What You Should Do When You Want To Forget Someone

Philippines
August 17, 2018 9:53pm CST
How will you forget or avoid someone? Sometimes we girls think that a guy like us when they become too attentive to us and forget that there are a few Mr. nice guy, and unfortunately he is next to you... and being slightly stupid we fall for it and get hurt... but of course we can't blame Mr. nice guy about it. Here are some tips to get over it and avoid a sure heartaches: 1. Delete his phone number on your CP. Why? Because if not, you can absently minded sending him a message or dial his number, specially when you misses him the most. 2. Delete his photos on your CP. If ever, you already printed it don't think twice to throw it all away. If you want to forget someone don't let yourself see things that will make you remember about that person. 3. when avoiding him don't make it too obvious. If you are living in the same village, or your are working in the same company, or having the same gym. Make sure to avoid the path and tie where and when you usually meet in the street or in the hall. If you often see him on street at 7 am make sure that you go out on street 30 mins before 7 am. Or if he love to go to coffee shop where you love to go, makes sure to another place to chill, or better make sure not to com on tme when he usually go there. 4. If he talks to you, don't avoid to response, but... Don't start a conversation... and what important is, don't response with a statement that you are AVOIDING HIM. Don't be too obvious. Until everything becomes normal. 5. Be physically and emotionally prepare. If you want to forget him because you think he is not the one, or he is not serious with you and you want to avoid heartaches... make sure to be prepare when you see him with someone else already... beside what is the point of sticking with him, when he does not want you the same way you want him to get in to you. When you are waiting for Mr. Right. Don't get emotional, but remind yourself to do everything you have to do in preparation in meeting him. Meaning make sure you are fixing your issues in life, you are making yourself a better half for that guy... so when he came, there is no circumstances that can stop you to be with him. maturity and ready to commit is what you need to have not emotions... Emotions can come and go, but maturity and commitment was given because of your strong care and love for that person. we can say we love someone if we know how to care and be mature enough to provide the understanding, caring and love that he needs as you journey life with him. To God Be The Glory
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11 responses
@anya12adwi (3973)
• Bhubaneshwar, India
27 Aug
When you try to forget him, you automatically remember him.. So try not forgetting him..
• Philippines
16 Sep
I guess so... but everything is on process... we can't really erase them totally, but cutting all the things that might remind them of us, can help a bit.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
16 Sep
@luisadannointed Yes, and the first step would be remembering the bad memories..
• Philippines
22 Aug
Great tips. It is also important to forgive the person and yourself. That will give you resolution and it will make it easier for you to move on.
• Philippines
16 Sep
I guess so... but I guess it is better to accept the fact that it is not meant to be. Hehehehe...
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• Philippines
22 Sep
@luisadannointed acceptance is always one of the ateps of moving on.
@Berrygal (5527)
19 Aug
Thanks I just saved this, it will really helo
• Philippines
21 Aug
Heheheheh... thank you and God bless. i hope you find the one that will truly love you and not just being nice... I mean everyone is super bless when they found their match.
@Icydoll (25875)
• India
18 Aug
All you have said is right..and also mind diversion is must ,keeping yourself busy is best.
• Philippines
21 Aug
Yeah.. I'll keep that in mind... Keeping oneself busy will take all those thoughts away.
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
18 Aug
I totally agree on what you shared here with us. they do work! and of course you have to be firm and determined to forget the person if you really are serious about moving on. there are times you will be swayed or will think that there could still be a chance to get back together with him or her. but when there are clear signs that its over. its like when you are addicted to something then you will have times that you might go back to the old ways. Just remember to be firm because everything will pass by. Everything will be forgotten, you will be able to forget the person who have hurt you. It may take some time; it is all dependent on the person. I also think there is really no way to 100% forget someone, it is just when time pass by you will think of the person less and less each day, until when you think of the person or if you are reminded by him or her, you will already not feel hurt.
• Philippines
21 Aug
I agree and it is all a part of life and growth, to be a better you and a better half for the right and perfect one.
@ZedSmart (3066)
• Philippines
18 Aug
I think it's just easy to forget someone if its not about relationship or love matter. If it is, your head will keep on spinning. But, the best thing to do is moving on.
@ilocosboy (38846)
• Philippines
18 Aug
All of the above idea are all notable
• Philippines
21 Aug
Thank you and God bless.
• Philippines
18 Aug
Yeah, right. Tip 2 is the best way to do to forget someone so easily.
• Philippines
21 Aug
Hahahahhahaa! I did that!
@andriaperry (61078)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Aug
When I cut someone off, I will walk by and not once look at that person. But they would have had to seriously done something bad for me to do that. Big time betrayal.
• Philippines
21 Aug
Oh! That is too sad... I hate being betray. It is hard for me t forgive and forget.
@iridion9 (10780)
• Philippines
18 Aug
Just be busy and don't be mindful of him.
• Philippines
21 Aug
Thank you for the advice and God bless.
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@Kosgey (1292)
16 Sep
What a touching ideas may you be blessed, it comes at a right time I am parting ways with the one I love.