Asking a help is not a sign of weakness / myLot

Philippines

August 19, 2018 5:55am CST

There are times people don't want to ask for a help in fear of being humiliated so they try to do things their own way. There are also other people who don't want to ask for a help to prove that they can do anything and they are strong. On the other hand, some people are so thirsty on knowledge that they get so persistent asking questions to quench their thirst. And definitely, I belong to this group of people. I love asking questions and ideas to someone whom I know is better than me.

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8 responses

Toni

@toniganzon (72285)

• Philippines

19 Aug 18

Asking questions is not a problem for me, but asking someone to help me with a problem is definitely a no no. My problem is my own. I created it, I am responsible for it, I solve it. I only share it when i've already found a solution.

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Curlann

@annierose (18926)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

You always sounds as a truly independent woman.

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M.-L.

@MALUSE (69413)

• Germany

19 Aug 18

I have no problems whatsoever to ask people for help especially when it is manual work. It depends on the way you ask how people react. Of course, you should also be ready to help others if you can.

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Curlann

@annierose (18926)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

Thanks for sharing your opinion. I think that a good relationship is the one that has give and take on it.

May2k8

@May2k8 (18067)

• Indonesia

25 Aug 18

There is a saying "shy to ask astray on the road". I often ask someone if I need help.

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Curlann

@annierose (18926)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

I think it is not bad as long as we do not do it always.

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21898)

• Thailand

19 Aug 18

so true.. correct with a big check!

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Curlann

@annierose (18926)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

Thank you !

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Moichan Romano

@moichan (666)

• Philippines

20 Aug 18

Asking questions is okay. I just don't get the point of people who asks for help every single time. Especially when it comes to financial help. It's like they are expecting everyone to shoulder their expenses while they sit around waiting for a miracle.

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Curlann

@annierose (18926)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

I hate that too. I lend money but I am careful when it comes with lending money.

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Moichan Romano

@moichan (666)

• Philippines

25 Aug 18

@annierose i totally avoid lending money now since i will put my child's needs at stake. I won't lend a single penny. Every penny is for my baby now. They had all the chance when i was single and working, now they can't expect anything.