Rules

@Hannihar (129371)
Israel
July 15, 2018 12:23am CST
Do you ever find that there are people that have one set of rules for them and then another set for you? Well, I feel that way in my building and said that after a toy was pushed into my attachment. I have tried to mind my own business here and tried to not bother them but there are those that do not care. They find the perfect person which is me and they keep on bothering me. I had to put sign on a sign to tell them to leave my sign alone and a big one to leave my scooter and attachment alone. It is sad that they cannot figure for themselves not to damage other people's things, but, since they do not care I have to make sure I make signs for them to know. Why can't people care about others and be nice. I will always wonder why there are nice people and then there are nasty people out there. Thank you for reading this and letting me vent.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jul 18
There are people who don't care at all. No matter how many signs you will have or how many times you tell them.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@JustBhem My sign so far is working but you are right on telling them. They know they bother you so so they will make lots more noise. I have to just ignore them. I know they will not stop.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@JustBhem I am trying to ignore them because they just do what they want. They are very nasty people and will not learn. That is their problem.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar Sometimes it is better to just leave it because it won't do us better. And to get rid of heated arguments.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Jul 18
Yes, I have seen many people like this they are the people who preach something and practice something! I think they are present in every society! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar , Yes it is difficult to manage with such people sometimes!
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@AKRao24 It certainly is because they do not know or understand things so it is best to stay away from them and not have to deal with them.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@AKRao24 They are just nasty and think they know everything or make up things about you because they know nothing and they are young and very immature.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
18 Jul 18
I am sorry people are bothering your things Hanni, is this on your scooter at home or where you sell. Sad that you have to make a sign to tell them because they are not respectful enough to know these things on their own.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
18 Jul 18
@Hannihar I'm sorry Hanni, you have every right to be angry and they shouldn't be messing with your stuff.People just don't care about things when they are not theirs to worry about. I hope your sign will work and they will stay away from your scooter. Hopefully they move their crap out of there soon so you won't have to worry about them. Yes, it is pretty sad when you have to make a sign because some people aren't smart enough to know better. You do what you have to do Ms Hanni and take care my friend.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
19 Jul 18
@cintol Cindy, thanks so much for your support my friend. Another family is moving out and another one is will move in there and then a couple that is getting married will move in below me and then they will probably put their stuff in there because I am sure people will tell them they can. The people that moved out below me when I got home last night came to get what was theirs. I thought they had more so the stuff against the back walls belongs to someone else. I do not understand why the people that are moving out did not bring their boxes to their apartment and put right behind my scooter where I cleared things up so I would have more room there. I guess that is life and not everyone thinks in life and put it what a friend said to me they have things on their mind so do not pay attention to my needs or something like that.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
18 Jul 18
@cintol I got permission a long time ago from the owners that my scooter can stay in the bomb shelter against the wall because I have a box where I put my charger and the cord is plugged in to the wall to. Someone wrecked the socket that the cord is plugged into. People think they can break things on it or can mess with it so after the last time shoved their stroller into my attachment I made the sign and put it on. These are not toys. They are expensive to fix if they break it they should fix it. I think I know who pushed the stroller into my attachment. I have only two things in there. It looks like a storage area since we cannot use the storage so they put their stuff in there and it hard to move around. Someone is moving so instead of taking the boxes to their apartment they put them right behind where I fixed up so could have more room for my scooter. Now, the boxes are there. I cannot describe what they do because it makes me very angry. No, they are far from respectful. I made the sign because that stroller was pushed not once but more into my attachment. It could cause damage but they would not pay so they left me with no choice but to make a sign and see if they will respect that sign. I have to go now so will see how it is when I go down. Apparently they need to be told because they are not smart enough to do things on their own. Some things they continue but I will not put up with them messing with my stuff. Sorry, I get angry when I think about it.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jul 18
I’m sorry you have thoughtless neighbors. Not much you can do to escape them when they’re right in front of of you. Maybe you could speak to the property manager.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jul 18
@Hannihar Oh, I see. It probably wouldn't help anyway. We have had two terrible neighbors. I think I wrote about the one who beat on his walls and threw his furniture off the deck. We could not sleep. We told management but they had to give him three months notice I think it was. Anyway we finally called the police and they took him to a mental hospital from the jail. He had torn his apartment all to pieces. torn the walls out pulled electric lines out and ruined everything.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
17 Jul 18
@RubyHawk That is horrible. A couple times I was sitting on our porch on Saturday which is our Jewish Sabbath and the apartment opposite ours it sounded like people were doing something bad in there and a boy came out making a face not good. I called the police once and they helped. Most of the time they like to keep me on the line and trace where the call is coming from so do not call them. They show up after the people stopped.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@RubyHawk thanks Ruby. Each apartment here has a different owner. There is not property manager. I do not want to say anything to my landlord because what to stay here.
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@nela13 (55702)
• Portugal
19 Jul 18
Some people are really rude, what is their problem with you?
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
19 Jul 18
@nela13 There is one across from me that slams the do and brought it to his attention so he said he would talk to the landlord. He never did and so he continues to slam it to offend me. The one above makes lots of noise like the couple that lived there before him and since he bothers me he does it very loud and on purpose.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
19 Jul 18
@nela13 Thanks but no one to complain too.
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@nela13 (55702)
• Portugal
19 Jul 18
@Hannihar That is very bad, is there any way for you to complain? they can't do such things
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
16 Jul 18
Thats too bad. I hope you get it figured out with them. I am not sure why they would keep bothering you things. Is it kids? That's no excuse since they can be told to leave other people's things alone. It just seems weird for an adult
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
17 Jul 18
@FayeHazel They will not change and so had to put up my sign. If if it their kids then they do not teach them manners.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
18 Jul 18
@FayeHazel I will tell you a story. I worked at a bookstore and a lady and her son came in. They were Israelis that left Israel. Her attitude was so bad and he copied her. It depends on the people and how they raise their kids. I have a friend and she is the nicest person and she raised her kids in a good way but so many others just let their kids do whatever they want and do not teach them how to behave.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
17 Jul 18
@Hannihar And then when those kids grow up and have kids.... I wonder if there will be manners left
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
15 Jul 18
I must say that I do not know what is the meaning of " attachment " here. Can you explain it to me please and thank you.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar , Thank you so much, now I know what you mean exactly.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@marlina Yes I can and will put a picture here too to show you. I put it on the back of my mobility scooter and put suitcases in it when I need them.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@marlina You are welcome.
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
16 Jul 18
I'm so sorry you have to deal with people like that. The world is full of them. It's more difficult when you have to live in a complex with many people.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
16 Jul 18
@Hannihar Just do the best you can, Hanni.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
17 Jul 18
@DianneN Thanks Dianne.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@DianneN Thanks Dianne. It is very hard. One family moved out and a couple getting married will move in below me and a family is moving out on the other side and sad to see him go but his wife I do not like. She is friends to the one that lives across from us. I wish they would move out and also the one above me but lately not good luck with nice moving into both apartments.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
15 Jul 18
Do you mean the side car?
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@responsiveme When I would go and sell I need to put my suitcases that fit there somewhere and they go in there.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@responsiveme No, it goes directly behind my scooter. There is something that I put it on back there and have to make sure it stays behind it. I have to go slow and that is a pain.
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• India
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar oh, why do you need that attachment.?
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@dgobucks226 (34300)
19 Jul 18
Oh yes, many of my neighbors have their own set of rules when it comes to parking, dog walking and disturbing the peace. Some are just so self-absorbed and without courtesy for others. Ignorance and inconsideration are the two great causes of the ruin of mankind. John Tillotson
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
20 Jul 18
@dgobucks226 DB you got it so so right.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
24 Jul 18
@dgobucks226 You are welcome DB.
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@dgobucks226 (34300)
20 Jul 18
@Hannihar Thank you Hanni!
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
15 Jul 18
There are many people like this dear friend, but it's better to leave or avoid to them
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@Jessabuma Thanks Jessa. i am not leaving. There is now where else to go and rents are so expensive. I will stay and hope my landlord will let us and try and avoid them.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@Jessabuma Thanks.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jul 18
@Hannihar you're welcome. I am hoping for the best. Good luck
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@banksim (5202)
15 Jul 18
There are some people who do not care for other at all
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@banksim Thank you and you are so right.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@banksim It is not easy dealing with nasty people that do not care.
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@banksim (5202)
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar hmm but we have to adjust with variety of people
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@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Jul 18
Everyone is different and we have different personalities here on earth that's why we can't all be good
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@Fliafaith Yes, that is very true but I can wish that we could have a building full of nice people that want to be nice to one another.
@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@Fliafaith I just noticed that they are very nasty and do not care.
• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Jul 18
@Hannihar Life would be very slow, have you ever noticed that the bad people usually make us work harder
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16 Jul 18
I think that's just life. Just like coming across those who like to poke their noses into everything you do, and avoid you like a plague, like you have done something gravely wrong. I think minding our own business is damn good.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@ihasaquestion Thank you for understanding. They do not ask, they just do.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@ihasaquestion I do not want to encounter the ones I do not like but there are times I see them. I want to avoid them. That is not life. They should respect my things. They are mine and not toys. I am sure they think I have money to pay for them. I rent because we cannot afford to buy so no I am not rich. I need our money for us.
16 Jul 18
@Hannihar Me too. I hate my things being touched. Only with my permission can anyone do so, and they have especially no rights to tell how I set my things or where I choose to store them.
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@jstory07 (134238)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Jul 18
There are bad and good people because God gave us a mind to decide for ourselves what we want to do.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
18 Jul 18
@jstory07 Judy very well put, but, I wish there were more good than bad.
@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Jul 18
The hardest part in life is how to deal with people.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
19 Jul 18
@Missmwngi You have that right.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
22 Jul 18
There are really people who are so mindless about other people's feelings. Just get away from them.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
24 Jul 18
@acelawrites I live in the same building as them and I am not moving. I see them at times I cannot help that.
@YrNemo (20261)
16 Jul 18
You mean double standards? You seem to be targeted. Hope they learn to leave you alone.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
16 Jul 18
@YrNemo Yes they have double standards and I hope two more apartments move out and we finally get nice people in this building.
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@YrNemo (20261)
17 Jul 18
@Hannihar Good luck.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
15 Jul 18
sometimes because the nasty people were around a lot of kind people that they were able to get away with a lot of nasty things because the kind person didn't speak up to call out the nastiness from the nasty person. :( I hope they start respecting your items!
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@Daelii Robin, you do have a good point there. Nice people do not say anything. I do and am alone because no one backs me up or if talk to them they will agree but not back me up. I hate to put a note for them to stop doing it. It is sad they cannot figure out on their own to leave other people's things alone.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
15 Jul 18
@Hannihar I wish more people followed the golden rule of treating others how they want to be treated... :(
@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@Daelii Robin, I agree but I do not see life like that. People are who they are. There are some very very nice people in this country and so so so rude.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jul 18
World is full of good, nasty and hypocrites. So deal with each one differently.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
15 Jul 18
@arunima25 You have a point there.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
17 Jul 18
@Hannihar Thank you. Take Care.
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@Hannihar (129371)
• Israel
17 Jul 18
@arunima25 You too.
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