Jealousy can ruin so much !
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
Holiday, Florida
August 11, 2018 4:20pm CST
Of course now that it is still on Big Brother is most of my life since I don't have much more to occupy my days. 
And it has come about through watching the podcasts and things on youtube discussing it , and there are many this year, I have discovered much behind the scenes I normally would miss on After Dark and Live cams on it because a person's gotta sleep and do other things sometimes 
and you can catch up with all of it from these folks that sit and just watch. you can listen to those or watch on youtube whenever you want
Anyway, it seems to me that I sometimes pick the wrong ones to root for at the beginning. and over the course of time find they are entirely different than I thought them to be. Like Sam. at first I loved her and I think most everyone did. But now being in that house she has totally lost it! She has been freaking out and gotten mean to some etc. and all along I thought she really did not like anyone as a romantic involvement , only to find out today that she really hates Angela and it is because she really likes Brett. a lot, lot!
I have often had poor judgement like this sadly. Have you ever liked someone a lot at first, then found they were bad or mean or disliked someone at first and found them to be truly a very nice person?
this is often in real life also I have had this happen.
And it has come about through watching the podcasts and things on youtube discussing it , and there are many this year, I have discovered much behind the scenes I normally would miss on After Dark and Live cams on it because a person's gotta sleep and do other things sometimes and you can catch up with all of it from these folks that sit and just watch. you can listen to those or watch on youtube whenever you want
Anyway, it seems to me that I sometimes pick the wrong ones to root for at the beginning. and over the course of time find they are entirely different than I thought them to be. Like Sam. at first I loved her and I think most everyone did. But now being in that house she has totally lost it! She has been freaking out and gotten mean to some etc. and all along I thought she really did not like anyone as a romantic involvement , only to find out today that she really hates Angela and it is because she really likes Brett. a lot, lot!
I have often had poor judgement like this sadly. Have you ever liked someone a lot at first, then found they were bad or mean or disliked someone at first and found them to be truly a very nice person?
this is often in real life also I have had this happen.16 people like this
18 responses
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Aug 18
not me sorry to say. I liked Sam right off. she started out being nice and real with people. doing laundry, cooking, consoling people, etc. now she has seemed to have a total meltdown. she doesn't even want to be there but seems no one wants her out. she is acting really nuts.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Aug 18
I dont watch the show but yes to all the questions at the end.
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
17 Aug 18
I have not seen the AfterDark episodes but I am not going to say that I dislike Sam right now. She was crying and such last week and that was rather annoying but not enough to totally dislike her. I am going to look at Youtube videos now to see if I can find what you are talking about.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Aug 18
last week she got quite scary. like she was loosing it. they didn't show it on the show but it was shown on pop tv and on podcasts talked about. she asked JC if he had ever heard of mud stomping and he said no what you mean? she said that's when you stomp someone into the mud and then there is blood stomping where you throw their head on the curb and stomp their teeth out.
anyway when she left the room, JC said "terrifying " and i agree. she was so serious about it.
this week she seems better again. maybe she is bipolar . who knows
this week she seems better again. maybe she is bipolar . who knows1 person likes this
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Aug 18
@Shellyann36 creepy even. who knew? but then some are saying that she may just be playing the game after all and some of her antics are just a ruse to fool the others
but then some are saying that she may just be playing the game after all and some of her antics are just a ruse to fool the others1 person likes this
@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
21 Aug 18
@bunnybon7 I did look up a youtube channel dedicated to BB. I saw that about the mudhole. I think she is very insecure.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
16 Aug 18
Yes its happened to me a few times too.
More than I could care to count on my fingers.
Never mind I get up again and start all over.
She was your fave one at the start if I remember right.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Aug 18
yes and she has gotten pretty crazy suddenly. not sure why. they say it is hard living in that house like that for 3 months.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
17 Aug 18
@bunnybon7
There must be a lot of pressure that no one could get used to unless they were forced to.
I would not care to be in that at all not for all the money in the world.
If you and Debs were there I might just change my mind and be there 
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@moffittjc (118421)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Aug 18
I am generally a pretty good judge of character, so I have been lucky throughout my life to pick 'em pretty accurately. I'm sure it's happened before, but right now I can't think of anyone who has turned out to be completely different than I thought they would be.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Aug 18
a good judge of character is hard to find. i am not apparently. every year i start out with this show liking the wrong people.
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@moffittjc (118421)
• Gainesville, Florida
27 Aug 18
@bunnybon7 I used to watch that show when it first came out. Even on the show, I was a pretty good judge of character.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
14 Aug 18
Oh this definitely happens in reallife. And I wish I could take back all the time I spent on the few phonies I've met.
However, I'm usually a great judge of character, and that makes me happy.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Aug 18
@Courtlynn you too. how sweet of you to say.
how sweet of you to say.1 person likes this
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Aug 18
i wish i was. would like to say i used to be but obviously not before either what with my 4 poor judgments on marriage 
glad you are now too because you let me be your friend so that says i must be a good person
glad you are now too because you let me be your friend so that says i must be a good person1 person likes this
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
17 Aug 18
@bunnybon7 you are a very good, person.
kind, funny, helpful, caring, loving, awesome friend and person to know.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Aug 18
i feel so bad every time i have to switch gears with people because they were so good at hiding things. i am thinking with this one on big brother maybe she needs some kind of medication. maybe that kind of environment is not for her. because i hear she never signed up to play. they recruited her from a family member and talked her into trying it.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
13 Aug 18
@much2say that is true. some are good at hiding their real selves at first.
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Aug 18
@bunnybon7 Don't feel bad . . . when people show their true colors, then you have to switch gears.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
12 Aug 18
I think only after a long time of understanding, we can really understand a person. Knowing a person completely is not very easy. And people have been changing.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
13 Aug 18
yes i think we never truly know anyone but a complete turn around is unexpected
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
15 Aug 18
I don't watch the show either and yes, some people I liked a lot have turned out to have another side that wasn't attractive and others I didn't like when I first met them have turned out to be great friends so yes, first impressions aren't always right.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Aug 18
thats for sure. i have had it happen so many times that i am thinking i am just not a good judge of character in any way
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
12 Aug 18
yes some are very good at putting on an act. most people do show their best side first
@Marilynda1225 (79664)
• United States
13 Aug 18
Referring to Big Broher: at first I liked Sam and thought she was sweet. After her crying and outburst I think she has a mean streak. Hope she gets evicted!
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Aug 18
yes she was my favorite along with Tyler but now she seems so mean at times. she is obviously loosing it in there. plus people are saying she is actually jealous of those girls she was being so righteous toward at first. i never seem to be a great judge of these right off. like i have grown to like Brett a lot more now and did not at first. i am so amazed at how these young people today can get so close, laying in bed together, rubbing and hugging on each other like they are all a couple and no one thinks anything of it.
i never seem to be a great judge of these right off. like i have grown to like Brett a lot more now and did not at first. i am so amazed at how these young people today can get so close, laying in bed together, rubbing and hugging on each other like they are all a couple and no one thinks anything of it. 1 person likes this
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Aug 18
@Marilynda1225 yes i can't help myself. i been practicly living in the house too what with live feeds, after dark, and youtube all
what with live feeds, after dark, and youtube all1 person likes this
@Marilynda1225 (79664)
• United States
14 Aug 18
@bunnybon7 I'm not crazy about Haeleigh or Rockstar but Sam has totally lost it. I think this is the real Sam we're seeing now and the Sam from the earlier weeks is fake. I don't watch any of the after dark or read any spoilers so I'm pretty surprised when I watch. This has been a crazy season so far
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@JESSY3236 (18891)
• United States
17 Aug 18
I used to like watching Big Brother until they let someone win who I don't think deserve it. Yeah I have had that happen before.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Aug 18
yeah i got mad a couple times over the years and with Survivor also. but to much excitment for me to quit. specially since it's different every year and this year has been the most exciting one they ever had! and i have watched every one.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Aug 18
that is why i missed so much before i had a DVR for a while. now i have streaming so i can watch when i want.
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@wolfgirl569 (95042)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Aug 18
I never watch any of the reality t.v. shows. But yes to the questions.
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@RasmaSandra (73326)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Aug 18
Never watched this show. In real life I once knew someone who I was prepared to dislike but turned out to be a really wonderful person.
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