Why it is easy for us to tell our problem to strangers than to our family or friends?
@simplfred (20608)
Philippines
July 19, 2018 8:07pm CST
Okay, maybe you won't agree with me but that's my observation. We've entrusted our problem, open them up (especially in site like this) to our virtual friend while if our family or friends asked us if we are okay we always tend to say "We are good".
What do you think about it? Why it is easy for us to tell our problem to strangers than to our family or friends?
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Ha ha... Very true. How can we tell them, when they are.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Jul 18
I think it's because we don't want to be judge by our relatives, families or love ones..
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Jul 18
@simplfred yes, I agree with you
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
26 Jul 18
Definitely, my friend, we have a tendency not to tell our feelings to them especially our down time.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Because we are afraid to be judged by the people close to us. It is more hurting.
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@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
@simplfred and we can also share here in forums too.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Very true, so we find another way to let it out, indeed.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
That's good to open problem with true friends.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
Definitely, one of the possible reason my friend. Thanks.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 Jul 18
Because I do not want to be a burden to them. So, I'll do my very best to solve it in my own first.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
That is true in my personal cases also.
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Jul 18
Because strangers are not likely to judge you like friends and family would
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
it is because maybe we can open ourselves up to virtual world where we do not know anybody personally. we can get some insights and suggestions from others, and not get offended by them when they say something for or against our problems.
here, i can discuss openly about the attitude of my sister. i cannot express my rant to her because my son, surely is with me and she is alone.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
20 Jul 18
I think that is very true. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about it.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Jul 18
Because I would be disowned if I told them all that 
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