I Told Her To Use, Vicks Vapo Rub

@TLilly15 (2316)
Newport News, Virginia
July 9, 2018 9:19pm CST
I had told this woman, to use Vicks VapoRub on her feet, because she had diabetic and the vaporub smooths, the feeling in your feet, I told her I use this myself and it works, so when I saw her Sunday she asked me did I have my Vicks rub with me, I never told this woman i was going to, give her my vicks rub this woman works everyday, she told me she was going to get her some vicks rub, why do some people think you, have to give them everything, I have stopped asking people for help, I get my help from online I work, on web sites that puts a little money, in my pocket I don't ask anyone, for anything because they will only say no.
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8 responses
@marguicha (215189)
• Chile
10 Jul 18
We have to learn how to say no.
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@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
I never told her, I was going to give her, any of my Vicks Rub
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
Sometimes it is better not to care. When we give our dress to someone, sometimes they will ask us to give them - even our underwear.
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@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
This woman can ask me, for things all she wants to, I am not going to give her, anything.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
I would probably give her some but tell her straight that she has to buy her own next time
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@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
She told me she is, going to get her own, I don't know why she thought, I was going to give her what I had, I never told her that.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
10 Jul 18
@TLilly15 I never knew that vicks worked on your feet. Thanks for the tip.
@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
Yes I use it, it works.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
11 Jul 18
@TLilly15 We used to have it here in Jerusalem but now have something very much like it.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
10 Jul 18
Maybe you should tell her to her face. "Work for what you need' period
@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
It's people this this woman, that want everything handed to them, this is the way she treats, her ground son, and now she thinks she is going, to use someone like me, well it won't happen sorry.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
17 Jul 18
@TLilly15 Don't allow anyone to use you. Let them use other ways to get what they need
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Jul 18
Sometimes we have to learn how to say no. I learned to use it .
@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
I never told her yes, I never told her I was, giving her anything, I just told her what to use.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
it sounds like because you suggested it, she was expecting you to also provide it. i guess there really are people who don't want to exert any effort and want everything handed to them.
@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
Yes this woman wants everything handed to her, but she won't get it handed to her, from me.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
maybe she misunderstood. Some people often misunderstood our kindness to suggest things and take it as if we would be giving them the thing that we suggested.
@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
10 Jul 18
I don't care what she misunderstood, I never told her I was, giving her anything, she said she was going to buy her some Vicks.
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