jul 18
@cttolledo hahaha!!! Women are emotional
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Time is important then. I agree
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
why does she take on everything? can't your aunt's and uncle's children/grandchildren handle those?
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
unfortunately they cannot or they won’t . Im not sure which of the two is with them why they are acting like that. poor sister of mine!
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@hereandthere actually I'm with her right now. She's here in manila to settle minor issues about her wedding. I'm helping, but i'm a bit impetient in dealing with people (relatives) who are so dependent into so minor things. Finally after several hours of exchanging calls, they finally settle their issues about accommodation.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@cttolledo and you're quite far from her to be able to help her.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
And my sister can't afford to pay the accommodations of all invited guests
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@jaboUK I do not know if its still the obligation of the bride and groom the cost of the hotel of the guests.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
your sister should leave those problems to the wedding planner, or to other persons in charge of the wedding. she should rest to keep herself more beautiful and stress-free.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Unfortunately accommodations for relatives is not part of the job of the wedding planner.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
I'm attending a wedding on the 28th and might it be your sister's wedding? :)
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
I'm still single and never been having the chance to decide for any wedding plans.. But i do understand what your sister is going through at this time. I just hope people won't really bother the bride so much for their hotel accommodation and I agree to what you just said.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Jul 18
Actually its not her concern anymore, but my relatives wanted to have a free hotel so that they can attend the wedding.
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