A Thief in the making.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 15, 2018 5:31am CST
I heard my aunt earlier that one of our neighbor's son who happens to be a gay stole money and a mobile phone from someone he doesn't know. The person said that the boy ransacks their store and steal those. The store was lock and didn't even know where did the boy get the key. How did they know? The store owner installs a CCTV camera inside their store. And the boy doesn't know about it. They are looking for the boy. And it's not the first time it happens. Someone also reported the boy stealing money from a fruit stand. I remember seeing the boy a month ago, he has a new phone. I wonder if that is the phone he stole. I wonder why the boy did that? Is it because the Mother is not very attentive to the needs of his kid. I don't know why he needs to steal when in fact his parents can afford to buy him what he wants. What can you say about this?
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
Oh boy. I am at a lost of words. As a parent, it would be hard to accept those. On the boy's side, I hope that he will learn his lesson from this soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
The Mother was worried because the person whom he steals keep pushing to put a case on the kid.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
16 Aug 18
@JustBhem and how old is the kid? She should be worried because the kids is their responsibility. One of the parents can be put to jail instead of the kid or they can be called by the DSWD (social welfare office)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 18
@rakski I think it's on 14, I'm not sure.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
Criminals are criminals and we should not all the time blame their parents, too many of them steal because they are too lazy to work.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
But he is just a kid, 14 years old.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
@JustBhem Does he study? How is it that he is outside without control if he is so young?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
@LadyDuck I heard he was dropping out because of low grades.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Aug 18
The boy has developed the bad habit of stealing. He will be punished for that, sooner or later.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Aug 18
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I think it has something with the society he is in. Like his circle of friends.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 18
I think there is a condition for it. They need to find that boy and arrest him or take him to DSWD if he's a minor.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 18
He is still minor so I think if ever he will get caught. He will be with DSWD.
@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
That is a great shame. I hope he learns a lesson from this and gives up taking things that aren't his.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug 18
@JustBhem It's hard to imagine why he'd do this.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 18
@JudyEv Yes, I think it has something to do with the people around him.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
I don't believe it has something to do with the thought that they are poor. I can see her Mother wearing nice clothes. And why on earth he needs to steal when they can afford to buy anything.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Aug 18
if the mother is not attentive to her son's needs, and the son did steal, maybe the son did that to get attention from his parents? since you said the parents are well-off. or it could be a case of kleptomania?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 18
I don't know. Maybe the Mother just looks like they are well off. I don't know much of them actually because I don't get out of the house.
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@May2k8 (18078)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 18
the lack of attention can indeed trigger a child to steal. However, over-indulgence will also make the child unable to hold back. Steal behavior in children of primary school age is usually caused by a lack of control because parents always grant the child's wishes. As a result the child does not learn that he cannot always get whatever he wants. In older children, aged 10 years and over, this behavior can arise due to challenges or sensations.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
Hmm. These make sense to me.
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@sabtraversa (12924)
• Italy
15 Aug 18
I had friends stealing, but what they stole had little value. Stealing a phone is another story. It sounds like he could be a kleptomaniac. Stealing gives thrills, it can really turn into an addiction and it isn't about the money. Teens do stupid things to have fun most of the time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
And also teens do this so that they have something to brag about.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
Maybe they just seem to be rich. Most neighbors won't show to others or tell their real situation.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Aug 18
OR maybe they are not well off, her Mother looks like rich because of the nice clothes she wears. Not knowing his kid is doing bad things to people.