What's wrong with me ?
July 23, 2018 3:42pm CST
Yeserday, my friend and I decided to end our long term relationship. At first I was happy because we were like fire and rain and could not agree on almost everything. But now I feel so bad , I can't get enough oxygen. I spent the whole day looking at my phone screen waiting for her to call or send a message but she didn't. I'm supposed to move on with my life, so why do I miss her so much ?
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That is not easy to forget all those sweet memories you had with her! It seems you people were just getting angry on each other for petty things which are of no consequences in your lives! Ay way think again if you still love you and if you feel that you are guilty then take chance to reunion or other wise forget and proceed further! You have a long way to go in life!
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• Quezon City, Philippines
I guess when you stopped what you’ve been used to you will definitely be looking at it over and over. Some old habits die hard. I guess you’re on that stage of withdrawal that makes you feel uneasy and awkward at many times. As many said it eill take some time to get used to the choices you make.
That question has an answer, but you're the only one that has it. Sometimes you need to lose something before knowing what you have. Fire can burn everything in it's path, rain can flood everything, sometimes they just need to meet. I don't know what made you two end your friendship, but you don't have to agree on anything. You just have to understand why you don't agree. If I were you, I would tell her how I feel, if she doesn't want to get back after that, then move on. Life never waits for nobody.
• United States
I have to say you will feel better in time. Think of the good times and let those ease you through your day. always keep in mind when it becomes toxic it's best to break free to allow yourself and the other person a better option. Sometimes space is wonderful and it allows you to see what you want or no longer need. I miss someone dearly as well. I am so good though because I am sure of one thing he does not deserve me. I am good with the memories. They are priceless. I wish you the best.
• United States
@august18 I love the memories but I adore being free of the drama. I am sure of one thing love does not allow such things like this to take place. when it's gone that is when these hard times roll in. settling in for the long haul due to anything takes away from both people.