When God Allows Something but Doesn't Approve of it ... What Should We Do?

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A good example of 'God allowing but -not approving' would be "gay marriage." God 'approves of' Love, and marriage is a community's 'highest symbol of Love' (like a cross at the top of the tallest tower); but 'two men- or two women-marrying each other' is NOT "the plan approved by God!" (according to https://truthfortheworld.org/gods-plan-for-marriage Genesis 2:24, 1:26-28; 2:18-25; Romans 7:1-3; 1 Corinthians 7:39). But such marriages happen anyway, meaning God 'allows' them. That reminds me of a frequent argument brought up by atheists: if you worship an all-powerful God, why are children starving in third-world countries? What kind of all-powerful Father would let his children die like that? And the Christians' answer (to which I've seen no valid counter-argument) is the free-will argument---basically, that the starving children are the result of a series of humans' bad choices. (the same as my argument against people who claim that "God gave them diseases that killed them": 'No! Your choices (couple with your parents' choices & many-many others' choices) brought the disease on!') But I'm thinking of 'marriage after divorce (when there are children from first marriage, and nobody's died).' "Going to the second wedding" would be a lot like "enjoying life in Sodom-&-Gomorrah before the impending doom"---you might not actually 'approve of' all the sinful stuff happening, but being there & 'allowing' the new love-union is giving it your tacit stamp-of-approval I treat all such things (gay weddings, post-divorce weddings) as 'pests'---I don't 'seek them out to destroy them wherever they are,' but I don't 'invite them into my house.'