Join Me On My Cemetery Tour

@BelleStarr (61047)
United States
July 30, 2018 4:18pm CST
Saturday, @DWDavis asked me if I had written a post about the cemetery itself. I told him no but maybe I would so here is a shortened version of the tour I gave. By 1835 a considerable number of Irish Catholics had come to the Middletown, Ct area. Among them were Edmund Higgins, Michael Keefe, James Sheridan and John Dunn. All of these men are buried in what is known as Old St John Cemetery. Welcome to St John Cemetery. Having a plot in the original cemetery behind the church is quite an honor. Well, honor isn't exactly the right word, what it means is that these parishioners donated to either the building of the original church or the current church. For a donation of $10 you got half a plot and for $20 a full plot. When you consider that an average worker earned 96 cents a day in 1850, you realize what a sacrifice they made to donate either 2 or 4 weeks pay. The cemetery opened in 1843. Walking in this cemetery tells a story. A story of people who left their homeland behind to find a new life, to escape hunger and to get their piece of the American dream. All of the monuments you see here are a success story. My family is buried back here, no success story, just a very typical struggle to make ends meet with a large family. I guess I will never know how they came up with the money to make the original donation but they never put up a monument to those buried here, my 2nd great-grandfather William O’Connell and his wife Julia Tallent and some of their children, son William, daughter Agnes and Lucy You will notice that some of the stones tell a story. Some give information about where they came from in Ireland. You will also notice that many of the places are in the same county, among the most popular are Queens County (where the O'Connells and Tallents came from) and County Cork. I love just walking through the cemetery and trying to learn the story of these brave pioneers. You will see tragedy and triumph, bravery and vocation. One thing I found particularly interesting was how many people were from Middleton/Middletown, County Cork. Other counties Dublin, Cavan, Carlow, Wexford, Roscommon, Monaghan, Longford, Waterford, Kerry, Kilkenny, Donegal, Clare and Galway. I then pointed out some stones of interest to the people on the tour including Andrew Cody who was the first teacher at St John School. I pointed out a few other things then basically took questions.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
30 Jul 18
I love reading about those counties in Ireland, many of which my husband and I have visited. That makes for an interesting cemetery. So many must have escaped the great potato famine. I can see how much work you put into that guided tour. Glad it went so well.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
31 Jul 18
Thank you, it was fun and part of our 175th-anniversary celebration.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
31 Jul 18
@BelleStarr That makes it even more awesome!
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@Juliaacv (48429)
• Canada
30 Jul 18
Your post is very interesting and sounds like you must have given quite a great talk to those in attendance. Like you, my family helped to build the little country church beside the cemetery where my ancestors were laid to rest. That is where my Grandpa took us as we grew up and one by one asked our Dad, I know about Gramma and Grandpa but who came before them. And Grandpa would drive us down to St. Patrick's Catholic Church and we'd walk thru the cemetery next to it. And he'd remind us that there was a stained glass window donated by the family overlooking the cemetery with our family name on it. That was how buildings went up in our area back then. My uncle, Fr. Vincent, said his first mass after his ordination at St. Pat's. It must have been a very emotional and special place to be for all in attendance.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
31 Jul 18
I think people enjoyed it, Al said I did a great job and so did my daughter Kasey but I think they are a little prejudice. lol
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@Juliaacv (48429)
• Canada
31 Jul 18
@BelleStarr Sometimes those closest to us are also our hardest critics, so you must have done a wonderful job. And for the guests to hear about it from someone with the passion for history that you do would be great.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
1 Aug 18
wow.... so much info... you did a great job...if I'd been a member of your group I would have been very pleased...
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 18
Thank you, I hope they all went away feeling like it had been worth their while.
@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Aug 18
This would have been a very interesting tour. I love wandering through very old cemeteries.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 18
Me too, even when no one from my family is in them I find them fascinating.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
3 Aug 18
I'm sure everyone loved your tour. Will you be doing more of them in the future?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 18
Not of the cemetery but in September I am doing a church tour.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
5 Aug 18
@BelleStarr oohhh. well that's different, too.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Jul 18
U remind me of my grandmother!!!! She feels comfortable in the peace and quiet of the cemetery!!! Not my favorite place!!!
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