Advise and help should be given only when asked

@anil02 (24688)
India
July 16, 2018 3:20am CST
Generally speaking , I lfeel that unsolicited advice loses its value. However , people are free with their advise in our society and most of the time advise comez unwanted and unasked for , quite annoying and irritating ..
5 people like this
10 responses
Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
16 Jul 18
I agree with you..I only give advice when I'm asked.
2 people like this
betterdays
@BetterDays4Me (3777)
• Philippines
16 Jul 18
Yes, I feel it is kinda rude when they do that. I believe those who give unsolicited advice should learn more about humility and respect.
1 person likes this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
17 Jul 18
yes it right thing.
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
17 Jul 18
@BetterDays4Me Don't be rude when some one advice, listen from one ear and out it from second ear.
1 person likes this
Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171938)
• Agra, India
16 Jul 18
I ageee. Time has taught me to do so
2 people like this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
17 Jul 18
Yes time is best one teacher, we must be respect time.
1 person likes this
Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171938)
• Agra, India
17 Jul 18
@anil02 yes...but many people keep repeating their mistakes
Toni
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
16 Jul 18
I agree on this one. And I also find it annoying when one would ask advice, especially here in mylot, and then when advice is given, that person would suddenly argue on what he things I right. Why the hell would you ask for one in the first place when you don't even give a damn when one is given to you. I don't usually give unsolicited advice but I make my opinion.
1 person likes this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
5 Oct 18
Here is thin line between opinion and advice. When some give advice he/she wants that person to whom we are giving advice follow it, and in case of opinion we leave it on person to agree on it or not.
Shavkat
@Shavkat (137168)
• Philippines
16 Jul 18
I am not going to give advice if it wasn't asked.
1 person likes this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
17 Jul 18
It is good habit, we should not be wast our time on nonsense things
1 person likes this
Shavkat
@Shavkat (137168)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
Shiva
@Shiva49 (26182)
• Singapore
4 Oct 18
I think we are all victims of this malaise. Talk is cheap! siva
1 person likes this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
5 Oct 18
Yes some what we all are victims and responsible for it.
1 person likes this
Sunrise Fan
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
17 Jul 18
Sometimes people, without any malice and only out of concern for another fellow, give advice in the hope that he could be of some help. It really depends on the situation.
1 person likes this
anil02
@anil02 (24688)
• India
5 Oct 18
Person who wants to help other like to give advice when he/she have enough knowledge of topic.
1 person likes this
Sunrise Fan
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
@anil02 Sounds fair enough :)
kiran8
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
13 Oct 18
I totally agree with that , free advise is unwelcome and unappreciated
1 person likes this
eoz127
@eoz127 (80)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 18
Yes, I agree. Especially they don't know anything about you or the story behind it. Some people judged quickly. They can't even walk what they are saying.
1 person likes this
Xavier Bage
@franxav (13599)
• India
16 Jul 18
You're right. I don't offer any advice as long as asked.
Jessa Bumagat
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Jul 18
I agree with you, advice should be given only when asked..
1 person likes this