Why asking too many questions?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 15, 2018 1:57am CST
One time when I was looking for food for my afternoon snack. I went to the store not too far away from where we live. One neighbor eagerly asks me if why she did not see the boyfriend around me. I was kind of caught off guard because I tend not to talk to people especially if I happen to know the person. But this nosy neighbor I know she wouldn't let it pass. "Why I'm not seeing your boyfriend here?" "Where he from?" "Where he work?" Those question in a persisting manner. So I told her this. You don't see him because you are too busy to notice it. The next time he will be here, I'll let you know. Satisfy? Then I walk away and forgot the food I bought. I know I've been too harsh on her but she deserves it because she is one of those rumor mongers who sells rumors.
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@JudyEv (325265)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
Some people like to spread gossip. I'm glad you didn't tell her anything.
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@JudyEv (325265)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
@JustBhem When people are pushing me for information and I know they are just being nosy, I can't help but clam up. I won't tell them anything.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I did give her some information, I hope she satisfied with that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv It would be better if I did that.
@LadyDuck (457304)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
You have not been too harsh, I would have replied "none of your business".
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@LadyDuck (457304)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
@JustBhem They do not deserve other replies, they are nosy and they only love to spread gossip. We have one like this in the neighborhood.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@LadyDuck Yeah, I should have done that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I should have told her that. I got piss already.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
Urgh! So annoying neighborhood! They keep on asking and they'll tell it to everyone! Which is really irritating! I really don't like those type of people, who cares about our daily lives!? haha! Anyway, I got surprised that you already have (39170) whaaaaaaaaaaat!?
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
@JustBhem Your activity count haha! It amazed me a lot! I wish I could have that one too! haha! I've been so active here on myLot but I only have 9363
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
What is that?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@tech40 I see. I did not notice that. Mind my posted discussions too. I did not notice I have a lot too.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
I am curious why is she interested to know?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I wonder too. Maybe she always stalking me.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
I think she has a crush on Bhem's boyfriend :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@sunrisefan I don't know about it. She is just a snoopy kind of person.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Aug 18
oh! hahaha! you have a neighbor who is a 'field reporter' of the 'gossip channel'. yes, i too would feel annoyed when i am asked many questions that are personal. why? we are not show-business personalities and these people meddle with our lives? that person, and she is even a SHE, will find karma coming out of her closet.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Aug 18
@JustBhem true, but it does not mean that she should always ask about you. maybe just one question about 'how you are' and it should not include your boyfriend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 18
@ridingbet Yeah, I will be glad if she asks me that but she did not.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 18
Maybe because they seldom see me outside. I don't use to go out or stay outside even outside our house.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Aug 18
Some people are too much interested in others life ..I hate such people too..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
Me too. Like one time too, I was rush to the hospital because of difficulty breathing, she runs to my Brother who is carrying me and ask what happened to me. Like, what the heck is this woman.
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@popciclecold (35024)
• United States
18 Aug 18
If it's one thing I can't stand, is people who are nosey, and ask questions. You did the tight thing, she probably won't ask again.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Aug 18
I hope so. Because they are still people who are very insensitive when it comes to that.
@vandana7 (98695)
• India
15 Aug 18
I hate such personal interference. I am glad my neighbors have their own lives. May be the expression "get a life" came from there. LOL. That said, I would make it worse for her. I will show him to you if you promise to give me 10000 dollars.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
Ahaha. Atta girl Vanny. If only we can make money out of it. People surely have millions. LOl.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
15 Aug 18
I find some users here doing that. I ignore them. Good thing we have the ability here to ignore users without them knowing that we have ignored them.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Aug 18
Some people like to mind others' business. Especially those who gossip. I don't like them, either.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
Yeah, they are a pain.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
If only we can say ‘None of your business!’ like in some countries. Hehe
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
It would be so rude, Sol. And I should have told her anything and leave.
@dya80dya (33338)
15 Aug 18
I have such neighbours.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I think we all have that kind of neighbors who would not slip it away.
@arunima25 (85267)
• Bangalore, India
15 Aug 18
We find these rumour mongers everywhere in all societies. It is better to ignore and avoid them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@arunima25 And I think so.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
Yes, even my Mother is like that.
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@arunima25 (85267)
• Bangalore, India
15 Aug 18
@JustBhem People have qualities and weakness. It might be her negative.
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