How do you deal with your own failure?

Zamboanga City, Philippines
July 10, 2018 10:05am CST
I am now at the moment of my life where all I see is failure. I do not know what to do. There are times when I think of negative thoughts. I feel that I am useless and just nothing in this world. How can I overcome this? Can you share me with some ways on how you do it? Thank you!
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@Starmaiden (5886)
• Canada
10 Jul
Lower your standards a bit. Stop trying to reach the top on the first try. If you fail, look back on your footsteps and correct the misstep on the second try. Take baby steps. Don't try to accomplish everything at once. Set small daily goals to reach.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thank you, Lucinda. :)
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• Jacksonville, Florida
10 Jul
I'm a child of God and I know He loves me and believes in me. I'm not a failure and I won't believe those lies since fear is a liar. God loves you and you are NOT a failure in His eyes!
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thanks, Jennifer for reminding me that God loves me. :)
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@Jessabuma (27884)
• Baguio, Philippines
10 Jul
Failure is a part of life, but we need to be strong as some people say "Failure is a step closer to success"..
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thank you, Jessa.
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@Jessabuma (27884)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 Jul
@bbjong17 you're welcome Jonah
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@kepweng (14666)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
11 Jul
@Jessabuma "Failure is a step closer to success"?? i have LOTS of failturre for a long time and i have yet ZERO Achievements in life
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• Philippines
10 Jul
Life is like a wheel - sometimes you're down and there would be a time that you'll be able to surpass the bumps along the road and you'll be on top! :)
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thank you.
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• Philippines
11 Jul
@bbjong17 You're welcome!
@dodoazo (19464)
• Philippines
10 Jul
You need a company. You have to see anyone in your family. I am sorry to say that myLot users couldn't resolve your problem. Talk or refer your problem to the right person like a religious adviser, a pastor or a priest, a guidance counselor, or a psychiatrist. The way you say it, expresses that this is serious.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thank you for you advise, Dodo.
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@dodoazo (19464)
• Philippines
11 Jul
@bbjong17 Don't mention it.
@mlgen1037 (29658)
• Manila, Philippines
10 Jul
Hi Jonah. I usually wallow myself in failure until a certain time that I get fed up and realize I need a change and motivate myself.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thanks, Louise.
• Peoria, Arizona
10 Jul
I see what I did wrong, thing about it, cry a lot and just go eff it and fix it.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thanks, Felicia! I'll try to do the same and see if it works for me too. :)
@MALUSE (40098)
• Germany
10 Jul
Write a list of your positive qualities. Find at least ten items! Print out several copies and pin one sheet to the wall in each room, also the toilet. Every time you pass the list, read it from beginning to end.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
I'll fo this. Thank you! :)
@Icydoll (19296)
• India
10 Jul
You can overcome that easily but thinking about your past success.
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• Zamboanga City, Philippines
11 Jul
Thanks, Icydoll. I'll try to do this.
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